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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I told the guy I'm dating I want to be with him and no response yet.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

25 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Guys or ladies, I would loooove some advice please! I have been casually dating a guy long distance now for bout 5 minths now known him for a year. He lives in kentucky I stay in california. Seeing each other is never a problem we take turns flying to each other, we always have ... (399 words)

Is there anything that can make up for a sub-optimal sized penis?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

25 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - If you are a woman who can have vaginal orgasms during penetrative sex (not g-spot orgasms), can you please tell me whether there is anything at all about a man that can make up for a sub-optimal sized penis during penetrative sex? E.g. for an average woman, Somethin... (144 words)

I'm dating a girl who sleeps in the same bed as her male friend and doesn't see anything wrong with it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

25 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - This is a bit long winded but I just want to give you as much info as possible so bear with me. I started seeing a girl (shes 24, I'm 28) and we had been on like 3 or 4 dates. I was also seeing her most nights after work as we live very close. We had kissed several times (l... (485 words)

I have a crush on my 7 year older 1st cousin

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

25 March 2012 (F) age 26-29 - I'm a girl and i have a huge crush on my older cousin. She is 7 years older than me but still, everytime when she comes over to our house she is all i can think about. I have known her since i was little and we are very close. But i can't help that everytime i se her i want to ... (87 words)

My parents have a low opinion of me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

25 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm feeling hurt to come to the realize that my parents have a low opinion of me. Growing up I had low selth esteem and no confidence but now I have bags of confidence and a good opinion of myself. I'm truly turning my life around for the better in so many different ways. ... (224 words)

I'm feeling a mess, please help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

25 March 2012 (F) age 51-59 - Dumped almost a year ago , I never got a reasonable answer,(short term relationship), happily single for years before that. I didn't want lots of questions from family/friends in case it didn't work out (guess I was right there...)so said we were just friends - only 1 person ... (319 words)

Will he cheat with her again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

25 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Here I go: I meet him at work(we worked in different dep) We started talking and doing activities together. Sex came in the picture, everything was fine, we started going for lunch at work, seeing eachother after work for movies, drives out of the city, etc. So I started ... (361 words)

How can I be confident? I don't have many friends!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

25 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi My problem is that I do not have too many friends. I don't make friends too easily. I'm shy and at times feel conscious. And it comes in my way of socializing and having many friends...which I would like to have. Its not that I have a repulsive personality or anything,... (239 words)

I'm meeting her tommorow but not sure how to act?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4362 days ago

25 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Yesterday, I've hooked up with a girl . I liked her for several months and even thought, she had rejected me once before now she finally said Yes. I couldn't believe and after she said Yes I kept staring at her with my mouth open. After that I started asking her stupid ... (218 words)

I've got a crush on an actor! Please help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

25 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Firstly, please take this question seriously, because it is really bothering me. I just don't want people to think I'm some whiney child or something. Basically, I have really strong feelings for this nineteen year old actor. He is fairly famous and american. The issue is I hav... (170 words)

Am I his backup plan?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

25 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - okay, I've liked this guy for about 4 months now. 4 months ago, he told me he liked me. Yet, when my friends asked him out for me (which, although I wanted to go out with him, I didn't want them to do), he said no. Recently, he went out with someone else and, at first, it ... (479 words)

I started to love him, but its complicated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

25 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - First thanks for reading and please answer :) I am 20 and before the graduation. I decided that I will continue my studies in the movie-field as I always wanted to be a director. So, I chosed the school and applied for a course. On the course there is a very interesti... (614 words)

Do I have to tell someone the stupid stuff I did as a kid if we're in a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

25 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone. When I was kid, and a younger teen I did some stupid stuff, that I regret, it's nothing serious, just stupid stuff. My question is to have a serious, long term, intimate relationship, do I ever have to mention the stupid things I did as a kid? Or can I ... (71 words)

Her promiscuous past and comment about "I wouldn't have dated you then because of your appearance" have really shook me up!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

25 March 2012 (M)

age - Dear Cupid, I am nearly 49 dating a very special 51 year old woman for about eight months now. She is extremely fun, beautiful and sexy and I love all that about her and more. Early in the relationship, she admitted to me about her promiscuos past (I wondered why) bu... (314 words)

Nervous, or leading me on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4654 days ago

25 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - i met this girl who said she is looking for a relationship. but she does not want to get hurt again, she sent me questions would i kiss her if i had the chance. she said she enjoys hanging out with me is she leading me on?... (47 words)

Is a good/bad idea to be friends with an ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

25 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi again, I just would like to ask the pros and cons of having an ex girlfriend as a "friend", like hang out, do stuff with them, I was wondrin if its a safe move to get her back or will i be risking frustration if ever i see her dating another guy and im just like her ha... (71 words)

How do I get his number?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

25 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Heyya :) There is this boy in the year above me in school. We have recently started texting. He texts me everyday and he always starts the conversation with me. We also talk whenever we get the chance at school and when we hang out. He's a really nice boy and we are good fri... (433 words)

What should I do? I feel he's going to get away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

25 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've kind of had this thing with a guy for a few months now, we've kissed several different times at parties and stuff and texted in between. But when we're in school he's just not able to talk to me, and I'm not able to talk to him. He's quite popular and I'm not really so we ... (155 words)

Boyfriend has become way too skinny and his eating habits are driving me nuts!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

25 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - This may seem like a silly question, but it's something that's really starting to get to me severely. My boyfriend and I recently moved in together. We had lived together once before but his job moved away so we ended up back with our parents. We've been together for 4.5... (560 words)

The guy I met online..is he a girl trying to be a guy? If so, why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

25 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, i met this guy online and he was different from other guys i mean he was cute and i really thought he loves me but when i started to talk to him on the phone his voice sounded like a girl's voice. Is that normal for a 17 year old guy? And he says he has a sister but he ... (165 words)

At what point is it not considered a rebound relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

25 March 2012 (F)

age - If after a long-term relationship ends the dumper becomes involved with one woman after another at which point do these relationships not be considered rebounds? Also, if the dumper becomes heavily involved with these other woman immediately afterward with "I love yous", moving ... (112 words)

Does it sound like he wanted to kiss me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

25 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am the second shyest and awkwardest person on the planet. The most shy and awkward person is the guy I'm into. We are both 19 and college students, and we've become pretty good friends over the last few months. I've been into him for a while; every person in our circle of ... (298 words)

He says he isn't going to change for anyone. Should we just break up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

25 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and I have been together a year now. he relies on me for a lot of things, money, lifts, etc but as he is depending on me more frequently we are beginning to argue more.he does work full time but is absolutely useless with money,hence me having to bail him out. he ... (198 words)

Dating a divorced man

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

25 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone! I have been with this guy for 2 months now and he is in the process of getting a divorce. He was very honest to me in the very first time. He told me after he broke up with his ex wife, he only went out with 4 girls and nothing serious. He told me he really lik... (621 words)

I don't have a great sense of humor. Is this why I have trouble with women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

25 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, here's the problem. As I'm writing this, I apologize if it sounds a bit ranty. I'm fresh out of the situation that made me. . .jealous. Right after work, me and my buddies stood around and talked/laughed for a while. We were having a good time, until one of my friends ... (649 words)

My friend is dating an older guy who's a womanizer and it worries me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

25 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My friend (she is 14) has been daydreaming about a guy that is 4 years older than her (18) we'll call him B and her A. she has only seen him once and talks to him on facebook nearly non-stop. She told me that he has wanted to meet up with her on several occasions and she has ... (296 words)

I get so tired of having to feel like a sneak like I just want people to know I have found someone else but its impossible

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

25 March 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - am having an affair and need advice basically i am married 14 years to my wife I am 40 she is 39, we never had kids because she never wanted them at the time i thought it didn't matter because i was in love with her, i don't need children but about 5 years later when my ... (645 words)

I'm pregnant and he cheated on me. Should I give him another chance?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

25 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - im 19 years old and my boyfriend is 21 years old. Last week my boyfriend went clubbing with his friends and brother while i stayed home alone. I am 6 months pregnant with our first---twins. While he went clubbing he started dancing with this girl and they end up having sex. ... (301 words)

G/f doesn't want sex because she's having issues with herself

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

25 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and had great sex for the first six months now she doesn't ever want to. She says she's having issues with herself. I don't know if I can believe her or not. Yes I'm a woman also. What do i do? ... (43 words)

Mix up in plans! What do I tell my father?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4654 days ago

25 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So confused, I have two little sisters one lives with me and my mum and one lives with my dad the other side of town, my boyfriends parents kept asking when I was going to bring them so I asked my dad to bring my sister so I could take her then I told my boyfriend and his ... (129 words)

I loved her but she played me for a fool

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

25 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this girl. I had a thing for her since we were 12. I had moved continents when I was 12. I only got in contact with her when I was 18, we started chatting since last October. We used to chat basically every day. Our timezone was different so it was awkward but she ... (492 words)

The way he looks at me, does that mean he loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

25 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - hey guys,i'm with my boyfriend for a month now, and i'm so happy with him and i think i'm in love with him, he gave me my first kiss, he treated me well,he's so funny and he said 'i love you' everytime we are together and when he kissed me he said it and he hugs me so tight,he ... (187 words)

Should I abandon it now so he can find someone that loves him just as much as he loves me and I can concentrate on my dreams?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

25 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have signed up for this website for the purpose of my issue. This may be lengthy but I appreciate anyone willing to hear what I have to say. I've had my fair share of relationships but I met a guy from England online in late November of last year. He was everything I ... (1568 words)

Please help me, I am all alone!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

25 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, 5 months ago I came out of a bad 6 month relationship, My first. It left me on antidepressents and shattered. Now 5 months on, I want to move on but no one is interested. My previous relationship nerly lost me all my friends and everyone one knows me wont go any ferther ... (173 words)

I want my revenge!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

25 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am going crazy because of his sexual past. I think its because it happened while we were broken up. I feel as though, if he hadn't messed up the way he did, none of it would have happened. We wouldn't have broken up and it wouldnt have happened. The part of me that is cr... (381 words)

All the signs say he loves me but still I am scared he doesn't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

25 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello there, I've been with my boyfriend for a year almost (like in two weeks we've been together a full 12 months) and I am smitten with him. When things are good they are 'perfect', he adores me, buys me everything, spends time with me, loves me, we're the 'perfect' couple, ... (490 words)

Why are my nipples so tender when he plays with them now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

25 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So, lately, whenever my boyfriend plays with or sucks on my nipples they feel somewhat tender and it's not as peasureable as it used to be. We've been together for a little over six months and he's the only one that I've done this with. He's always been very gentle with me, so ... (79 words)

I just used her for sex so how do I end it and still look good?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

25 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I started screwing, nothing serious, around with this chick from my job when I'm home from college. She was a rebound girl from my last relationship and i wasn't being to pick when i choose her. I'm not saying I'm a great catch but I'm way out of her league. I mean I don't even ... (119 words)

He will kiss me on a Monday through to Friday but never on a weekend when its my day of rest!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

25 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - i love my boyfriend very much, but i dont understand something he does. we hang out every day, and everything goes well, but on my days off (weekends) he goes and does other things, for instance tonight he is at his inlaws. i did work today for the afternoon. he emailed me, and ... (190 words)

I'd like to see her Wild Side!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4655 days ago

25 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - my gf says she enjoys sex but i feel like she never really opens up during it... she never lets me see her wild side which i know she has. in the past she was known for that certain kind of behavior and has suffered from terrible self esteem from long before she started any of ... (143 words)

I'd like to kiss him just to see what its like. Does that make me gay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

25 March 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Im a 14 year old male. Ive had 4 girlfriends and im not looking right now. One of my bestfriends got a girlfriend and i feel kinda left put but i dont know why. The my other friend is from the middle east and doesnt know as much english as i do. He has a brother and them and ... (231 words)

I don't want anything serious, should ask my friend for something casual?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

25 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - There's a friend I met at college by the start of October 2011. We are not really close friends, but we hang out well in college. I'd say I'm the person she talks the most to in college, although the person I'm the closest to in college is another girl who I am in love with and ... (598 words)

Should I break my 'don't date clients' rule for her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

25 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a tattoo artist by profession and I believe that ethically I shouldn't date any client...But am I wrong? I'm absolutely crazy about a girl who's getting a tattoo off me in a few days...I've been refraining from asking her out on an actual date because of my rule...Lately ... (119 words)

Post abortion guilt is now setting in

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

25 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I had an abortion last November. I had been going out with this guy for a few months, the relationship had all happened very quickly as the boy I was in love with, who I had been seeing but never was officially with for three years got a girlfriend over the summer. I didn't k... (272 words)