New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

245057 questions, 1084625 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in March, 2012, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day)

1 (50), 2 (53), 3 (44), 4 (53), 5 (46), 6 (52), 7 (45), 8 (45), 9 (29), 10 (58),
11 (39), 12 (49), 13 (40), 14 (56), 15 (48), 16 (39), 17 (30), 18 (44), 19 (41), 20 (50),
21 (41), 22 (51), 23 (43), 24 (38), 25 (44), 26 (52), 27 (68), 28 (52), 29 (41), 30 (39),
31 (28),

Archived questions from: 22 March, 2012 (see latest questions)

(More questions from March, 2012)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Are his lies that bad? Is it better to end things now, or try and keep going?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

22 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am feeling so terrible right now and need some advice. I really don't know what to do.... I just broke up with my boyfriend. I didn't necessarily mean to. I found out he lied to me, and I was so hurt that I sent him a text saying exactly, " I don't know if I want to see... (931 words)

Is it weird to send him sexy pics of me after not having spoken in a long time?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

22 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I was dating a great guy but he moved away and he was really disappointed about the distance as it interferes with us continuing things. And we haven't spoken in 2 months. Last time I spoke to him, when he was already moved and settled, he sent me a cute picture collage of him ... (151 words)

My ex has been telling people that I use her for sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

22 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello. I am feeling very guilty at the moment. I'm going to try and keep this short. I broke up with my ex about 6 months ago, this was due to her being abusive towards me, she would hit me and emotionally treat me bad. I loved her very much and wanted to help her but I had no... (262 words)

How do I clear this mess up? Do I tell the guy that asked me out, that I have my eye on someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

22 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. Thanks for clicking. I will try and make this as quick as possible. A few weeks ago a guy came into a bar i work in (i will call him T). There was a chemistry, a connection, and it was great. He introduced himself to me, shook my hand, and totally and utterly had me s... (455 words)

Why did she invite me to her room when it was that messy? And why was she so rude with me in the morning?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4626 days ago

22 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - This girl I met last year near the beginning of university found me on Facebook, we had a friend in common and she messaged me saying 'You appeared on people I might know and i'm sure I recognised you, no worries if i'm wrong'. I recognised her, we went back to hers one nigh... (330 words)

I've been trying to initiate a break up with my insecure girlfriend but both times she's had a panic attack

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

22 March 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 17 and I've been with my girlfriend for just over 2 and a half years now, and it was going mostly okay up until recently. Recently, I've not been feeling very happy, for several reasons. First of all, it feels like I'm completely separated from the people who I used to ca... (332 words)

Was I wrong in suggesting that my girlfriend should use botox? She just flipped when I said it

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 1952 days ago

22 March 2012 (M)

age - I know this will make me sound like not a nice person (to some), when in reality I like to think I am decent, and am pretty diplomatic. Thing is, my gf of 3 years is aging badly. I love her to distraction, and that love is more about her lovely nature than about her looks ... (272 words)

Dry humping and pregnancy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

22 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Im curious is it possible for someone to fall pregnant from dry humping. At first I thought it wasnt possible until someone said it happened to them. The thing is my friend and i were making out and he was dry humping me in just our underwear and he came but i wasnt aware of it ... (80 words)

I get this feeling that I'm missing something big in my life!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

22 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have this overwhelming feeling, sometimes it fades and sometimes it comes back strong, but I can't ever put my finger on what it is. It's a feeling of something big is missing in my life. I'm always feeling restless, I always want more, I go out and learn and discover and... (242 words)

Too call or not to call a man after 3 dates?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

22 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy out, and he got my card. He emailed a few days later and asked me out. Our first date went well (touching of the knee, arm, etc). He asked for my phone number but he didn't call until 5 days later. When he did call, he asked me out again. We went out again, a... (307 words)

My husband has an obsession with my butt.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3725 days ago

22 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - This question is for ladies only. I am new to the internet. I come from a culture where girls are not educated about sexuality. I never had any sexual encounter with a man before my wedding. A few months after my marriage,my husband left country to find a better job. Like most ... (179 words)

I think my son has been brainwashed against me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

22 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have teenager, his dad and I split up when he was 18 months old, he left me for a younger model (he had a baby with and left her, but saw her child), I was his second wife as he was divorced when I met him, he has 2 children from his first wife, now he is on his third wife ... (635 words)

I'm both a success and a failure with the opposite sex, so what can I do with myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4623 days ago

22 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Somethings wrong with me but I can't figure out what fluke that I am currently carrying with me. Before while growing up I had to deal with my overly restrictive parents who would call me every hour, on the hour whenever I was out with other kids and the fact that my Father ... (712 words)

Where did I go wrong in starting this 'rebound' relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

22 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend of two years broke up with me, about 5 months ago now, and I was completley heart-broken. Shortly after the breakup, I hooked up with a co-worker. I told this co-worker from the get-go that I wasn't interested in a long term relationship as I had just been ... (327 words)

Is a massage with an 'unintentional' happy ending cheating?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

22 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Is a massage with an 'unintentional' happy ending cheating? I'm a married woman. Before I met my husband I did take some classes at a massage school. I never persued that as a career (my husband would never approve). However, I am very good at giving full body massages. I... (521 words)

How do I make new guy friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4626 days ago

22 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - How to make new GUY friends? I know you guys must be like we need our girls but I have an amazing group of girl friends and I love them but I think it's high time to get some guys into my life again.( again in the sense I only used to have guy friends first but somehow I lost ... (63 words)

How many dates before I can ask her to be my girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

22 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - hi everyone. i recently met a very lovely girl on an internet dating site, and at the weekend we are going on our 3rd date. i really like this girl and things seem to be going really well, which is odd as i normally dont ever get a 3rd date as im quite unlucky. my question is... (132 words)

I like this girl, simple, right? Problem is her best friend likes me too!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4626 days ago

22 March 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I like this girl, simple, right? Well, the problem is her best friend (Also a girl) likes me. I'm rather unsure how to tackle this problem, seeing I've been in the same rock and hard place spot before and I failed spectacularly, by not wasting any efforts to attract the girl... (148 words)

Does she like me? Or my friend? Or is she just flirty will all guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

22 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, you can call me M I'm an 18 year old guy who has never had a girlfriend. I don't count myself as very good looking, I'm short and overweight, and this makes me very shy and nervous when talking to girls. One night I was in a club with my friends and met with a group of ... (252 words)

Does he want to be more than my sex buddy? How do I make this official?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

22 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like my sex buddy , we always drink and go out usual , he doesn't like me talking to anyone else like he gets jeleous of other guys when I'm around them , he always picks me up to go over or just hangout , we watch movies I help him with homework we get along so well , ... (528 words)

She can orgasm when she masturbates but never with me!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

22 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello All, I have been dating the same girl for over three years now. We have been sexually active for over two. In those two years she has never been able to have an orgasm with me. We have tried everything-- we have had vaginal intercourse for an hour, lengthy oral sex... (378 words)

How long do guys normally last during anal sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

22 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - okay people, i have a question a bit embarrassing. i just wondered, how long do guys generally last before they cum during anal sex? my boyfriend has done it before ( not with me) but i haven't.he said he wouldnt last long anyway, coz it would be a huge turn on, but i just ... (97 words)

Caught my husband looking at she-male porn, and he has had unusual sexual preferences in the past...what does this all mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

22 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I just caught my husband of three years looking at she-male porn. When I walked into the room, he closed down the page quickly and deleted the cookies, but I still saw what he was doing. It's not the first time he has done it - he's done it several times years ago when we ... (212 words)

Major crush on my neighbor, but we are both in relationships! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

22 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I have a question. I have this neighbor who lives right next door to me who I have a major crush on for a while. I know he likes me too we flirt all the time and he acts all shy and nervous when we talk. This is the thing, he is with someone and I am with someone. ... (154 words)

Dating a guy who's never had a girlfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

22 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, so let me ask this to the ladies. If you've gone out with a guy a few times and you're really starting to like him quite a bit, and THEN you ask about his previous relationships and he's honest with you and tells you he's never had a girlfriend and he's 28. What would you ... (113 words)

He hurts me so much but he is like a drug I cant live without! Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

22 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid My bf of 2 years constantly avoids me, often humiliates me and when i ask he says he was joking, joking or not joking, his words affect me. I told him not to do that, he never listens. I dont want his words to affect me so much, but it does. He blames me for ta... (146 words)

Fallen in love with someone who is 9000 miles away....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

22 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - it all started when I saw her blog link on a website, and you can call it a love at first click. 'you just fall for her look, you will get over it soon.'; 'tumblr is not a social network for you to find a date!' etc... I'm tired of hearing these. clearly I can't choose wh... (221 words)

He still seems interested, but he has backed off when it comes to meeting up. What is going on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

22 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a guy on a chat site about a month ago, he is 22 I'm 40. Straight away we realized we worked for the same company in the same building. So we started emailing each other on and off every day. We became friends on Facebook and exchanged mobile numbers and he would text me ... (464 words)

I think my son stole money from me, how do I approach him about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

22 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I noticed money being missing, two £50 notes were missing. I live alone with my 18 year old son. today, I found a receipt for Tesco and it says £50 was paid, this was in my son's room. How do I approach him? Do I set a trap again or ignore or just come out with it? ... (74 words)

I told him I wanted to break up but I didnt really mean it, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4626 days ago

22 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am having troubles with my boyfriend of 3.5 years. We have our ups and downs(kind of a long distance relationship)... yesterday we got into a fight over a stupid thing, that turned into something huge... i told him i wanted to break up, but deep inside i wanted him to tell me ... (254 words)

My girlfriend says she is in love with me but is not physically attracted to me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

22 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone I'm not sure how common is this question but can you be in love with someone and yet have no physical attraction to your partner? I ask this because that's what my girlfriend says about me. I know I'm not the greatest looking guy but she says she has no phys... (140 words)

Should I just move on from lying boyfriend and not become cold hearted?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

22 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I just found out through fb tht my bf is a lieing dog. And what ive come to find out is tht while I was sticking around wanting his attention and holdin on to his broken promises tht I shouldve been left all the times I was ready to walk away but he winged me right back in. I ... (158 words)

Do I unleash that animal inside me that was there before we met and do I be myself

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

22 March 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - i have been dating a russian girl (27YO) for 8 months.she is studying here and is looking for permanent residency. i consider myself and have been stereotyped in the bad boy category. during the time we have spent together she has tamed me somewhat that when im around her i am ... (273 words)

More that sex buddies ? Or do I move on ?? Help ? Advice needed! Please

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

22 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a sex buddy , we text each other often. But lately it seems I've caught feelings for him. He gives me mixed feelings. One day he gives me hope the next day I'm upset thinking what it could of been. We act like were in a relationship when we have sex it's with passion , ... (374 words)

I'm afraid she gets bored with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4626 days ago

22 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help with this girl I am currently talking to right now. Every time we talk I seem very boring because I can't seem to make her laugh and keep a conversation going at all. She is my best friend and I really like her and she feels the same, but whenever I talk to her I ... (117 words)

How do I ask him if he'd like to live with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

22 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - How do ask my boyfriend if he wants to live with me? We have been going out for 9 months now. I have been for the past month spending 75% of my time at his place, and he is making a lot more effort for me like meeting my friends,cooking for me, saying sorry and telling me ... (147 words)

Was she interested or is she just flirty with all guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

22 March 2012 (M)

I'm attracted to my uncle who was adopted by my grandparents

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

22 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 years old. My mother was American (well of irish heritage) and she married my father in 1990. He was born in Mexico. He is full blood Mexican. My grandparents, my uncles, aunts, and all that also live in Mexico. I've lived in the U.S. my whole life and didn't even know ... (236 words)

What are the reasons a fairly confident guy would become quiet around a shy girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

22 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - what are the reasons a fairly confident guy would become quiet around a shy girl? I met this guy a bit ago while out with friends and he was very outgoing, maintained eye contact, etc. But when I saw him the other day, while I was out with the same friends, he seemed differ... (197 words)

I have to decide between letting him go or just accept the situation as it is

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

22 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I’m at a crossroads and I have no idea what to do. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years and two months ago we moved in together. I met him at a time in my life when I was quite lonely and desperate to have someone. Before him I never had a serious relationship and I didn’t ... (475 words)

Is my boyfriend gay because he watches porn?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

22 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend watches porn, is he gay? I confronted him about it and he denies his not. am I being in denial?... (22 words)

Worried about my friend's relationship, what do you all think of this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4626 days ago

22 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi my question is more of your opinions because im worried about my friends relationship. She has always been back and forth running around in circles. She met this guy and was still in love with her ex, blew this guy off three times and he freaked out completely, he was ... (248 words)

My husband blames stress for the cold sore on his lip but it seems highly doubtful, given his closeness with his co-worker. What do you guys think?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

22 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I need some advise on cold sores. (Okay, let's call them what they really are Herpes.) I have been with my husband for 7 years and not once has he ever had one. But then about a year ago a younger woman got a job at his office. I didn't worry about her in the beginning but ... (606 words)

Playing games with my crush led to me touching him, did he do this on purpose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4626 days ago

22 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so this will be a kind of long question, I apologize for that. Okay well there is the guy at school that I have a crush on, lets call him Torro for now, we have only one class together because he is a junior and I'm a sophomore, but in this class we always sit together and ... (287 words)

My parents helped my brother financially in college but not me. Should I ask for help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

22 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - This is a difficult issue for me, that makes me feel angry, and bitter, and I am ashamed that I feel this way because it is not nice to feel like this. I just want to know how to deal with this. This a long story so please bear with me, it needs all the facts. Basica... (1587 words)

Guys: Would you prefer a girl not swallow and spit in a tissue?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

22 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - okay guys i need to know:the guy i'm seeing said he personally doesn't matter if i spit or swallow when giving him a blowjob. so my question is, if we aren't going to swallow, ( i do occasionally) would u prefer to pull out and cum on the woman's stomach, or cum in her mouth, ... (65 words)

All of a sudden my boyfriend is sick of me and thinks I'm too predictable!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

22 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my bf for almost 10 months, and we have been pretty good except for the rare arguments that we work out. He has a huge sense of humor, and he makes jokes about anything, everything, and he knows that I always say he doesnt know when to stop. We are in our early ... (319 words)

Sexless marriage after 27 years, how can I change this hopeless situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

22 March 2012 (F)

age - Im not sure how can I stay in this marriage. It's a shame, but now it is now, 100% sexless. After 27 years. The sad thing is that he used to be very sexual and now he never even looks at me. He has problems getting an erection long time ago, but there was never any medical ... (93 words)

Should I date a professor if we're close in age?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

22 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, I feel silly posting this, but I am hoping someone with personal experience, either as the student or preferably the professor, in a similar situation can give me some advice. Let me start by saying I am not a young, impressionable girl. I am in my 30s and returning to... (934 words)

I'm 17 weeks pregnant and it now hurts after sex

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

22 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi can someone help me, recently it really hurts after sex, and no i don't have any infections i got checked out yesterday it gets really painful after he ejaculates i have been sexually active for 5 years and its just started happening recently, i got tested for everything got ... (59 words)

My wife agreed to introduce this third woman into our sex life to spice things up, but now I have feelings for her. My insecure wife is fine with other women but not this one, why doesn't she want me to be happy?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

22 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have been married 14 years. Pregnant at 17 but in love at the time. Because of the diffucultys of being young parents we went through a lot of struggles. I feel this had a registering effect on some of our marriage because of the stress that came along with it. ... (633 words)