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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm not happy when I'm single

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4648 days ago

30 March 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I've been in a few relationships now and I enjoyed them, however I have found that whenever I am not in a relationship I feel very alone and sad. Ive been single for about 4 months now and I still can't be happy with my life, any help??... (48 words)

I don't want my dad to die, he's all I have!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

30 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - hey everyone, i just want to tell you all my life story cuz my friends don't get me. they're not mature enough to understand what i'm going through. ok im from africa, i came to america 2 and a half years ago, i live with my dad, i thought i was the happiest girl in... (592 words)

My ex is pregnant. How do I find out if its mine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

30 March 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - What should I do? Went out with girl 4.5 years, she cheated, we got back together, she dumped me we got back together. End of last year was dumped again, I'm thinking cheating again .. Swears not no one else.. She wants no contact, I'm still being friendly (this has happened ... (141 words)

GIrlfriend gets annoyed when I try to spice up our sex life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

30 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - ok so i have tried to spice up my sex life with my gf however when i have asked her about certain things she gets annoyed with me. we have always had a lot of sex almost every day for over 3 years now. in the last year however she seems to be bored during sex and i feel like ... (289 words)

I'm addicted to paying for pornography

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

30 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - First a little about me. I'm a male, 23 years old, about three friends, never had a girlfriend or sex, not even kissing. I am addicted to pornography. However, what's even more self-destructive is that I am addicted to PAYING for pornography. Watching average fr... (553 words)

How do I control my sexual urges? I've gone from a highly sexual relationship to one where there's no sex yet

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

30 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I was in a long term relationship where I was having sex about 5 times a week, now I'm no longer in that relationship I'm finding that I'm having problems adjusting to having no sex life, I'm with another guy now but he's a virgin and we haven't been together that long so I ... (117 words)

My Friend will not associate with unattractive People, is this common?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

30 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm 40, he's 22 and we've only been friends a short while. He's very intelligent - and I thought deep, until he told me that he doesn't associate with unattractive people because it badly reflects on him. He's heterosexual and his male friends have to be attractive also. I ... (182 words)

What does it mean when a guy wants YOU to tie HIM up?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

30 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is into restraints, or whatever it's called, where your hands are tied to the bedpost, and sometimes feet are tied to the.... bottom of the bed? wtf is it called? But anyways, he said once that he wants me to tie him up... What does that mean? I thought i... (71 words)

I don't feel he wants to be with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4649 days ago

30 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm a bit confused about whats going on in my "relationship cycle" and also whats going on in my boyfriend's head! the background: we've been together for two years now, this is a long distance relationship right now.we had a great relationship with loads of attraction until th... (973 words)

I need to get over him pretty soon!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4648 days ago

30 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys well my question is how to get over someone........a bit of background info I ve recently got closer to this lad at college, we talk daily. I really really like him, When I am with him its amazing, i feel so happy but sometimes if we don't talk or we ve had a little ... (152 words)

Boyfriend thinks of me as a breeding factory, if I can't have kids, he'd leave me!

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

30 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in a relationship for about 2.5 years with someone who is wonderful, caring, supportive, etc. We have been through a lot, and I sincerely saw him as the one. He already considered us married but it doesn't work that way for me. Nonetheless, we had a good ... (799 words)

Is opening up realistically a bad move to do in a troubled relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

30 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright, so i am gay but i doubt this matters since my question should apply for any relationship. I've had a lot of experiences of breaking up and i've found that it almost always start from when i'm opening up to the one i love. Either because he has become distant, cold or... (189 words)

How would you describe this text?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - How would you describe this text message sent by a male friend to me after I had asked about a drink and he said to me you will have to be quick. 'You know i love nothing better than a woman who comes quickly'. Is this classed as a jokey, innuendo or double entendre text... (68 words)

I want a romantic boyfriend who plans surprises!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

30 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Last Night I saw my boyfriends roommate leave with his girlfriend and I could not figure out where they went it's none of my business of course, but they just vanished and when I woke up this morning I saw a bag and a few blankets and a bottle of wine and figured it out; he ... (238 words)

Have any guys on here gone to a bar alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

30 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been on my own for a long time now. It has been bothering me for a while but it has only become a problem recently. I don't have particularly great coping skills and feelings of loneliness have become overwhelming. I really need to make some changes/progress. I am a ... (169 words)

We admitted how we felt about each other but he has totally backed off!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

30 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I'd really like a second person's opinion of this "situation" as i have a tendency to overreact. I have this friend who, while i've known for a while, has only just become my really close friend within about the last 3 years. And yes, we mainly speak through ... (822 words)

Why are men so reluctant to get rid of their porn collection when they have a girlfriend?

This question has 36 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

30 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Can somebody help me? Why are men so reluctant to get rid of their porn collection even when they say their girlfriend is enough and is beautiful? Everybody says something like everyone has fantasies what does that mean? They are looking at the same thing we've been doing. How ... (54 words)

What are the chances of my ex falling in love with me again and us getting back together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

30 March 2012 (F)

age - I'm still in love with my exboyfriend. He sayes he loves me and cares for me, but not in love with me any more. We still talk from time to time and have an occasional drink every now and then. What are the chances of him falling in love with me again or getting back together? I ... (76 words)

Could circumcision be to blame for me not being able to get an erection?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

30 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - i have undergone circumcision last year. But now i feel that my sensation in the operated region is reduced and also the sexual drive. i am not able to erect properly during intercourse. Is the surgery being done wrong or something else? ... (43 words)

Over the past few months our sex life has declined, and he is spending more time taking care of himself.....what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4649 days ago

30 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly two years. I realize that over time, sex can dwindle a bit as relationships progresses, but I'm trying to keep the flame alive. He seems, overall, less enthusiastic. I find myself initiating sex most of the time. I've tried ... (277 words)

Why doesn't he love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

30 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - i have known this guy for like 2yrs, he is married but not really very happy into this relation of his. i "really" love him and even broke up with a boyfriend of 4years for him,because i dint want to cheat on him. he used to like my best friend in the same workplace and i was ... (307 words)

I feel trapped in a faux relationship! She broke up with me but still expects me to fund her!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

30 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello people I wonder if you can help me I am in a big big dilemna in my life at the moment, 8 months ago while I was travelling around in north america, I hooked up with my 'girlfriend' who i stayed with for 3 1/2 months to cut a long story short I had to leave Canad... (536 words)

Is this a game to keep me and three kids on a string, instead of us both moving on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

30 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Is this part of his emotional games? My ex and i have been broke up for 4 mts now. When we were in a retionship our sexlife was non exsistent, we would go months without any intimacy and when we did it was never intimate. We had a good xmas and new yr but he never came near me. ... (203 words)

He's gay but fools around with girls, but he's never made a move on me! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

30 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys and gals, I'd appreciate some help here.... There's this guy who's my college friend. He's gay and I think he's hot! Seriusly, im very attracted to him. Now recently i got a lil shock when i heard through the rumor mill that he was fooling around with chicks... S... (394 words)

Would you spent a lot on a birthday gift for your partner if you received nothing for yours?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

30 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Im curious to find out others opinions on this. Would you spent a considerable amount of money (over $400) on a birthday present for your boyfriend, if he did not get you anything for your birthday? (birthdays are few months apart). I know it isn't always about receivin... (79 words)

I agreed to an open relationship, he said we'd talk about it once I was back off holiday but still no word....should I mention it?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

30 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so I've been seeing this guy for the last six weeks. 4 and half weeks ago, he said he could only be in a relationship with me, if he had the chance to have sex with other women otherwise he wouldn't be happy in the relationship. so I said I could deal with it as long as I ... (135 words)

Is it normal to want to explore women but not be interested in them?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

30 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I want your advice and insight. I'm straight, I have a boyfriend but I often have fantasies of having sex with girls and I really enjoy watching lesbian porn. It feels weird to say that, but I feel like it's true. Or...maybe it just really really turns me on. Sometimes I'm not ... (141 words)

We've been friends for years and now it looks like it might be something more, but there are a few things that worry me about him, plus I don't want to ruin our friendship! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4649 days ago

30 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. For the first time in my life ive met somone who has all the basic things I want in a man. We've been close friends for 7years and he's been asking me out all 7years but I always laughed him off cos I never saw us together. Now years have gone by and I'm seeing things ... (280 words)

How do I pursue my one night stand? It seemed like he wanted more!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

30 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So I had this one night stand with this amazing guy, we cuddled afterwards and he held my hand. He spent the night and cuddled me in the morning and did it again. We spent some time talking and had alot in common. We felt connected and he blew off work that morning to spend ... (194 words)

He texts his ex while we are kissing and cuddling! Should I be worried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

30 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend has been texting his ex-girlfriend lately while we're kissing, or cuddling and it's starting to bug me. we had a fight about it and he said that i could read thier conversations, but i didn't because i thought i was over reacting. he hasn't texted her while we... (96 words)

I always have to initiate conversation and contact with a friend, is our relationship worthwhile?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4649 days ago

30 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been getting to know a friend better over the past few months, we have similar interests, we get along quite well and have a good time when we go out together. Considering that I have just resolved issues with my ex-girlfriend it isn't as if I'm attempting to pursue her ... (255 words)

Why does my ex continue to try and hurt me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

30 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Why does he continue to try and hurt me? My ex and I split up several months ago he have children. It was I who ended it as he had not been a good partner. In the relationship there was no trust, there had been lies, he is an abusive man physical, verbally and emotiona... (156 words)

How can I convince my long distance girlfriend to stay longer when she visits so I can spend quality time with her and hopefully get laid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

30 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - There's this girl who lives in Durban, appearantly she is kinda like my long distance girlfriend, she lives a far from where I am of which I leave in Johannesburg, she going to come in couple of days to company her friend to visit her boyfriend of which he is my friend here in ... (259 words)

What are the boundaries of cheating?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

30 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so I feel like I should know this already but I don't. What are the true boundaries of cheating on ur bf/gf ??? Cause one of my friends thinks it's when u have sex with someone else, another thinks it's when u make out with someone else, so idk.... Any answer will help, ... (57 words)

My doctor acts weird around me, why is this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

30 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, I have a physician (gyneocologist) that is overseeing my pregnancy. I have been a patient of his for about 7 years. He is about 56 yrs old. Well here is the issue, he seems so nervous around me. I watch him interact with other patients and he is so down to earth. When ... (209 words)

I just don't know what to think anymore!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

30 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok I had a child 3 years ago. Things didn't work out with his mother but shortly after we split up I fell madly in love with her cousin. Which is also my sons cousin. We have spent the last two years together and everything has been amazing. But we have received alot of grief ... (103 words)

Fallen for a teacher from my old school after only 4 dates! Am I actually his girlfriend yet or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

30 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - so this is kinda a long one! but i want to give you a clear story before i ask my question! i'm 19 yrs old and i'm still a student and i never had a boyfriend. as part of my course at my college i am doing a year abroad to study. so far out of 12 months, 9 have already ... (336 words)

How should I propose?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

30 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm sure i found the love of my life. We've been friends since May of last year, and been dating since December. I know it's only been a short time but I know he's the one. I'm not one who ever wanted to get married but for some reason I want to marry him. He's my ... (141 words)

How do I get people to be jealous that my boyfriend really likes me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

30 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - short sweet and to the point : my boyfriend is extremely liked by many black females . he's mixed but looks black . i'm white . he's really good abt always holding my hand EVERYWHERE we go and good at looking me in my and communication . but how can i let people know or ... (124 words)