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Archived questions from: 28 March, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I try to meet a bircurious guy like myself online?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

28 March 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I am a 16 yr old bicurious male and I was wondering if anyone thought it was or wasn't appropriate for me to try and meet another gay or bicurious male online of my same age. I haven't met any I would like to date in person but am unsure of what is out there. Any and all ... (64 words)

This man that works at the school is always staring and me and its weird!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4650 days ago

28 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So there's guy at my school (he works at the school) and I'm a female student in high school. For some reason during lunch he stares at me. When he is outside supervising kids, he stares at me. Outside in the pick-up and bus areas he stares at me. We have never talked, he ... (336 words)

Could my husband really have went to a massage parlor and not have gotten hard?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

28 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Here is my dilemma with some background: I've been married almost 21 years. Late last year I had sex with someone else one time. Felt bad and my husband could tell so when he asked I confessed instead of lying. He promptly kicked me out. We were separated 4 months but are ... (274 words)

I think I flirted too much and too openly with him and scared him off!

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28 March 2012 (?) age 26-29 - I had flirted with this dude that I had met I think a good few weeks ago. I am afraid I came on too strong(I am very new to flirting with guys so...) But at first he didn't seem creeped out He laughed alot and when all of my friends went away he was asking me alot of questi... (243 words)

I'm attracted to him but can't imagine having sex with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

28 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Long question alert..... So basically I've always thought I was straight until I started getting close with one of my friends; I need to lay out the whole story so bear with me... -I'm from and attend university in Brighton, the most liberal city in the UK, so me no... (595 words)

Looks don't matter, or, are men really this shallow?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) age 36-40 - Well, I know that people always say that looks don't matter to guys, or that they're not the most important thing, but are they just being polite? 'Cause I read an article and it really made me lose a bit of hope in men... http://livingw... (220 words)

Has a woman ever had you under a spell?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

28 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - So have you ever been under a woman's spell? I mean, have you ever been in a relationship with a woman whom you knew was bad for you, but you couldn't break away? I had this kind of relationship last year. A woman I was seeing had me under some kind of power. Even though sh... (123 words)

My ex enjoys spending time with me but no longer loves me. Do I give up on getting him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

28 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, So I was with this guy for 2 years, until we broke up at the end of last year. We promised before we got together that we would still be best friends, and we are, we have such a laugh. He is perfectly aware that I still like him and would happily get back with him... (253 words)

Negative thoughts are getting in the way of my life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

28 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, For the past year or so i have been having really negative thoughts and i am always questioning my looks and personality, i never feel good enough for my boyfriend, i feel worthless and ugly, i hate the way i look and i feel like i don't deserve anything or anyone! ... (301 words)

Can men and women really be just friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

28 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have got my girlfriend over 4 times with guys on a compromising positions, when I ask her about these guys she says they are her friends only and nothing else. Okay my problem is I told her severals times that I personally don't believe on such a thing of two people with dif... (96 words)

Girlfriend lost her license for 5 years. How should I handle it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

28 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend lost her license for five years. We have been dating for eight months. We both have children and we live about 45 miles apart. How would you handle this situation?... (35 words)

Is wearing a sheer or see thru bathing suit OK?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

28 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend (of many years) asked me to remove the lining from a couple of my bikini's, so that when we go to the beach they will be see through. I did this to one of my darker suits, the results being not too dramatic. More noticible on top, but you would really have to ... (289 words)

I'm not really attracted to him, we hooked up and I don't want to lead him on!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

28 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I became friends with this guy a little while ago. We get along so well- mutual interests, great conversations, same views on life, etc. I wasn't initially attracted to him because, not to sound like a complete bitch, he's less attractive than I am and not what I'd usually go ... (267 words)

Should I tell my gf that my ex is pregnant when I'm not sure its mine?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4496 days ago

28 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Should i tell my gf that my ex is pregnant when i'm not sure its mine? I have a grIfriend right now, she became my girlfriend in february, when my ex found out that i have a girlfriend, a few days after, she told me that she was 1 month pregnant and claimed that i am the ... (349 words)

As hard as I try, I'm still not doing as well in college as I wish I was!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

28 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok. So i know this is one of those standardised question but I have to ask. I have lost all confidence in myself at college. Nothing seems to be going my way. I spend ages working and studying at what I am doing in college but it never works out well for me. I just about pass ... (226 words)

I can't let it go that my b/f had sex with his ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

28 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I split up with my boyfriend? To give you a bit of background knowledge, I started seeing my boyfriend after a drunken works night out and it very quickly turned into a boyfriend/girlfriend situation. At the time I was living with my best friend who I had lived with f... (253 words)

We broke up, I had sex with another guy, ex found out and then I had sex with him! Where do I stand with my ex now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

28 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, soo, this is gonna be pretty long-winded, buuut hopefully, somebody will be able to help me. thanks in advance to anyone who is willing to give it a shot. ") for the past year, i've been on-again/off-again with this guy named craig.* we've been through a lot... (728 words)

B/f has time for everything but me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

28 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I'm going out with this guy for over a year now. I love him and all. But off late, things have become very difficult. He just cannot seem to make time for me. Ok, so we had exams for a while and he didn't have time. I get that. But we have holidays now and he still ca... (233 words)

Online g/f said she'd be back and that was 3 weeks ago. Do I let go now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

28 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So ive been in this long distance online relationship, everything seemed like all was going good. We would sit on skype talk to each other all day, sometimes fall asleep talking to each other and just leave skype on all night. Then after about three weeks she just disappears on ... (170 words)

Is he a friend..ore a boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4651 days ago

28 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my friend D met our freshman year, and we have been friends ever since (were seniors now). We drift apart, but something always happens (like our friends death) and we become really close friends when we reconnect. I have had feelings on and off for him, but I was too ... (243 words)

After 8 months together boyfriend has never made me cum

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

28 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel really bad writing this but I need some advice :( me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 months and he has never made me come once :/ i know that sounds horrible and selfish but he doesnt even try. He asks for sex and if i want it too il say yes, doesnt even try ... (172 words)

My family will not be happy that I am dating a man from another race

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4651 days ago

28 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend recently introduced her colleague to me and to my surprise we actually hit off quite well. We've grown very fond of each other but since we both just broke up earlier this year we're taking things slow and getting to know the other party better before going any ... (84 words)

How attracted are you to your significant other?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

28 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - How attracted are you to your partner? The reason I ask this is because I can never find the right person for me. I've found girls I am attracted to but they seem to be disgusted by me. I've found girls that are attracted to me but they don't turn me on. Is this a situation... (142 words)

Is it ok to flirt with someone so young whilst doing business? Or am I just jealous?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

28 March 2012 (F)

age - I was on my partners computer tonight sending email for him on his instructions as he is away when a message came up saying Sally was wanting to talk. I clicked on link and I saw there were messages dating back a few weeks. I was surprised by what I saw. We have a business ... (184 words)

Should I find my wife a younger man to have sex with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

28 March 2012 (M)

age - i have trouble having sex for sometime and now my wife is not interested in sex she says its the mediciene she is taking should i find her a younger man to have sex with to satisfy her needs she has been patient but im afraid she will want sex again? is this out there i would ... (74 words)

How do I improve our friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4651 days ago

28 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, it's Rach again. Right now, I have a problem. But then again, most of us do... On the 3rd week of January this year, I joined a tuition class. There's this guy in my class who I have feelings for. Everytime I see him, they just get deeper. Anyway, so the two of us ... (136 words)

Do any of you have this fantasy? Have you acted on it? Was it fun, or do you deeply regret it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

28 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife and I have this recurring fantasy of me watching her get picked up by a guy at a bar or club and hooking up with him while I watch from across the room. The fantasy always stops short of sex, and never involves them leaving the bar, except maybe the two of them doing ... (320 words)

I need insight as to my feelings about my ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

28 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm 21 and will be turning 22 this year, so I know I'm young yet. However, I never dated until I met my high school sweetheart. WE did everything together and had all the same friends, all the same morals, and beliefs. Our only problem was after dating a few years we ... (292 words)

I have serious insecurity problems and they are going to ruin our relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

28 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello Can anyone help with my issue? I have serious insecurity problems! I have been with my bf for 6 months, when I first met him he was a bit of a jack the lad, out all the time, had girl "mates" calling him all the time, would reply to his girl mate messages with loads of... (332 words)

I can't get out of this affair!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

28 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I need help. I am a maried woman and mother of 2 and had an affair with a man i met on the internet. About 6 months after the affair started my husband found out and i asked him to leave the house because at the time i thought i was in love with the man i was having the ... (453 words)

The three-way relationship seems to be slowly excluding me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4650 days ago

28 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Need advice on a three way relationship. I am a straight guy dating a now bi girl, another girl came into our life and we both took her into our relationship. Only she's more gay than bi so her and my gf spend a lot more time together than I do with either of them. We Still all ... (138 words)

We dated online 4 years ago and now he's back. Should I give him a chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

28 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hey all,so I got abit of a problem here. I used to date a guy online like 4 years ago. we met once,had a great time but that was that. I really used to like him then and he told me he liked me too. But then we lost contact. We lived in two different countries and being in ... (207 words)

I thought my friend was gay but found out he sleeps with women. I'm attracted to him, do I say so?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

28 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a gay male friend and we're really close.I have been attracted to him since day one of knowing him but obviously i tried to keep my thoughts in check, knowing he's gay. I knew that there wouldn't be much chance of getting with him considering he's into other guys. ... (264 words)

Instead of investing in us and our family b/f buys a flat! What's wrong with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

28 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - What is going on inhis head? Myex and Ibroke up several months back, we have 2 kids so we have to be civiland havecontact. to cut a long story short, I waited a long time for him to commit to me and our kids, when I thought is finally got the chance he decides to invest a... (163 words)

How can he love me so much and have such little contact with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

28 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 7 months now, and in the beginning we decided to take it very slow. We had both been single for awhile and our previous relationships had been pretty bad, so we decided that slowly easing into this relationship would be the best approach. ... (391 words)

Why does my b/f treat me so badly now? He never spend money on me or does anything with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

28 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i honestly don't know where to begin, this is going to be a long story but ill try and keep you interested, my friends aren't helpful, and i have a lot to say, i'm hurt, i'm depressed, it bothers me everyday and i can't find a way out, i just can't do it, and i just don't ... (1574 words)

I'm angry at my girlfriend all the time now!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

28 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey ima young male around 18-24. Me and my girlfriend have been together for four years. We have a child together to but now it seems like our relationship is slowly fading. We barely have contact with each other and I seem angry at her all the time and feel deception from her. ... (56 words)

She's the one who is getting him to cheat on me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

28 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - the guy that i've had a crush on finally asked me out, we've been dating for almost a week. and i think he's cheating on me. he's been texting my friend ******** and she's always getting him horny. at first, she said she was happy for us both because we really like each other, ... (142 words)

Is something going on between my B/f and his second cousin? What did those text messages mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

28 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I’d like some input. I, begrudgingly, checked my boyfriend’s phone back in October because I had the strange feeling I couldn’t trust him. I found some text messages he had sent to his second cousin, but they were so obscure that I couldn’t tell for sure whether they were ... (224 words)

How do I keep my friends and stop them wanting a relationship with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

28 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am starting to go crazy here. I am in a healthy relationship. Most of my friends are guys, which I have known for years. Lately, I have had three of those guy friends tell me they want a relationship with me. I just politely say, I am happy with the man I am with, I am not ... (114 words)

How do I find the courage to approach and ask a girl out to the Prom?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

28 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have recently tried to find myself a Prom date for my senior year. I have ahd the toughest time finding one because my old friend group fell apart and the few girls that I know have already been asked and the prom is still another month and a half away. Some background on ... (221 words)

What are the biggest problems that most people have to deal with in a lifetime?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

28 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - What are the biggest problems what most people have to deal with in a lifetime? In my family we have so much problems , that it is hard for me to see, if everybody got problems like that ,or it is out of the ordinary to have them,like that . So two of my siblings were dr... (186 words)

Can happiness cover up the truth?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

28 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - When your hubby is having an affair can you make it go away by letting everyone know that your happy and everything is perfect?... (24 words)

Why would she ask me my sexual orientation?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

28 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Please comment despite the length pls. So I'm not out to everyone that I'm lesbian so at work maybe two people may know. Anyways there's this female that I noticed last month or so who has very beautiful hazel eyes with a nice creamy skin complexion. Last month this female came ... (412 words)

She's dating my ex best friend but is she over me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

28 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 16 years old and bi. My ex best friend was dating this girl, and this girl decided to break up with her to date me. We dated for three weeks and then she decided that she wanted to go back to my ex best friend. This caused a bunch of drama, which is I call my best friend ... (271 words)

I want to forgive my boyfriend for being involved with this girl but I have too many questions!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

28 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend of almost 2 years. Recently, we got into a huge fight and we broke up. During the time we broke up, we still see each other and hang out. Finally, we got back together after 5 days. Few days after, my friend told me that I should break up with him because... (594 words)

I've fallen for a woman!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

28 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - What do I do if I'm Completly in love with someone, like when I see them my heart skips a beat I stutter and I make us both feel uncomfortable. I'm not lesbian, but Iv fallen for a woman, I don't think she is one either, but everybody thinks she is. The thought of it makes me ... (107 words)

Love at first sight, scared of being rejected

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4651 days ago

28 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I am a 30 year old single woman and I have completely fallen for one of my child`s teachers. I have remained single for so long - not just waiting for the right man for me AND my 2 children (lost their father many years ago when they were just toddlers) but al... (418 words)

Stared At by A School Employee... Need Advice!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

28 March 2012 (F)

My ex said he'd fall in love with me again but then cut all contact

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

28 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Why would he do that? I'm so hurt:(? I got back with my ex after a year split. He said he didn't want a relationship. A year later I was still sad and missed him everyday. Here got in contact again and got back together. He told me things would be different(good) ... (198 words)

What to do about unhealthy sex affair?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

28 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Having a 2 yr fling with a younger man.We only see each other once month and the only time we communicate is when it's time for us to hook up again.I for the ride just for sex.When we started I was married as well but divorced since then for non.related reasons.I'm confused I ... (157 words)

Does he have feelings for another girl?

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28 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I had been together for nearly 4 and a half years. To cut a long story short, he used to work with a girl I felt uncomfortable with because she is very pretty/sexy, confident, flirtatious... you get the picture. I may have felt jealous but it did not begin to ... (829 words)