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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Blow job with a condom?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

29 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to give this guy a blow job but I can not stand semen! People tell me to spit it out but even the thought of having it in my mouth makes me wanna throw up. What should I do? Is it OK to give a blow job with a condom so that the semen doesn't get into my mouth? HELP!... (62 words)

For the first time, my boyfriend didn't turn me on!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

29 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a bit worried because today for the first time i rejected my bf trying to have sex with me, I felt weird with the way he tried to start sex cause all he did was walk out of the room and come back in naked i told him i felt a bit uncomfortable cause it was very hot in the ... (220 words)

My daughter hates me. I need advice.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

29 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi. I have an 11 year old daughter who absolutely despises me the moment. I realise hormones come into play but she contantly disrespecting me and her brother. My husband and i have been seperated for a few years and i am in another relationship of about 3 years now. Her dad ... (458 words)

I don't like being a laughing stock!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

29 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid I am a petite person. yesterday my bf (of 2 years) told me one of our common friends was teasing abt me that how my how short i look when i drive, how tiny my arms feet look and how i look like an egg plant.... I asked him how he reacted, he said he was lau... (123 words)

I need a girlfriend, how do I find one?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

29 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 22 and have only had 1 girlfriend. I run my own business and spend half my life working but feel something is missing.........a girlfriend!!! Where can I meet someone? I'm not in a place where you go out and see loads of gay women and I'm not a fan of online dating, ... (72 words)

I cant orgasm when being fingered, is this normal? question to lesbians or girlies!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

29 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - This is a question for the girlies! More so lesbian girls/women...........when me and my ex girlfriend where having sex I never seemed to be able to orgasm when she fingered me. Is this like this for other women too? And how can I overcome this as I don't want to just orgasm ... (55 words)

Do men like to be chased first?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

29 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Do men liked to be chased? When they're not calling and texting you is it because they do want to or they waiting for you to do it?... (28 words)

Do you think I am Asexual?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) age 30-35 - Hello everybody. I am seeking some advise from you. I am a 21 years old female and recently i've been dealing with something that trully botheres me. I have been in relationships before, and i have taken my time, plus the guys were always very nice to me.. so it's not like... (286 words)

I want to spend my life with her, Please help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

29 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - where to begin.... i guess im really just looking for advice or even just to get things off my chest with an outside perspective. I guess i should tell you a bit about my situation. I met the woman of my dreams five years ago. we met on myspace...i was just chatting with fr... (1053 words)

He's catholic and I'm pentecostal , I'm in love but scared!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

29 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I'm 22 - never dated before. For the first time really, I'm meeting a guy who has what I'm looking for but problem: I'm a staunch christian so growing up, i taught lots a thingss. He bets just for fun of it, ofcourse u know christianity frowns against it. He ... (269 words)

My husband can't keep hard. Is he cheating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

29 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband for the past 2 days hasnt been able to get his penis up, but sitting on the couch yesterday looking at me, rubbing up behind while cooking , and in tje shower he did get it up.... but when time to preform his penis wouldnt do ANYTHING, so im asking what in the world ... (82 words)

Why did my married collegue keep taking off his wedding ring at lunch?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

29 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi ! I just had a business lunch with a male colleague. During the entire time, he kept taking his wedding band on and off and twisting it too. It was not very subtle and a little distracting. What does this mean?... (44 words)

Is it possible to date, lose touch and then fall in love again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4619 days ago

29 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - This is a bit lengthy and I don't know if you need all the details but here they are anyway. Thanks in advance. First off, I'm not one to post on sites like this; I can usually take care of myself seeing as I am a holder of a Master's in Psychology. But when it comes to matters ... (774 words)

I know he'll be dating someone else. How do I forget him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

29 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'v been in a relationship with this guy who claims he loves me.I asked him why he don't do certain things with me and he replied by saying he just doesn't like doing that.I was cool with it. Some days later,i saw him doing the samething with a different girl.It really did hurt ... (98 words)

Can you be in labor if your water doesn't break?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4575 days ago

29 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - MOD NOTE: We are not doctors, please go to the hospital, yes you can be in labor! can you be in labor even if your water doesnt break?? having serious contractions and not sure whether or not to go to the hospital.... (43 words)

Is it normal for guys to view porn together?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

29 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, I need some perspectives (esp. from guys) on whether guys viewing porn with their guy buddies is a normal thing or not! My bf is open about the fact he occasionally looks at porn sites, and I know he has downloaded videos in the past. He once told me that he gave his ... (204 words)

I want to put more effort into repairing our friendship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

29 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My bestfriend is a girl Cassidy, and my other friend Martha said you've been helpful on her friend problems so I'd be grateful if you can help me. Cass is 16 and I'm 17. We've been having problems because I don't put a lot of effort in and i dont show i care about our friend... (446 words)

How do I make hubby last longer?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

29 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been married for 3 months now and my husband and i have sex with a condom because we are still going to school and dont want to have kids at the moment we have sex 3 times a week but each time with foreplay our sex is about 15 mins long, he cums too fast and i want it to ... (73 words)

How do you tell your boyfriend you can't see him as being the father of your children?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

29 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you tell your boyfriend that you don't see him ever being the father you'd want your child or children to have and that's the real reason you don't want children? And where do you go from there? Stay but remain childless or have children but have to leave to do so? ... (262 words)

Breakup occured because of my best friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

29 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - im 15 i broke up with my boyfriend yesterday because i thought he was flirting with a girl well shes flirting with him and shes supposed to be my bestfrind. when we were breaking up it seemed like he didnt put up a fight but i want him back what will i do? my friend told me he ... (136 words)

I'm uncomfortable with a group of his friends -- is it OK for me to speak up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

29 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf has 2 groups of friend. One group is really nice and they;re nice to me and about me. The other are massive lads and are disrespectful about me asking personal questions about our sex life etc etc. My bf doesn't answer them but I hate the thought. My bf prefers his nicer ... (102 words)

Should I go on holiday without him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

29 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i have a bit of a problem. i have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and we are both 26 the thing is we planned to go abroad this summer for a week. But i would also like to go abroad with my girlfriend later on this year for 1 week. He thinks its out of order and i shou... (165 words)

I'm considering confronting this bully from my former workplace

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

29 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I encountered this irritating co worker at workplace 2 yrs back . We had mutual friends though whom i got introduced to him. He appeared real friendly at first. Later he and i were made to work in the same assignment with another senior member (a lady).I knew this lady f... (542 words)

What's the best way to deal with this pressure from my sister?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

29 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm so confused and frankly I feel bad. A couple days back I went out to dinner with my boss(19 I'm 17) as friends and strictly that. I then posted about it on Facebook Well my sister read this and when she came over she kept pestering me about it and telling me to break... (207 words)

Being with me isn't what's right for him, but encouraging him to move on hurts

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

29 March 2012 (F)

age - I lost my husband just over 2 years ago. A young man befriended us during his illness, and took care of me after his death. He came round every evening.He listened to me, made me laugh. He started flirting with me a bit - then more. I couldn't believe it, thought of him more as ... (182 words)

Do you think I should lie and tell my family that I have a job, or should I just tell them the truth?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

29 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm nervous about going to a family party this weekend. I'm unemployed, and my family members have really good jobs, and they seem posh ( i'm not saying that in a bad way ). They live in different parts of the country .I am from a very small town where there are lots of people ... (261 words)

Any advice on how to help my daughter who is struggling to conceive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

29 March 2012 (F)

age - please can anyone give me any advice of how I can help my daughter. She has been with her partner for 3 years and they have been trying for a baby for 1 year now, without success, her partner has had a semen test and it showed he had high velocity in his sample, he has to do an ... (132 words)

There was never any intimacy when we were dating, but now she's changed her mind

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4619 days ago

29 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! So, in my final year at school about 5 years ago, I'd never dated anyone, dating never really interested me at the time. Then I met the most beautiful girl. She asked me out. She was REALLY shy, almost to the point of awkwardness, but I stuck to it, and eventual... (633 words)

New committed guy in the pic but I am missing an ex who is obviously bad for me... please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

29 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I’m sorry that this is of essay length but I’m really very unhappy and need advice desperately. I was involved in a very intense and passionate but turbulent relationship with a man whom I could never quite understand. He had three long relationships before he met me and al... (616 words)

Unexpected possible pregnancy, boyfriend doesn't want the child, I don't want to lose either!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

29 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im a 22 year old lady with a 21 year old boyfriend, we had sex and the condom broke so we think i might be pregnant, this will be my first child and im looking foward to having it but he is telling me that he is not ready! What do i do because I don't want to lose him and i ... (85 words)

My boyfriend will be in prison anywhere from 15 years to life. How do I handle it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

29 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend is doing 15 to life he has no specific time for release I love himi just don't know how to handle it can u help? ... (31 words)

Can I believe her that nothing happened but him putting his hand on her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

29 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - okay.i am in a relation from 6 years with a girl in my neighbourhood.we were happy and our relationship was cute.she had to go to china for her m.b.b.s.one day we had a fight and we dint talk for two months.in this gap she talked to another guy who had a crush on her and spent ... (392 words)

At what age can your child play alone at the park?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

29 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - How old do u think ur kid should be to play at the park alone with other kids if u live 6 house dwon from the park?... (27 words)

My boyfriend keeps sexy pictures of his ex girlfriends!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

29 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Should I be worried if my boyfriend keeps "sexy" pictures of his past ex girlfriends? When I say sexy, I mean breast and all... Here's a little background info. I'm not so blessed with boobs but he reassured me that he likes me just the way I am because he has been with a ... (152 words)

Husband wants to have sex with other women and I'm about ready to end the marriage!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

29 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - lets make this short and simple......... my husband wants to be intimate with other women. but he wants to be with me. (or so he says) i dont want him to sleep with any one but me. im 39 wks pregnant and it hurts to be intimate. we used to be swingers but im done with t... (148 words)

Can anyone figure out what the interaction between these friends could mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

29 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - A guy recently worked closely with a woman that he seems to ignore mostly. They chatted and laughed for hours. But when his body accidentally touches hers, he quickly draws it away as though he got burnt. Funny thing is, during the time when he's the one talking; he keeps to... (585 words)

What are the biggest reasons for divorce?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

29 March 2012 (F)

age - I was wondering what are the biggest reasons for divorce. Or I could call it cause for divorce. My husband is not intimate with me anymore, Is this very common after 20 something years of marriage? I know ,there are some marriage, what was never too intimate. But this was ... (163 words)

Is there any way he'll want to be with me and try to work things out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

29 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been talking to this guy for like three months and then he fly over to see me and we had vacation together for a month. we had the best time ever. we had fights sometime . well it's happened like almost everyday speaks about some silly little things that we try to ... (493 words)

Do I tell my best friend I'm pregnant by him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

29 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i ressonly lost my vaginaty to my best and oldest male freind (we have always been close and tell each other everything) i just found out that im pregnant do i tell him. we was waching dvds at mine drinking a bottle of wine with a takeaway we noramly do this once a week but... (162 words)

At 36, what do I need to motivate myself to get out there and date?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

29 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Where did I go wrong? I'm a 36 year old man that still lives with his parents who has never had any type of relationship with a woman ever, I have a job that I detest but I'ts the best pay I've ever had so I'm too scared to leave it. I tried to live on my own once but I could ... (193 words)

What is the meaning behind my ex sending me a text "good luck with your life"?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

29 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex just sent me a message saying "good luck with your life".We broke up two months ago, why is he contacting me?.When we broke up another time before that, he got intouch after a couple of months then too and he sent a message saying he hoped my life was better and that i ... (83 words)