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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He danced with everybody but me at my prom!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I need advice on this guy I like. We met back in July at church, and have been in contact ever since. I don't see him very much because he lives in a different state. Anyway, I asked him to prom and he said yes. So he prom was 3 nights ago. On the way there he would hold ... (354 words)

I'm just the stop gap girl!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm so fed up I'm just always the girl in-between, I met boy and we start dating and it always ends with them texting me sorry ur an awsome girl but I'm getting with someone. This have happened to me for a year now and can't remember how many to times, but everytime... (108 words)

I am the one who does the texting and keeping in contact!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

20 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been talking to my best friends cousin and I really like him but he always brings up the fact that when we were younger he used to like me and now he us making me pay fir it. I'm always the one who.keeps calling him or texting him. Do you think that im trying too hard? ... (58 words)

My boyfriend says live for today, I want to plan for tomorrow.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My bf of 2 years often says that i should live and be happy for today and not think about future, since future is always uncertain. He hasnt proposed and he never talks about our future together and when ever i talk about our future together he says the abov... (98 words)

Eight years later and I am still confused about what he wants!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

20 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to know if I am in love and what the hell is going on? I have known this man for 8 years, we went on a couple of dates 6 years ago, then he moved away for college, then we started up a long distance relationship for five months 4 years ago then he went to prison (not his ... (235 words)

Need advice on how to "train" my boyfriend in terms of sex.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

20 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend still has a lot to learn, especially to be more gentle. Simply telling him "Be gentler" only works for a few minutes usually. I know he's the one, we've already talked about marriage, and we want to wait till after we're living together. We have gotten to th... (182 words)

Boyfriend problems - Is it really over?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

20 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. I would appreciate some advice about my situation with my boyfriend. We've been together for four and a half years and always been long distance only seeing each other on weekends. I always go to see him because I still live at home and he has his own place so we ... (1188 words)

I gave him herpes, and now our sex life has died!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

20 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - After we found out that we have genital herpes, our sex life died. I am the one who infected him. He is still caring and we do kiss cuddle and talk about it. He cannot keep an erection and he has gained weight. He is always checking my hygien behaviour and this makes me ... (76 words)

I feel insecure about my 34C breasts!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

20 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi this is gonna seem a really cliché question. I've always been really small like a size 6/8 and 5 2" so this is going to seem inevitable but I am really self conscious about the size of my boobs. On paper they should be fine ( 34C) but they look absolutely tiny. I try to ... (91 words)

What advice can you give me to help with this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

20 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I need to understand why my husband lies about stupid things... I've asked him not to look up porn on my contract phone and he did it repeatedly and when busted he lied and said he didn't look it up... I told him if he wants to watch porn then we can go buy some videos and ... (522 words)

How should I phrase the question, to let him know he can say no?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this friend who offered up his house for me to stay at when I drive through to visit my sister. We aren't that great of friends but only because we live pretty far away. We get on incredibly well and I had a tiny crush on him/we'd flirt a lot (that really isnt very ... (154 words)

What do you think of our relationship? Is this a pipedream for me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

20 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so in need of some good advice.. I have been with my fella for 8 months..he always tells me he loves me, we have a really good connection and I really love him. I have my own house (rent it) and a good job, good family and friends and a good life. My fella has 2 kids, ... (364 words)

We were going out, now she changed her Facebook status, what does this mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

20 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok I met this girl a couple weeks ago.I'm 25 and she's 26. We have been a multiple dates and she says she is interested in me and we have lots of fun together. She doesn't have a job and can't drive cause she doesn't have her licence. So i have to buy everything. She says shes ... (147 words)

Why is having sex painful?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - why is sex painful... (4 words)

My boyfriend does not study and it bugs me, what can I do to motivate him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hey so, my bf and I go to school together and we have 2 classes together. It really bugs me because I'm really serious about school like I'm always studyingand trying to get really good grades, but my bf on the other hand would rather play video games all day than study. He ... (165 words)

We brole up because neither was willing to move, should I visit him although there's no hope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to visit my Ex-boyfriend in NYC. We broke up while in an LDR because neither one of us are willing to move. That remains our 'reason' for breaking up, though we also had a very volatile relationship while physically together so I'm not sure how we would have ended up ... (189 words)

Why can't my bestfriend trust me as I trust her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 March 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Im Jonas and Im seventeen and my bestfriend is Camille and she is sixteen. We hang out three times a week with other mates. We are really close and I love her like family. Id trust her with almost anything even if she has to ask me to talk to her if Im feeling shit [I don't ... (150 words)

Is there any way to delubricate? I get wet easily.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

20 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - my bf and i. had a fool around kiss and touching. im scared that he finds out i get wet easily. if he kiss me i get wet easily. how will is stop getting orgasm and wet easily?? please i need some help!! and a dicharge after i get orgasm... (53 words)

Can a girl get pregnant from being fingered with sperm on the fingers?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

20 March 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - so my girlfriend and i were having sex... i pulled out and came on her stomach... i got some on my hand which we wiped off with a towel and wiped off her stomach then about 2 minutes later i started to finger her again and fingered her for a while.. but i realized once i had ... (79 words)

We are separted, he thinks I cheated. I want to send him a birthday card. Should I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

20 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I are separated for the last 2months. We had a lot of issues going into this, but the main issue now is he thinks I cheated on him. I want to try and work things out with him, and in the beginning he said he did too, but I am not so sure where that stands right ... (161 words)

Getting increasingly concerned about my girlfriend's friendship with a guy who fancies her....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

20 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Been with my partner for 5 years things have been great and have not really had any issues with jealousy until now, my gf is constantly talking/hanging out with this male school friend of hers from high school who does fancy her and is single (she herself as told me this) The ... (274 words)

I stopped anything from happening because I was worried about being too wet, is he going to be pissed off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hello everyone, im with a long distance relationship with my boyfriend now hes back in my country to spend holiday with me. i love him and he loves me too. he said that he likes me so much. lie evrytime i touch him. theres a connection. the spark between us. we fool around ... (225 words)

Dumping a guy over pornography use?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

20 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Has anyone here ever dumped anyone over pornography use? How bad was it? I want to find a man who doesn't use it so I can feel special for once.... (30 words)

I don't know why he did this, and why I let myself be treated like trash. Was it all my fault? Or is he partly to blame?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I added a guy i vaguely knew from school on Facebook and he accepted. (this was in 2008) We started chatting online, reminiscing and what not and eventually we arranged to meet up after he got back from travelling. I barely knew him from school (we left school in 2002) so the ... (732 words)

Trying to be supportive to my friend but I cant cope with her behaviour much longer, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My friend has been upsetting me.lately because she is using her baby to make me feel guilty and play silly mind games. She hasnt got alot of family and i promised that i would be there for her as much as i could be when baby arived. I work long hours and have to to keep a roo... (314 words)

Is he dating this new girl to make me jealous? Is she a rebound? Or could he have found love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I of six years broke up three months ago. Our break up was mutual. We were having a lot of problems. Most of our problem was because of his behavior. We have been dating since we were twenty and five of those years we lived together. I agreed to let him stay ... (283 words)

Is this an unforgivable mistake? Should I believe nothing happened between my husband and the other woman?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have been together for 13 years and married 7 this year. We started dating when i was 15. My Husband is my best friend and love of my life. Until Nov. of last year our marriage was great really. We had our fights and my husband wasn't ever the sweetest or ... (292 words)

We've been married for 10 years but I fantasize about making love with another woman!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Do i love my wife? We're married for five years but no one knows i have a fantasy about making love with another woman! WHat should i do? I don't want to get divorced!... (34 words)

My boyfriend that I love has violent tendencies. What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello all, Your views would be most welcome. My boyfreind of a year and a half has aloways had a bit of a short temper. Not with me, as I have backed off and he has finally started commting and become gentle , attentive and kind to me, but wuth strnagers and driving etc he ... (327 words)

How can you treat someone that you plan to take on as a life partner, like this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend 2 years, we just had a fight 3 days ago and he has not communicated by phone, email or text since, and he doesn't answer his phone when I call. I don't know if he's alive or dead. Now I know a lot of people will be saying give him time to cool off, ... (164 words)

Time for friends.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm wondering how you strike a good balance of sharing space and friends with your partner. I've been with my boyfriend about 9 months. I don't really mind inviting him out when its a group of people, and its an easy get together. I feel like I have a good balance ... (776 words)

I know I'm too young for a boyfriend, but I still feel really lonely!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

20 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Since I don't have a boyfriend and you guys made me realize that I should wait for one because I'm too young. Agreed. But lately I've been feeling so so lonely. I go to a high school where you cannot really approach people. You actually can't approach anyone even if you want... (90 words)

I can't believe my wife might may be harboring one of the strains of HPV virus just because she gave a few guys blowjobs before she met me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife is always getting cold sores in her mouth. We've always just used over the counter medicine to control/heal it. Finally, after dealing with this for a few years, I took her to see our doctor. He did a checkup, checked out her cold sores, asked what kind of treatmen... (298 words)

Do I have the right to ask for a smear test?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been experiencing bleeding after intercourse, black blood occasionally through the day, weight loss, pain when having sex, pain when passing urine and don't even mention my bowel habits! I have been going to the doctors for about 18 months now and I finally was referred... (191 words)

How can I keep a serious relationship with one guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

20 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need help as concerning to my problem which have been trying to overcome,but to no avail and it goes like these: i am 19 years old and i have not been in a serious relationship with a guy before due to the fact that i hate visiting people and this always affect my ... (116 words)

I'm more offended by my boyfriend using heterosexual porn than lesbian porn!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 March 2012 (F) age 30-35 - Am I the only one that is more offended by my boyfriend using heterosexual porn than lesbian. With lesbian he's obviously looking at the actions and that's something he won't get to see. I HATE the idea of straight sex videos, why is he watching we have been doing. It's not ... (52 words)

I know he was so bad for me, but why cant I forget about him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years after his last bout of binge drinking, staying out of work, running out of money and then being emotionally abusive and then dismissive towards me. This is a pattern that has been played out again and again, so I have forgiven again and ... (152 words)

At what age do you think should people think of getting married and having children?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - What age do you think is people should start having a family? I have a 25 year old daughter, who is very accomplished, smart, beatifull, full of life....and doesn't want even to think of getting married and have children just yet. She is still studying for her master degre... (359 words)

Is she jealous of her best friend being with my best friend because she has feelings for him, or is she jealous of their engagement?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4658 days ago

20 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - well im not sure how to explain this its kinda odd i suppose and may make me look like an a$$ but it bothers me and i need a lil help ive been datin my gf for about 2 years and her best friend is now engaged to my best friend which tore our friendship apart and my gf's and ... (375 words)

Am I wrong for being curious about what she is doing when she is on this game for up to 8 hours a day?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

20 March 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend plays World of Warcraft from anywhere from 3 to 8 hours a day.When I walk by her I sometimes stop to look at her "whisper" box to see who she's talking to. She has become increasingly upset at this,telling me I'm annoying and rude and she needs her privacy. ... (124 words)

Did he break up because of me? Did I do something wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend was dating for around 3 months. Before that we were best friends for 6 years. Everything went smoothly at the moment, but then when he had gotten grounded for his grades everything went downhill. I couldn't go to his house anymore after school, so I was ... (353 words)

No mum, dad and the kids for this guy, he wants the single life and sex with me on the side!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Why didn't he commit to me and kids? My ex and I have 2 young children together.we.recently broke up in January. We had only just began living together as a family as he had lived with his mum prior to this, she passed away and left him her home. He moved in with me and our ... (199 words)

Genital warts! Deal breaker or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

20 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl a little while ago and she told me she had genital warts!!!!! weve been going out for like 2 months mainly getting to know each other and she told me. We havnt done anything sexual yet. Cause we just got out of relationships and taking things slow.. NOW IS TH... (166 words)

He's just not that into me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy for a few months and his interest level dropped for some reason a little. He still asked me out but it wasn't the same. I picked up the book "He's just not that into you" and I read parts of it everyday. I am believing that this is the case in my ... (185 words)

My best friend is flirting with my boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - When I first met my best friend I thought she was the most sweet adorible person in the world, but I'm starting to change my mind... Yesterday I invited her and my boyfriend to go swimming with me and she was non-stop flirting with him. she even came up to me and him and said ... (144 words)

How could he not know my name?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So a few weeks ago I decided to go on criagslist personals. I came across an ad for a guy and decided to reply. We exchanged pictures, and hit it off instantly. We began emailing eachother back and forth every day for about a week and then he asked me to text him. We continued ... (185 words)

For 20 years he has tried to take over all my friendships and family

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband tries to take over all my friendships with friends and family he acts overly nice and feel like he is rally fake when he is doing this he has done this to me all the time we have been together 20 yrs. what is wrong with him he doesn't try with his own friends and ... (78 words)

I feel guilty about my break-up but I couldnt deal with my girlfriend's behavior anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, I just broke it off with my gf of 2 years and for the past couple of days been feeling lots of emotions but the most I feel is guilt. My reasons for ending it were was her drinking issue, extreme neediness, insecuritys, controlling, jealous, and emotionally... (391 words)

FWB with you ex boyfriend...good idea or bad?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - friends with benefits?? good or bad idea with your ex boyfriend?... (11 words)

Is it normal for an attached man to pay for lapdances?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

20 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi- I'm interested in guys' opinion on this one. Do ou think it's normal for a guy who has a gf to still go to strip clubs on the weekend with his guy friends and to pay for lap dances? I could understand the bachelor party thing and for single guys to want to do that but a guy ... (88 words)