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Archived questions from: 19 March, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do you always have to sleep on the same side of the bed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

19 March 2012 (F) age 30-35 - This is gonna seem a real dumb question but recently I've noticed that depending on if I'm single or in a relationship I sleep on different sides of my bed. I thought it was quite amusing but wondered if it was normal or if there was any reason for it ? :)... (53 words)

Should I tell him the truth? and if so, how????

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

19 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now but we were close friends for 2 years before that. I have been raped twice. The first time I was pregnant as a result and it was ectopic. The first time was when I was 16 and I'd had too much to drink. I was in a club u... (514 words)

How can I make things better, so he'll want to come back to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

19 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i broke up thursday we have an 8 month old daughter together. basically i feel as if i was a terrible girlfriend. why? i was always mad at him. bringing unecery drama in the relationship. lets just say he works monday, wensday,friday saturday and sunday a... (309 words)

We still live together but I'm worried about the friends zone!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

19 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, hopefully someone can help me out. Back in october my girlfriend, that lives with me still, broke up with me. we were together for over a year and a half. and she told me she still cares for me and other people claim she does, but she wanted to be just friends. ... (863 words)

We can't open up to each other

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

19 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Will a relationship work between two people that are both quite emotionally closed? I feel I am that way, but my boyfriend is too. This hasn't been a problem in past relationships as the guy has always been very emotional and opened up about their feelings a lot which has made ... (180 words)

How can I get him back? I love him so much...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

19 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my ex boyfriend so much. We were so in love but then he broke up with me saying he didn't want a relationship anymore:( A year later I'm still cryin and missing him. I can't get him out my heart and my head. Yesterday I rang him, he missed the call so he rang ... (165 words)

Dead beat boyfriend wont get a job!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

19 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - What should I do about my live-in boyfriend not getting a job? We have been together for nearly 3 years now. He got fired from his job in October for leaving the property, while on the clock of all things. He hasn't had a job for going on 5 months now. He has been ... (139 words)

He makes my heart beat so fast. Did I miss my chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

19 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 35 years old male, and gay actually. I met a very handsome guy, 8 years younger than me. In fact we work together and gradually I feel a mutual interest to grow between us. Today he started to ask me about personal things and that what do I think on him. Well, I was so ... (206 words)

Should I tell her my feelings before I leave for uni?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

19 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 18 and work part time at a restaurant, but will be leaving in a few months to start uni. I'm dead into a girl my age at work, and always have been. We have gotten friendly while drunk a few times but I never asked her out, and would find it awkward at work anyway. Should I ... (78 words)

How can people compare porn to a romance novel?

This question has 49 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

19 March 2012 (F) age 41-50 - How can people compare porn to a romance novel? A romance novel is harmless words on a page, porn is a picture of a real person with no clothes on who exists who can easily be compared. Same with a vibrator it's a piece of plastic.... (46 words)

Could she be jealous? Can I win her back? How do I keep her as a friend without being a pest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4660 days ago

19 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - hi there so thers this girl i like, i have a crush on, i dont love her its just a crush, even to be friends would be more than enough for me (i suppose we are friends, b ut id like to be good friends, not just friends) so we arranged to meet up one day and she stood me up,... (565 words)

How can I stop feeling worried and scared and actually look forward to this trip?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

19 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I am going away for ten days for a German exchange, however my boyfriend of a year is not. Instead he is staying at school. He is very close to his ex-girlfriend, and she will be there for the ten days. His ex and I used to be really good friends until she decided she wanted ... (102 words)

I need my love back! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4660 days ago

19 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, i have boyfriend and we are into relationship since 4 years..first two years we were both good to each from the 3rd years he started saying that we should break and break up..finally in this year he breakup with saying that ill never improve even after saying him sorry... (83 words)

One minute he is into me, the next minute I don't exist!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

19 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in a massive dilemma here on what to do. An close of mine has a new gf and they are always at each others throats. So he came to my door yesterday nearly in tears so I let him in and talked it through with him. Basically his gf spends all her time bitching about him and ... (181 words)

I've pushed the boat out before and dropped some hints, but he always treads around it. Am I getting this wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4660 days ago

19 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been friends with this guy for about 2 years. When we first met we did kinda date but not really even though I still have feelings for him despite me saying with should just be friends. Anyway recently he's been seeing this girl whose been absolutely vile to him and he ... (205 words)

Are they playing me for a loop?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4660 days ago

19 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I went to shoot pool to this pool hall with our straight friend and her boyfriend. The night was going smoothly we were all enjoying our drinks having an awesome time but something weird happened and am now a little confuse. My girlfriend excused herself from ... (397 words)

My wife wants the woman I cheated with to tell her about things before she can let it go!

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

19 March 2012 (M)

age - hi there i had an affair 11 years ago and my wife found out 14 months ago .The affair lasted 2 a half years and my wife was devastated i have tried every thing possible to win her back.we have been on holidays i buy her flowers all the time and always tell her how much i love ... (455 words)

Can you feel when something has happened to your soulmate, even if you don`t know them yet?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

19 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This morning/night I woke up at like 3:30 am for no reason whatsoever and just instinctively knew that something had happened to, dare I say, my soulmate. I know this sounds crazy and everything, and no, I wasn`t drunk or high (I know there will be answers like that!). I was ... (86 words)

I think he's married but he denied and now has little contact with me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

19 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been dating my boyfriend for a few months now! i have asked him from the start if he was married he has repeatedly denied that he was! the other day another woman sent me a pic of him and his so called wife. When i asked he said it was his ex. but since that day he has had ... (88 words)

Does he love me or is he obsessed with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

19 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - So this guy has wanted to be with me for a very long time and finally had the chance to make his move. We have many things in common. We've always got along very well. We've been seeing each other for about a month and we've said just about everything to each other--it's all ... (327 words)

I think the reason I stay is because everyone says it won't work out, and I want to prove them wrong. But is my happiness worth the risk?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

19 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright, My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over nine months and I'm at my whits end with everything... The first couple months were great, but once we hit the five month mark, it's been all downhill. I love this kid so much, but I feel like I'm his mother. I ... (383 words)

After 4 years I feel like we've lost the spark

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

19 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 4 year, and we have recently moved in together. I love being with him, and we always get on really well. Sometimes I worry because I feel like we have lost our 'spark' we don't often have sex, and he feels more like a good ... (112 words)

I'm conscious about my weight and worry that my boyfriend will cheat on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

19 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and I have lately been super self conscious about my weight. I have been working out trying to make myself feel better and that part is working. But I have also been super paranoid like my boyfriend is cheating on me or ... (124 words)

How to get over his porn use?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

19 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Does anybody have any tips on how to get over your boyfriend's porn use? I know some women aren't bothered or used to be and aren't now, I want to be one of these women to move on.... (38 words)

My boyfriend is too friendly with girls on Facebook!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

19 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband gets on Facebook and Ive noticed he's being a little to friendly to the girls. And I'm getting worried should I talk to him the demand access. To his page or keep sneaking on waiting for when he might mess up ive even thought about making one and doing the same thing ... (89 words)

We have agreed to not have intercourse, but he keeps on asking me! Should I be more submissive or stand my ground?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

19 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - It will be a year next month since I have been dating my boyfriend. Things are going quite well between us and his family accepts me well. We have been spending more time together recently which has always been a pleasure. However, he would randomly ask me/offer me to play with ... (137 words)

My four year old's 73 nyear old Daddy ignores her existance.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

19 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a four year old child by a 73 year old man!we live in the home with him! He refuses to claim her as his child when his family ask him. I have asked him on several occasions to prepare her for the future in case he dies ber=fore e pass away so I can have help taking care ... (142 words)

I don't like her inappropriate behaviour!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

19 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a group of friends who I was at a party with last weekend. They know and study with this girl. She is very slutty I would say. She grabs at the guys (she's got 3-4 guys she's always grabbing at). Now, what they do is their business, but this goes on in the middle of the ... (408 words)

She cried when I said I just wanted to be friends!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

19 March 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I recently met a woman who is a few years older than me. We got on really well, talked on the phone for hours and were texting eachother constantly. I saw a couple pics of her and decided to meet her in person. She was even better looking in the flesh, really beautiful and ... (277 words)

I told my boyfriend about having a lesbian encounter.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

19 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i am in college and i have been dating my amazing boyfriend for almost 10 months. he is the best man in the world and i know he was put into my life for a reason. well i went to this girls house who is a lesbian and she started kissing me and things went way further than ... (211 words)

Virginity and being fingered

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

19 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Am 17, been fingered b4, and am wondring......even after being fingered, is the hymen still in place??? Can you stil say u r a virgin?... (25 words)

Why does he put an xo in some of his messages?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

19 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm 25 yr old. and i would like to know from guys and girls, what does it mean when a guy (27 yrs) pus an xo at the end his email to me? he started by doing it not me, and not at the end of all them just some. sometimes a x, xo, xx. help i really like this guy and we are in a ... (71 words)

He says he's digging a deep hole with me. What does that mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4660 days ago

19 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend sent me this text: "Man, I think I am digging a very deep hole with you and I think I'm going to regret it." What does this mean? Background Overview of us: He's studying overseas in my country, and well, we've been dating for over a month. He'll be here... (91 words)

Distance is taking its toll on our relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

19 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So the distance is slowly getting to my girlfriend during our 7 and a half month relationship together. What should I do...I don't want her to be unhappy or hurt, please help. ... (32 words)

I feel like a horrible person because I left my ex for someone else

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

19 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - In October 2011, I ended things with my ex. Hes a college freshman and im a junior in high school. We were together for 2 years and 3 months. I ended it because of a guy I had started to have feelings for during October. In December, about 1 month after I broke it off, I began ... (274 words)

Dreams of things that haven't happened

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

19 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I keep having dreams that I had a son or daughter in high school (but most of the time it's a boy) and gave him/her up for adoption. And then I forget I even had him/her. For example, last night in my dream, I was with friends and we were all sharing secrets. Mine wa... (110 words)

Anxiety attacks over him leaving and finding someone, but our relationship was rocky, advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

19 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I desperately need an outside unbiased opinion. I am in the midst of finalizing a breakup with my boyfriend but I am having second thoughts. On one hand, he is verbally abusive (calling me bitch, selfish, a baby, stupid, etc) and he emotionally cheated by asking other gir... (150 words)

Relationship at a cross roads, should I move to another country to be with him, or just let it go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

19 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly five years. I am 29, he is 26. We were friends before we started dating for two years. After three years of living together, my boyfriend got an offer to finish his PhD in another country. At first I encouraged him t... (589 words)

Is he just being nice, or am I being oblivious?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

19 March 2012 (F)

- So theres a guy who I've known and been talking to for around half a year now. We live far away from each other but have seen each other a few times when I come home as it is close to where he lives, and we talk pretty much everyday online. The thing is, I can't tell whether he ... (206 words)

How should I deal with my families lack of reaction to change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

19 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Sometimes I feel like I have the lamest family ever! My parents live like stodgy 80-year-olds. Their idea of excitement is baking bread, listening to public radio, or going to church. People with piercings, alternate lifestyles and different religions frighten them. It's hard ... (308 words)

I need advice on places to travel in Europe!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

19 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This summer I'm planning to take a trip by myself, more so for the experience and greater benefit of independance, I would like to see what it is like when you're out in the world by yourself, experiencing new places. I'm hopping to go for two maybe three weeks, which I know ... (264 words)