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Archived questions from: 11 March, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Boyfriend identifies himself as "queer" Does that mean he doesn't consider himself male or female?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - hello people, quick question. my bf says he gender queer does that mean he doesn't identify as being male or female. assuming I'm right about the above, what does that make his pronoun, he she? neither? both? thanks for any help you give toph... (54 words)

How can I increase my chances of having twins?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

11 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everyone, i have a very simple question. im trying for another baby but i would like to concieve twins.... any ideas how to increase my chances? iv heard about eatting sweet potatos any thing else?... (36 words)

Is my boyfriend trying to protect me or control me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

11 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I guess I should start by saying that my life has been chaotic the past month. I've been looking for a job for a few weeks with no success, and ended up taking a job at a "gentleman's club". I'm not dancing! Just waitressing. It's been rather demoralizing, but I needed ... (576 words)

Should I write him? Would he really call me a drama queen if I told my real feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4668 days ago

11 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my ex(x) and I broke up nearly 3 years ago we were only 16 and I was always jealous and he got drunk one night and kissed another chick and broke up. I wanted him back but the following months he just used me to make out but he wanted another chick who just wanted to be frie... (338 words)

I want to leave my girlfriend because she is not a virgin, advice?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

11 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a year now and we both love eachother. When I met her she was in a relationship and we started off as friends and she ended up leaving her ex boyfriend for me, She's never done anything bad, she's faithful, honest, and she's always ... (415 words)

Why do people think my relationship will end? She is my first and last love!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

11 March 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone, I wanted to know about love. Why does everyone say its my first love so I am very passionate about her(by the way her name is may). I love her very deeply from my heart and will do anything for her. I would give my life if I have to leave her. I met her on the ... (360 words)

I'm still in love with my ex but we broke up 2 years ago, help me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

11 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've met someone four years ago, we stayed together for 2 years then kept going in and out of the relationship. I can't forget, I can't move on. I need to kill this love in my heart. The mind got forget but the heart just won't let go. I know it is not going to work but I ... (79 words)

Is this guy using me for sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

11 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - X and i had this brother sister thing going on at first and made it very public. we got very close and we even have the same friends. later, i realized that i had a crush on him (X) i told him that one day and after a brief period of not talking to each other, we started ... (236 words)

Am I over reacting? He's chatting to other women and telling them he loves them!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 8 1/2 yrs and I recently discovered he is chatting with women from the Phillippines via webcam again. This is something we got into several arguments about 4 years ago (and he promised to stop) and now I've discovered him doing it again. First, ... (202 words)

How do you date someone suffering from depression?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

11 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i just recently learned my bf may be suffering depression. I asked him what's going on with our sex life and he didn't want to talk about it but eventually said he has no sex drive. I asked if it had been a problem in past relationships and he said it had been for the last few ... (166 words)

My husband is fearful of touching me, I want to know techniques and ways I can satisfy him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

11 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My Husband is sexually so active (2-3 times/day in an intercourse, and last for 50-60 mins each time or 7-8 time if masturbating),for the first few months of our marriage, i used to bleed after intercourse, and feel sore even though, i checked with the doctor and now that ... (121 words)

He's changed and has stopped being so affectionate. How can I start that up again?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

11 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hiya. My boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 months now (well, in 4 days anyway) and at first, it was really nice. I used to be afraid of kissing and he let me get over it. Then for the next month he was really affectionate and paid a lot of attention to me. But recently... (169 words)

He doesn't know if he can be my b/f but yet he keeps texting me

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

11 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So I'd been seeing this guy for three weeks, known him for a month. We'd seen each other 3 times in this period of time. I finally plucked up the courage yesterday to ask him what was going on between us and he said he wasn't sure what he wanted and that his head was all over ... (124 words)

Have you ever smelled a perfume that enticed you?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

11 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - This question is for Women, but men are welcome too. Have you ever smelled a perfume that enticed you? ... (23 words)

He wants a FWB relationship and I don't think I can do that

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

11 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have just come out of a relationship and my man told me he wanted to be friends as he just isn't in the right head space for a relationship. He then said he wanted to get to know me more sexually. I asked if that meant friends with benefits, he said yes. I explained ... (101 words)

Are you always going to miss your ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

11 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I was just wondering do you always miss your ex?. Like I broke up with mmy ex 4 years ago but at times i still miss him...Does this happen everyone and does this stay with you forever?... (37 words)

Do women just naturally need or want less from their marriages as they get older?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

11 March 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Do women in their mid-40's just naturally start reverting back to who they were before marriage? My wife and I have been togethernfor many years. It was always me and her, the two of us together, no matter what. However, now that our kids are a little older and don't need a... (414 words)

Should I tell my LDR boyfriend that I don't like what he gets me? He doesn't know what I like

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

11 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - im in a ldr. we always communinicate and have ups and down but this valentines day he send flowers and cake, but he forget my bday, and he didnt give me pressies. which is ok.but it really upset me.. and this next month, his comming over but i really feel aloof to him. like i ... (209 words)

My best friend has started dating and is using the girl to avoid me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

11 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to do about my best friend. He started dating this new girl and for some reason is avoiding me. Anytime I ask him to come over he makes up a lame excuse like, "he has to take his niece to the mall." Yesterday, i had finally got him to say he was going to come ... (140 words)

What steps do I take to get back and be happy by myself ,knowing that I'm not single

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

11 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - for the first time in our relationship..which is long distance from a while, my boyfirnd of two years ,who is too bust ,stressed and burdened with work and responsibilities in his life ..is asking me for "space" he also said that i give less importance to myself ...and though ... (542 words)

The expression "stop looking and you'll find someone" isn't working for me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

11 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I've heard this over and over again... That the reason I can't find a girlfriend is because I'm looking for one, and that as soon as I stop looking, I'll suddenly end up in a relationship. "Happens when you least expect it," "I found my partner when I stopped looking" etc. ... (240 words)

He wont let me move on!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

11 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Whats going on in his head? At the start of this year my live in partner and i split up, this was because he was abusive to me and because he said id given him kids he didnt want. He is due to move into his new flat anytime now, he lives at his friends currently. He has just ... (218 words)

How can I act like I don't give a damn after a horrible date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4662 days ago

11 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - OK, I had this little crush for a guy that I see socially once or twice a week, only I suspect because of his looks, and because I thought he was a bit shy, very smart, and I liked his relaxed ways. He asked me to go out once, and then, during the date, he asked me to go out a... (421 words)

Why do I want my ex back when he was so awful to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

11 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - i was in an abusive relationship for about 5 months.. i love him very much he was everything to me. i gave up my family and friends for him, we were living together at my apartment which he didnt help at all.... he was verbally abuse with me, he never hited me but he was ... (387 words)

Should I go out with the guy that I broke up with my boyfriend for?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

11 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I broke up with my boyfriend because I fell in love with another guy..is that bad...? Me and my bf had a long dist relationship for 8 months but we wre together for A year before that...the problem is that when I moved I fell in love with another guy and I felt guilty so i... (90 words)

He said he hasn't loved me for a long time.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

11 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys I am very sad and hurting right now because My boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me because he told me he hasn’t felt love for me the same way as before in a long time. We were constantly arguing almost everyday. He used to say he loved me but I think he doesn't ... (97 words)

My parents do not approve of my LD online boyfriend and want me to break up with him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

11 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Aunts, I met my boyfriend on facebook like 2 years ago. We have developed feeling to each other since then and we started dating. It didnt take long for us to develop such feeling coz we have the similar interests. We live in 2 different continents separated by oce... (276 words)

Is it OK if the girl calls after 4 dates, or does that ruin 'the chase'?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

11 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Guys Should we call you after say 4 dates? Or do you lose interest and back off if you dont feel like you're in " the chase" Honestly. If you've started calling/texting less what gives?... (40 words)

Just flirting, or is he a cheat?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

11 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I think my boyfriend is cheating on me. He flirts with my best friend, he grabs her booty while hugging her, and his best friend told me hes a player. Honestly I trust my boyfriend but I just seem to have these doubts in my head. (Hearing myself complain makes it sound like Im ... (144 words)

He tried to cheat with my best friend now he's after his ex again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

11 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Number 1 is what happened to me in 2010. Number 2 is what is currently happening. Please Help !! 1) Okay so my situation is really weird. I met this guy who is now my husband on May 26th 2009. That same year in August I lost my virginity to him. a month later I found out I... (635 words)

My boyfriend told me he is attracted to another girl

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

11 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okkk...my boyfriend is steady saying he loves me but yet he told me that he is atracted to this other girl.he also told me that he isnt falling in love with her or anything he only loves me but i dont know what to do about this...an we broke up 2 times already an he asked me ... (85 words)

I'm confused and frustrated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy and I have become friends over the last few months. I am into him and while I've never directly told him this, it's no secret; he has to be very well aware of it. In many ways it seems like he's into me too. We hang out a lot, stay up all night on the weekends, talk ... (479 words)

My ex is stalking me and making my life hell. what do I do about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4669 days ago

11 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid aunts, im in a bit of trouble. This is a long story so please bare with me.. I broke up with my boyfriend of 9 months...lets call him mike....2 months ago. We were constantly arguing, he was possesive and didnt like me talking to other guys. He acused me of cheating... (503 words)

Should I give him space and hope for the best?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

11 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i was just needing some advice. I have only been seeing this guy a few months , we meet on a dating site and he is a realy nice guy and exceptionaly good looking. he made our relationship official as we were spending every day together over summer. then he had to move back ... (310 words)

My wife was turned on by sexy pole dancers

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

11 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - We have been married for almost 9 years and have had a good sexual life. Recently in one of our trips abroad we went to an all girl strip tease/ pole dance show together and I really enjoyed it. What I found surprising is that even my wife really enjoyed it and we had really ... (125 words)

I am 30 years old and desperate to be loved - if only for one day

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

11 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, sorry for writing a lot but I hope someone here can help me. I am 30 years old and desperate to be loved - if only for one day. All my friends all the people I know in my age group have had at least one relationship. I know that some of these relationships have gone ba... (337 words)

Jitters about new guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

11 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a new "something" with a guy I've know for a little while. I like him soooo much it bugs me and it's hard to not call or text ALL the time so far I let him initiate it 90%. We've gone out 4 times and slept over twice But not had sex, just making out We talked about ta... (169 words)

I'd like to be honest about my issues but I don't want to scare him off

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 March 2012 (F) age 30-35 - ive gone through alot in the past year for this i have been put on anti depressants and i am seeing a counsellor. it was family related and i was the pillar of strength but it caught up with me. i am now seeing a guy who i really like and we are very compatible, i feel ... (159 words)

I feel so damaged and undesirable...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

11 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I need to move on from a relationship. I am in a really down place. I feel like I cannot trust even my family as they have walked all over me while I have been trying to recover from something really difficult. I am starting to believe that they just plain don't love me. I need ... (131 words)