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Archived questions from: 24 March, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What are a man's intentions when he says this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

24 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - what does a guy really mean, if he says " you looked pretty fine to me last night?" He has a gf, but they only been going out 2 months, and me and him were emailing b4 they started going out. anyway i turned up to his gig where he was playing (singer in local band) and it w... (95 words)

My sex buddy and me kissed other people and then had sex with each other.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

24 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a sex buddy , were a little bit more cause he holds me threw the night when I have to leave he pulls me by the waist in bed just to fall asleep next to him, we hold hands and watch movies we are so close and are always there for each other. Hes amazing :) but we are not ... (598 words)

I was tired of being his mother!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

24 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I just recently broke it off with my boyfriend of nine months, I was tired of being his mother. I did everything for that kid, and he appreciated none of it. I wasn't happy at all in the relationship. I was belittled and treated wrongly. I paid for everything. Was the only ... (252 words)

How can I convince someone I love that I don't intend to look elsewhere, as he thinks I will?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

24 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Please can you you help me out with a really difficult situation. I have a friend that i have been inn love with from school since I was 14yrs. He now works for me a a manager in a domestic care business. We work together closely on our own 40 hours a week or more. He lives ... (163 words)

Can we have sex on our wedding night when he's going to be in a cast?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4566 days ago

24 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 24 and a virgin. It's not like I didn't choose this because I wanted to give my all to my gorgeous fiance. Anyway we get married in May and I was fine with the idea of how we will spend the night and what we will get up to in the bedroom. However, he went to see his doctor ... (182 words)

Has my ex had a strange change of heart?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

24 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello. My name's Brian. I have a very confusing situation. It has been 3 years, since I have been romantically rejected by my first girlfriend. She offered to be my friend. However, I found that she wasn't very trustworthy, after knowing that a month after rejecting me, sh... (193 words)

Thankyou Kyle 007

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4611 days ago

24 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I wrote an article about my son being brainwashed; I would like to write and thank Kyle007 for his lovely advice. I did not know how to personally write to him and let him know how his advice helped, here it is: Dear Kyle, I played the tape to my son, he immediately d... (174 words)

Did my girlfriend lose interest in me because we had sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

24 March 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Well im 42 and i have been dating this 31 year old irish woman for almost 6 months now . Thing is for the past week she hasn't been showing much interest in me at all since last saturday. I am not great looking i honestly don't know why she showed so much interest in me a... (555 words)

I can't trust my partner when we are out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

24 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - i dont feel i can trust my partner....when we are out an about i see him looking around i have said this too him but he says im imagining it........... (32 words)

What can I say to make him understand?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

24 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i went to the beach with my friends and we took pictures of the day. I posted them on facebook like i normally do when i have an event that i want to share with friends. My boyfriend is a jealous person, he's trying to fix it but he believe he could never change some things. He ... (236 words)

Is it evident that my guy friend likes me or just overprotective?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4624 days ago

24 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I need help sorting this out. I realized after almost a year of knowing him, that I have a small crush on my guy friend. We share and talk about everything, including moments where he will come over for takeout and eat at my house on occasion. And he will stay ove... (271 words)

Boyfriend said he doesn't feel guilty about cheating or lying to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

24 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My bf of 2 years told me he cheated on me with his ex in October. He told me right after it happened and asked me to pleas forgive him please lets try to make this work. I called her and she tells me jhow this is the only time she crossed the line with him. She didn't the othe ... (1276 words)

I want to change to stop this happening again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4623 days ago

24 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - boy keep using me and its making me so depressed, theres this boy iv been texting a while now and he stated clearly he didnt want a gf but he did like me, we only met up once, as we do live about a hour drive from eachother. i accepted this as i do like him but the ot... (296 words)

Is this normal behavior, or is this part of my narcolepsy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4624 days ago

24 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm not a deep sleeper and tend to wake up several times every night. Whenever I do, my thing is usually hard and rubbing against the sheets. I'll find myself touching it lightly or moving so that it rubs against the sheets more, until I get tired and fall asleep again. This ... (198 words)

My friend owes me money and will not pay up!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

24 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't exactly a Relationship problem but I have a 'friend' who I gave a loan of €250 last year, she is now engaged to her boyfriend of two months and quit her job to spend more time with him. I have panic attacks due to lack of money and I have been asking her for this mon... (109 words)

One of the girls my boyfriend used to sleep with is OBSESSED with him and it's causing problems in our relationship! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

24 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been together for a year weve only started fighting the last couple of months, and its always over the same thing...or the same person i should say. basically when i first started talking to him before we were dating he was sleeping with his ... (431 words)

Is there a good way to remove pubic hair?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

24 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - quick question, is there a best way to remove pubic hair? if i shave it i get wired spots there ... (20 words)

Is he abusing me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

24 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend of 2 years has been verbally and emotionally abusive. I have been devastated but he says it's not abuse. Again today he shut off the cable, the Internet and the phones. All meanwhile he is calling me a slut, dumb bitch, stupid and my 10 year old gets everything ... (56 words)

Porn related questions

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

24 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - A few questions.... Are there any lucky women here whose partner does not watch/use porn? Did you have to tell them to stop? Did they lose interest naturally, how long did it take? Why is it so vital to men that they get to masturbate over other women? What do they g... (111 words)

Have I missed out by not having sexual experiences with any guy other than my boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

24 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I lost my virginity a bit later than most and have been with that boy ever since which is four years. I can see myself marrying him one day but I have one problem. He's slept with other girls before me and I feel a bit weird thinking I could marry him and never sleep with ... (112 words)

He says no but my gut says yes!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

24 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello! I'm a female, 40 yrs old. I've been with my husband over 24 years, been married for 15 yrs. There's NEVER been anyone in between, for him or I, I know. However, bout 2 n a half years ago, a problem arose. It was my fault. It has nothing to do with cheating. My husband ... (251 words)

School is going to be so dull when my favourite teacher leaves!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

24 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in a very helpless situation, as i have no one else tell about this at the moment and it's tearing me apart. Since last year, i've had a crush on this teacher at my school. He's in his 20s and married. It's just an infatuation of course, in the physical sense, not 'in ... (263 words)

She wont talk dirty to me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

24 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Av been with my gf 7 months and i really want to talk dirty with her but she wont.how can i change her mind ????... (25 words)

Keeping in touch via facebook

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4624 days ago

24 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I wonder what people would be doing to get close to their friends and loved ones if they didn't have facebook. Would they notice them as much as they do now? It makes me curious to know how you kept in touch before facebook.... (46 words)

Could this be love? Or is it something else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4624 days ago

24 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - can somebody hep me? i really love this guy he's straight we've been friends and he knows that i'm gay... i love him since the first time i saw him, we were classmates since last 2 terms of our school year but he didn't know that i really love him. we hang out after classes, we ... (221 words)

Dad is being pathetic because I don't have a boyfriend!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

24 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Every time I see my dad, the first thing he asks is if any guys are chasing me. He thinks I need a boyfriend. I'm a Sophomore in college and haven't had one since my Junior year of high school. I'm fine with not having a boyfriend, though it would certainly be nice to have one. ... (497 words)

I try to be nice but he takes everything the wrong way!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4625 days ago

24 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Two friends, one guy? I like this guy that my best friend and I hang out with all the time. I am so confused by the way he treats me. I don't know if he likes me or my friend. He's really nice to her He treats my friend like his buddy. He playfully punches her, he's really... (186 words)

Question for the guys: Why do married men flirt?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

24 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a question from you guys. Why married men flirt? They want to get in to your pants? They want to add just a little flavor to their day? Or to see if they are still capable of attracting someone? So what is it? Why I am always a target, ok I am a beautiful woman but I ... (93 words)

35 years late he insinuates himself into facebook conversations with emotional references to the past!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

24 March 2012 (F)

age - my first boyfriend went away to college said we should date and sleep with others while he was away said we should start doing this before he left he did not take me to his prom I found out later that he even slept with my best friend he came back 6 months later after not ... (313 words)

I need help breaking up with my clingy boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4625 days ago

24 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 months now. Thing is I feel like I should break up with him because he gets clingy at times and he's already said I love you to me because I had told him that by accident. We were texting and we would send each other 'i like you a ... (165 words)

Why does my husband like to mentally undress my female unattractive friend?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

24 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has admitted that he likes to undress my female friend whom we have met on two occasions, mentally in his mind. However, he claimed that he doesn't find her attractive and is not fantasizing about having sex with her but merely her figure especially her boobs. He has ... (112 words)

I would like her to be more comfortable and less shy around me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4623 days ago

24 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm talking to a girl that is always quiet and whenever we talk I would talk so much but she would only response with little words like two or three words. So I ask her if I was boring her or anything and she said that I'm not but she just quiet, shy, and not so comfortable ... (111 words)

Is my guy friend jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4624 days ago

24 March 2012 (F)

I wanted to extend an olive branch but was confronted with the truth instead!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

24 March 2012 (F)

age - What are the chances of a relationship ever working out for the long term if the person is an alcoholic and after breaking off a long term relationship continues to become seriously involved with one woman after another. My ex left me after 7 yrs. together and became heav... (805 words)

We had sex for the first time then he told me about all the other girls he had

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

24 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hes been with a lot of other girls, and I want to be the last one. We just had sex for the first time, and when he was taking me home he started talking about all the other girls hes had. It made me feel really bad, but i didnt tell him cause I know it will make him mad. He was ... (96 words)

She's a real sweetie, should I wait until she breaks up with her boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4625 days ago

24 March 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - i like this girl i sit with in my class. she's really sweet and she's always hugging me, even messes with my leg under the table, we go the same way home so we do talk a lot . the problem is i think she has a boyfriend. recently they've been walking home together but that's it. ... (110 words)

I've a new boyfriend but still suffering panic attacks!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4615 days ago

24 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, i dont know whats wrong with me! A good few months ago i had a boyfriend i really liked after he broke up with me i had a small panic attack i'd never had one before but now i have a new one and ive been with him for nearly six months we have a few arguments but not ever... (144 words)