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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I am jealous that other men got her while she was partying, carefree and slim, and I only get the "in debt and less attractive" version of her

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

21 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, hoping you can help me out here. I've been dating a girl who I really love for almost 4 years now. I know she loves me too. Something causes me to be really upset and question my whole relationship. I should give a bit of background, she is my first serious relation... (344 words)

Why do I want to be in a dysfunctional relationship

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21 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - let me give you the background. I have been in a relationship with another girl for about 1.5 years. we both had been in relationships before and are both lesbians. well when we met, it was love at first sight. no way to explain it unless its happened to you. so we started ... (231 words)

Why does it make me so upset that he doesn't do the little things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4626 days ago

21 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I read a couple of articles from here and I find it nice that they are recent and discussed. Makes me hopeful I will get some on your opinions, as my head is not clear - so it seems. Steady boyfriend, two and half years now. We met at work, then he left for a better... (532 words)

I want to convince my guy to go on a trip. Should I?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4626 days ago

21 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm going to try to make this long story short: -fell in love with a guy, been talking for 4 months (still new) -parents don't like that he didn't go to college -just found out he has anger problems sometimes, controlling, and insecure. -he had a tough past and i believe t... (346 words)

36 and never been in a relationship. What can I do to turn my love-life around?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

21 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a 36 year old man who has never had a girlfriend in my life, not even a 1 week fling with someone, nothing at all. What am I doing wrong? I have tried numerous approaches, people say take them to dinner and stuff like that but I have never even had the oppurtunity to take ... (139 words)

Boyfriend calling me for a party but I'm not sure. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4626 days ago

21 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has been bugging me to go out partying with him and his mates after school tomorrow. Here is the thing I don't want to go, not because I don't mind partying but because I don't want to feel like a babysitter watching him and his mates get drunk. Im not a drinker ... (120 words)

How do I offer this FWB situation to him without sounding like a whore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

21 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known this guy for a couple of years now and we have gone on a couple of dates. Well.... last week we had sex, but he let me know that he he is not interested in a girlfriend and Im not interested in a boyfriend. I want to be FWB but also have a best friend but also ... (83 words)

I'm torn! Is he the man I'm meant to be with or am I just wasting my time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

21 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I met an incredible guy like two months ago...Since we met we had a nice time together..He told me he doesnt live here in my city....he was here for bussines..he works with his family and they travel a lot...They can stay 1 or 2 months en each place..not more...now he moved to ... (200 words)

My best guy friend was having constant fights with his girlfriend because of me, so I told him we cant be friends anymore. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

21 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I just broke all ties with my guy best friend because I was getting hurt with whatever that was happening and I couldn't take the pain. We've been best friends for two and a half years and he was literally my everything since i was going through a break up. Later on, you know... (332 words)

Sudden change in behavior of my girlfriend since her friend came on the scene.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4626 days ago

21 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, i have a girlfriend for 3 months, she's chinese and im not but im an asian too. so for the first two months everything was cool but suddenly she just changed telling me that because of her mood swings. after that she told me that she's helping her father's business she ... (216 words)

Why does it feel like I'm the one having to make all the moves?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

21 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Tell it to me straight people I especially need some advice from The men I'm seeing a man it's been about a month maybe once a week, but we go way back there's history. We've had three sleepover dates and lots of making out but I won't let him sleep with me yet. The thing i... (230 words)

Should I change my hair colour for him?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

21 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am dating a new guy and his type is brunette with olive skin. I am blonde, which i dye. My natural color is dark brown. Should I go back to my natural color? He asked me to but acted like he was joking but i dont think he was. So stay blond or go back to brunette?... (58 words)

Was I demanding in my last relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

21 March 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I am a 40 year old fellow from Nova Scotia. Recently I broke up a relationship that I thought would lead to marriage. (I have never been married.) The reason was the girl I was seeing was unreliable and lied. For example she could not keep appointments and could not keep... (269 words)

Will it work out with this guy I am dating or my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

21 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So i have a few dilemmas.com Dilemma #1: I have been dating this guy, who lives 7 hours away, for about 4 months now. I feel so in love with him. He is my evrything and I want to be with him so bad. My problem is I also have a daughter with my ex so I dont see how me and this... (166 words)

I love him, but is he using me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

21 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I loved my ex boyfriend so much, I thought we were in love but he dumped me saying he didn't want a relationship. A year later, he gets in touch. He asks for me back says he regrets everything that happened. We spent a night together, but I'm not happy I feel like he onl... (133 words)

I've avoided him because he stood next to a lady! was I wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

21 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'v been in a relationship with a guy. Sometimes i doubt his love for me but he proved me all wrong. We met sometime ago and we had great time chatting and eventually he kissed me for the long period of time. I was shock because it was my first i restricted him by pulling him ... (102 words)

I want my ex to know the relationship is over!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

21 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I have dated for a little over two years. I sort of ended our relationship the last week of February by email. We had broken up twice before than and had always reconciled, which the best idea. But, I was in love for the first time, in my first relationship and w... (584 words)

Why wont the guy I'm dating add me to facebook?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

21 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - The guy im seeing wont add me on facebook. We've been dating 4 months and after our 3rd or 4th date I added him but he didnt accept. I got angry one night and took it up with him and he told me the reason he didnt accept is because it still said he was in a relationship with ... (142 words)

Does sucking make the breast bigger?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

21 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - does sucking increase the size of breast ... (9 words)

Sex hurts..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

21 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I lost my virginity about a month ago. since then, i've had sex about 4 times. the problem is that i have pain during penetration. he can get it all the way in but he is not able to thrust because it hurts me. will this go away or is there something wrong with me?... (55 words)

Does anyone else have trouble forgiving in a relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

21 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Does anyone else find that whenever anyone does anything wrong they can't forgive them very easily? It's like whenever anyone's done anything wrong in a relationship I can't forgive them all I can do is keep moaning and going on about it. I am so stubborn in my ways, it's ... (52 words)

He went to the movies with a girl and lied to me about it...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

21 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - First, I'm in love with my best friend. We have been close for about 2 years now, we're always together. But we also have sex together, although we aren't actually in a relationship. He knows that I have feelings though and we have had "relationship" conversations before. ... (459 words)

Father of my baby will not give up pot and I don't want him around my baby!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

21 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, im a 20yr expectant mother in college. I have a problem. The baby's father doesn't do anything to help me. He's addicted to smoking marijuana and drinking cold medicines mixed with soda. Yes, you can get addicted to marijuana and HE NEEDS HELP. I don't how to get help for ... (432 words)

My boyfriend is bipolar and I'm constantly walking on eggshells around him, not knowing how his mood is going to be, from one moment to the next

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

21 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is bipolar, and i'm not sure whether to stay with him or not. We have been together for two months. When he is in a good mood, he is hyper, and he says he loves me, and he has bought me gifts, and everything is great, but when he has bad moods, he gets depresse... (1000 words)

I don't think he'd go the extra mile and try to sweep me off my feet

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4627 days ago

21 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi im 20 and my bf is 29...he is a good man very humble funny family oriented and jus a no worry person and god fearing. Weve been talkin for 6 m mths and we jus started talkin in aug...so the holidays were around the corner and his family is known for throwing big gatherings ... (329 words)

Can you strictly take care of physical needs and not harm the friendship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

21 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - hey,, i have a friend,, but she's just a friend , we are both singles, and we do not love /crush each other. is it right for us to have sex, just for our physical needs, will it hamper our relationship, if we dont get mentally involved. plzzzz rply... (49 words)

She lied to me about her relationship with her husband, but I still have to see her at work. What should I do in this situation?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

21 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I am married and in love with co-worker since 4 years. We share very intimate relationship like soulmates. Few months back she got married and she started to hide and lie things from me with regards to her relationship with husband inspite of we decidiing to keep ... (190 words)

Did I ever mean that much to my ex? And how long should I wait before I get rid of the stuff he left in my house?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

21 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my boyfriend of three and a half years last month. We lived together at first but he moved out 8 months ago because he was sent to work in another city, it was go or lose his job so it was understandable, and since then the relationship went downhill because ... (328 words)

How can women watch porn with their partners?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

21 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - One thing that bugs me is how can women watch porn with their boyfriends/husbands? Aren't you bothered he's getting turned on by another woman, who he possibly thinks is hotter? The thought is horrible.... (34 words)

Do men stop using porn when they have a girlfriend?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

21 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, us women need hope is there any men here who stop using porn/looking at it when they have a girlfriend? ... (22 words)

I think I should end it, but I don't want to hurt her.....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

21 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently posted a question about me dating a woman 28 years older than me. We've been together for 6 weeks and at first we were all cuddly and mad about each other but now it seems like she's gone off me and just wants me for my money. When we first got togethe... (335 words)

I only see my boyfriend once a week!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

21 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello all, I have been seeing my BF for over a year now, but am not seeing him enough, I have discussed this with him many times. but nothing changes. He calls me, and stuff, but we only see each other once a week sometimes twice, but not very often, I am now sick of saying i... (133 words)

Confused by his behaviour.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4628 days ago

21 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - about a month ago, while in town with a friend of mine, we ran into one of her guys friends. He was much younger than her, and not exactly what I had expected when she talke about him, but that's sort of beside the point. I could tell right away that he was interested in her, ... (659 words)

What happens to a person with unique style but ugly characteristics?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

21 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a weird assumption in mind and I'd like to have people talk about it. It is about variation of choice in partners. Lets say there are two groups of people: 1)Ones that are relatively normal, are tolerant against ugly characteristics such someone being fat or having... (159 words)

Should I tell him why I acted so badly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

21 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy who I met early this year, we get along very well, had brilliant banter and quite a bit in common. He was the one guy who always texted back quickly and in fact everyday! Just seeing how things were and before I went to bed to say goodnight. We never ran out ... (461 words)

I feel torn!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

21 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm writing as i am not sure how my married friend sees our friendship. We've been friends for 5 years and we try to have a chat each week. If we cannot make it, we text each other. Sometimes he's a little flirty (never sexual), and sometimes, if i text something a little ... (218 words)

Me and my boyfriend don't know which day our anniversary would be!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

21 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help us settle this debate. My boyfriend and I in a disagreement about when our official anniversary should be celebrated. Option 1: September 8th. This is the day we first slept together. We had been dating for two months before this date. Also, although we had not had ... (168 words)

Where do I go to find Mr Right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

21 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been single for a year now and I'm ready to start dating again but I don't know where to began looking for a date or dates. I tried internet dating where I met my most recent ex boyfriend who happens to be the father of my child and even dated a man I met while I was at ... (150 words)

It bothers me that I know more about him than he does about me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4627 days ago

21 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My friend is a guy and he says he trusts me alot which is good but he doesn't know why he trusts me and he knows very few actual things about me. We go through phases where we are very good friends but like I said, he barely knows anything about me and that seems to bug me. I ... (228 words)

How do I tell him I am still a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

21 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 20, I've been together with my boyfriend who is 21 for 2 months now and we have done pretty much everything in bed except full sex. He told me at the beginning that he has only had sex with one person (his ex girlfriend who he was with for 3 and a half years) and that's ... (263 words)

Caught mid kiss, now she wont talk to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

21 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I went away recently to visit some family, my nans brother and his step daughter / her husband. We are all very good friends and have met several times before this visit. However this time was different, it started the same as always, meet up as I had travelled to see them, go... (512 words)