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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why couldn't I love the man who loves me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

15 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I have divorced my husband 2 years back. I often used to wonder why i left my exhusband in the first place. He doesnt earn much other than that he is a good person at heart and he still loves me and wants me back. I know he is very dull and kind of boring sometimes... (129 words)

I have no idea how to attract girls! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

15 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been terrible at attracting women for my entire life. I have been on a sympathy date and have no other experience. Frankly, any woman who has shown attraction to me has rebuffed it once I open my mouth (or in some cases, fail to find anything to say). I feel like my ... (167 words)

He loves me but also loves his baby mama

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

15 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a relationship with a guy who I know loves me but also loves his baby mother. I love him dearly but don't know if I should stay or go. What should I do? Im in a tug of war between my heart and my mind. ... (47 words)

Is he cheating on me or is he just stressed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

15 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Could this be a sign of cheating. i haven't seen my boyfriend since saturday he has been working alot latley he had to work on tuesday can he usually has tuesday off work he said one of the guys there got hurt and he had to work for him. i stayed the night with him last nig... (240 words)

Is it just for sex or is there something more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

15 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing this guy for several months and was casual dating but i have began to fall for him. I know he is still seeing other girls and i am seeing other guys but its him i want i dont know whether to talk to him or not since i know he is a player or walk away? the ... (116 words)

He is not listening to me. What I want now is his affection!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

15 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have participated in swinging, mostly me having encounters with other me and occasionally girls. My husband would get turned on by putting craigslist ads and inviting young men over and single women or couples to come over. It would usually turn out into a blow ... (338 words)

Why do guys find flexible girls sexy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

15 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do guys find it sexy if a girl can do the splits or can wrap their legs around their neck, basically be flexible?... (24 words)

How can I be supportive without putting pressure on her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4664 days ago

15 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been spending time with a girl who iv fallen for, but shes being hastled by her ex alot he's giving her a hard time coz he wants her back and is calling her names coz shes been seen out with me and hes saying shes easy ect. Now i dont want to cause her trouble i really ... (98 words)

I don't want to because his ex did!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

15 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - i know that this may seem strange but im a jealous person and anyway my hubby ask me to give him blowjobs when im on my period and ive done it once but i just cant seem to do it anymore because his ex wife used to do that for him and blowjobs in the car whenever he wanted it i ... (71 words)

How can I become more confident in myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

15 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Agony Aunts, So basically, my self esteem is pretty low, I can't define what triggered this but over the past few years I've become quieter and quieter. I'm mainly worried about what other people are saying/thinking about me behind my back. I'm quite a ... (268 words)

Should a woman make the first step towards a man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

15 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Has it ever happened to you to feel attracted to a man, feel like he is attracted to you too but because he is not saying anything about seeing each other outside of work, you would get confused? Would you mention that you really really like him? Or is it unwise for a woman to ... (89 words)

We broke up but still havr sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

15 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - i was with a woman for a about 2months. she ended it and said were not right for each other but she would like to be good friends. she hasnt had a relationship in years and her ex died years ago. that maybe why she ended it as she maybe scared but unsure. anyway we see each ... (169 words)

Unsure if my long distance relationship is going to work

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

15 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am currently in a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend (we've been together for one year, seven months). He lives in Mexico City and I moved to Florida three weeks ago with my mother to finish school and get my U.S. Citizenship. We discussed a few months before the ... (342 words)

He doesn't appreciate me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

15 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is in the hospital for the second time in 5 months. He had to have heart surgery for the second time, and is going through another 6 weeks of IV antibiotics for the second time. He's been in the hospital basically since October with a month and a half of time ... (446 words)

Could I be gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

15 March 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - dear readers, Since I went to a boarding school I got the idea if I am gay or not. I went to a new country, new language made it hard to make friends. First three weeks were amazing but then I started disliking it it didn't show the expectations that I had. So after 2 weeks... (247 words)

Without being engaged, does that mean that the long-term feelings aren't there?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

15 March 2012 (F) age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year, and one of my friends asked me why I wasn't planning on getting married with him anytime soon. I told her I wasn't ready to get married necessarily anytime soon, but she then asked why I wasn't engaged yet, then, and that ... (166 words)

How can I get things back to normal with my friend?

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15 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been speaking to a boy for about 3 months now and we've been texting, calling and meeting up with each other. He was saying how much he likes me and i also like him too, alot! Recently we had a bit of a argument and he told me to delete his number and stop talking to him, ... (163 words)

How do you know if someone is right for you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

15 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you know when you're with someone for the long-term, and whether it can last? I'm just wondering if I'm overthinking my relationship with my boyfriend of a year. Basically, he has excellent qualities, he's a good person, I love him. But lately, I've been thinking... (311 words)

My ex will not let go and I want to move on

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4662 days ago

15 March 2012 (F)

age - My ex is having a hard time letting me go: Him and I dated 9 months lived together 8 I asked him to move out last August gave him time to look for a place well one did not work out because of his credit he looked very little but did look again I packed up his clothes we... (400 words)

Is it normal for boyfriends to complain to friends about you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

15 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it normal for your boyfriend to complain about you to a friend? Do the circumstances matter? I know that I've discussed concerns I have about my boyfriend or about our relationship to friends, but because ultimately I believe my boyfriend is a good person and I love him, ... (248 words)

I want to have a relationship--but I find women utterly annoying!!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

15 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - ok here's my problem. i've never really had a successful relationship with a woman. the reason is...the ones I've dated or known closely have gotten to be the most annoying, superficial. dishonest, and gossipy individuals I've ever met. i am beginning to think i just dont mix ... (239 words)

Is he getting his satisfaction from porn or just not into me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

15 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello All, My bf and I have been together for 1.5 years, and we have lived together for a few months. We generally have great sex and frequently. My one big concern is that sometimes he can't hold and erection or reach orgasm. We'll keep trying and it will go soft. Sometimes ... (231 words)

A friend old enough to be my grandfather told me I drank too much and then offered to have a FWB relationship with me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

15 March 2012 (F) age 36-40 - Hi everyone! Hope you can help me with this. I am a student in a country different than my own. I made a lot of friends at university and in my new life. One of them is a lot older than me and an artist (he just turned sixty and I am in my mid twenties). I met him last February ... (442 words)

Why is my boyfriend making a big deal of me posting on his Facebook wall?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

15 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - why is it everytime i post to my bf facebook wall. it seems hes brought it up. hes pickin on me" like why are you posting on my wall"then i said nothing i just wanna tell you someting, he said who am i bragging to? cause i post on his wall - ill see you soon darling" - then he ... (163 words)

My fiance broke my cell phone and wont pay for it, because of this he ruined our daughters birthday. Should I end the relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

15 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I was with my fiance for 3 years on and off..well in that time we have had numerous problems..for a while now I thought he really just has been using me for sex because all though he works and goes to school full time he makes little time for me if any. Emotionally he is not ... (562 words)

Boyfriend can't orgasm during sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

15 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been together nearly 5 months, and we had sex for the first time about a month ago. Since then, we've had sex around 10 times but for some reason he can never orgasm, even after we've been doing it for 1 hour. He can orgasm with oral sex or if I use my ... (93 words)

How do I make him own up to his cheating without coming clean that I read his messages?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

15 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - As wrong as this sounds, I read my boyfriends messages.. and I found out he is cheating on me. Planning on paying a prostitute $30 an hour for sex, and planning on hooking up with her, I would of never guessed! He seems soo sweet, and wanting too do things, and he gets super ... (151 words)

How do I approach my girlfriend's weight issue?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

15 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - In the 3 years we have been together my GF has been slowly letting herself go physically to the point where I no longer find her attractive. When we met in college, she was more physically active on a daily basis but now she has an office job where she just sits around all ... (289 words)

I don't see how this is going to work long term for me, should I bring it up now? Or wait until we have been together longer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

15 March 2012 (F) - I met someone from online in PERSON who lives about 3 hours away. We both seem to like each other and have been in contact everyday now whether it's through text or phone conversations. He already said he wants us to be boyfriend/girlfriend the second time I saw him He ca... (362 words)

Rather than dealing with our problems, at the first sign of trouble she goes straight onto dating sites!

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

15 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for 3 years now. It appears that every time there is a problem or I am not up to scratch, that instead of telling me what I have done or not done, she goes on date sites and talks to men. For the last year I have been stumbling across it, she ... (130 words)

Ladies, is a 4.25" penis big or small?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

15 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Ladies, do you consider a 4.25 inch erect penis to be big or small? Do you have experience with this size? If so how did you like it? ... (28 words)

Confused about my sexuality and wondering what lesbian sex is actually like....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

15 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I am confused about whether I am straight, lesbian or bisexual. I am sexually attracted to men but I also fantasise about having sex with women and having their beautiful naked body rubbing all over mine. I am still a virgin (but not text book- I masterbate) so I haven't ... (115 words)

Does she like me more than a friend? Why is she quiet around me but not with her friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4664 days ago

15 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, this might be a bit long for some... Anyways so I know this girl in college (for a couple of months) and we only recently started to hang out and do stuff together like 3, 4 weeks ago. It has never been just the 2 of us, but a group friends when we hang out, ... (508 words)

How often do you see your boyfriend/girlfriend in the average week?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

15 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Dearcupid, I was wondering how often you see your boyfriend/girlfriend on average? My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for almost four months and we only see each other once a week, usually on Saturdays. Sometimes he will text me something cute about missing ... (290 words)

Why do these few faults in my fiance make me feel like he is replaceable when I know that I will never find another guy who will be there for a woman who has 4 kids and a truckload of baggage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

15 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my fiance "Juan" for 5 years and we make a great couple and a great team. But he frustrates me. He occasionally insults me about my weight and says I am lazy when it's a symptom of my depression (my doctor and I are trying out different combinations of meds to ... (330 words)

Confused with my feelings for my current partner as we are growing apart, and now there is a man from work I am starting to have feelings for. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

15 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a strong career woman with a partner for six years. Technically, we still can't get married because we don't have divorce in our country and I got married when i was pretty young to someone whom i have been separated for about 11 years now. i consider myself a pretty ... (638 words)

The lack of sex has put me in a constant state of frustration and I don't know what to do

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

15 March 2012 (F)

age - Hi there. I am 53 f engaged to 51 m. We have been living together for 2 years and are getting married later this year. I keep putting off the date as I get a knot in my stomach when I think about it. The problem is that sex is not happening. He never "comes" and does not seem... (280 words)

So many problems in our marriage and a husband unwilling to work on anything, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4665 days ago

15 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married 15 years now and i will be the first to admit i was most of the problem in the marriage due to bi polar and low self esteem but my husband has made it tricky too because he suffers from what they call sexual anorexia. i know that sounds strange and a lot of ... (773 words)

I feel like I'm a bad wife because I don't like giving him blowjobs, what can I do to stop being disgusted by them?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

15 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Im 24 years old and newly married for 9 months. Our sex life has been great except that my husband really likes for me to give him blow jobs, but no matter how hard i try i feel disgusted to do so.I think the taste/smell is what puts me off.I love him so much that I feel ... (188 words)

I'm ready to lose my virginity to her, but a few things are getting in the way!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

15 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 26 and in a relationship. I have never had sex before, but feel that I've finally found the woman that I would like to give myself to. We have a great connection, and this week we started to get hot n' heavy and she asked if I wanted to. I said no for two reasons- I had no ... (299 words)

Should I reconsider the trip for my reputation? Is it too early to go on vacation together?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

15 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 21 and I've been dating someone from my university for two months. We've planned a 3 day trip to another state for spring break. We both think it would be really fun to explore another city together. However, my mom was furious when she found out. Reasons are obvious, esp... (232 words)

I am tired of living with a dog I don't want and a wife I don't trust.

This question has 49 answers - newest was posted 4091 days ago

15 March 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I live in a small 2 bedroom condo with my handicapped wife and our two girls, 8 and 5. We run a business out of our home as well. Needless to say, the place is crowded and life for me is restrictive. For years my wife has asked if she could get a dog because the kids really ... (314 words)

Is it better to tell a guy you like him, or play it cool?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

15 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So. I'm into a guy friend of mine. We're both 19. Pretty sure he knows (all our friends know). We hang out a lot and do stuff together and talk quite a bit, but so far he really hasn't been the initiator for a whole lot of it, although he seems to enjoy whatever we do when I ... (417 words)

Ex said I was the best girlfriend he ever had but wasnt attracted to me! Why on earth was he with me for a year if this is true?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

15 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex told a friend that i was the best girlfriend he ever had but he wasn't attracted to me? What does this mean and if he felt like this, why were we together for a year?... (37 words)

Has his sex drive decreased with age? Or is he getting it elsewhere?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

15 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I'm in a fwb kinda arrangement, I was wondering does a mans sex drive go down with age? he is 36 I am 26. or do you think he is getting it elsewhere? this is what has been happening, when we met he would come round two three times a weeks and stay, then gradually it becam... (167 words)

Do natural contraception monitors work?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

15 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi This isnt a relationship question as such... more of a sex and practical question. I do not get on well with hormonal contraceptives. They do horrid things to me, and I stopped taking them. My boyfriend uses condoms, but it would be nice to try without them. Obviousl... (164 words)

My dad wont accept my partner because he has children! What can I do to change his views?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

15 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help me as I am feel I will go mad!! Thus is my life...nearly 32,with a wonderful wonderful guy who treats my so so well, I work full time and part time, volunteer for a youth club, rent my own house. When my parents go away, they depend on me to take care of the hous... (314 words)

Is he just a shy guy who possibly fancies me or a stereotypical "lad" who doesn't care about me all that much?

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15 March 2012 (F) age 30-35 - I'm currently at uni and there's this guy I find very physically attractive, but I am really big on personality and as I only know him through friends I'm not sure what to make of him as I haven't spoken to him very much. It's like he's two people. Sometimes, he's really nice... (262 words)