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Archived questions from: 23 March, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I stop freaking out about his lack of contact?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

23 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help- I don't know if I'm overreacting or reading too much into my boyfriend's actions or not. He's not much of a phone guy, so most of our communication is through texting (we text every day). And we spend at least a couple days/nights together each week. When we are t... (305 words)

What's going on with this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

23 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So I started a new job a few months ago and one of my co-workers has caught my eye. He's very cute although a bit younger than me. When he sees me his eyes often go really wide and sometimes he'll look away quickly. He acts a bit nervous and fidgety in my company and can'... (325 words)

Am I worrying unnecessarily about his female friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

23 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - okay im really sorry if this is too long, so ive been with my boyfriend for 9months and i love him to bits. He tells me he loves me all the time. But im really worried at the moment. He's acting differant and he was talking with his parents and they thought he should give me ... (460 words)

Sexting with a co worker and all of a sudden it just went cold. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

23 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I recently got reunited with an old co worker. There has always been some kind of sexual tension between us. He is white and I am black. We live in the South and even though it is seen here, if you want to get up in the community you better not show it. He friended me on a ... (188 words)

I don't understand why she suddenly takes an interest in me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

23 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a friend who broke up with her boyfriend about 2 months ago. Recently she messaged me "I was thinking about you and wanted to see how you were. I miss you" We are not close friends but we have known each other for several years. She then said "We should get to... (148 words)

Would you marry your cheating partner?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

23 March 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Would you marry your partner that you have been cheating with. Do these relationships work? What are the pros and cons. My partner left me after 18,years together for another guy who she has now married... (36 words)

The family hate him, but I am falling in love with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

23 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, i am in love with my bestfriend. He is 19 years old like me and we have known each other for 17 years. He lives pretty much two houses away. Our friendship has had its ups and downs. There was a point in time when we didnt talk to each other for two years because of an ... (228 words)

How to keep anal sex clean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

23 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - hi there, im going to be having anal sex with my bf soon and i was wondering how to keep it clean as in how not to make a mess. if anyone knows that would be good thanks :)... (39 words)

Should I leave him for lying about porn?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

23 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Is porn a good reason to leave after 5 years? I've been with a guy for five years and everything was fine until I got pregnant the first time. He used porn everyday although we had sex almost every night the entire pregnancy... 3 years later he has continued to use it even t... (220 words)

I wanna talk dirty to my b/f

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4654 days ago

23 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - What are some ways to spice up my sex life with my bf? I've been thinking about a little dirty talking. I said something once to him and he was shocked that i said it so i said sorry, he said it was ok because he liked it just a bit. So what are some ideas i can use on my bf? ... (78 words)

I don't know who to stay with, ex or current boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4654 days ago

23 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i was in love with one boy for four years . i have a physical relation ship with him .but he changed (smoking and drinking).suddenly i met an another person and i fell in love with him but still i used to miss my ex boy frnd like anything.my ex boy frnd met me and we built... (80 words)

How do I know if her emotional affair got physical?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

23 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I think I am ready for a divorce. It has been 15 months since I found about my wife's affair. She was having an affair with my little cousin brother/best friend. He is married also with one child. We have three children, and have been married 17 years. I have trie... (303 words)

Is looseness a sign of cheating?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

23 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay I'm a young male around 18-21. My girlfriend lately has been very distance and when.we do have sex she feels loser. Is this a sign she is cheating?... (29 words)

I feel like the spark is gone. Will it ever come back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

23 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Why am I not as happy as I should be? I love him so much:(? My ex and I got back together after a year split. I love him so much and hated it without him. He broke up with me cause he didn't want a relationship at that time. We got back but I'm still depressed and ... (182 words)

We've broken up ten times, but I can't imagine being with anyone else

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

23 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend of 17 months broke up last Thursday. we have a 8 month old daughter together. this makes the 10th time we have broken up. he said that things didn't feel the same. simply because the last time we broke up we got into a big fight he came to my house and got ... (268 words)

How does a woman stay happy regardless of whether she's in a relationship or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

23 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - People always say as a woman, you should not need a man to make you happy. I agree with that, and I think its important to learn to stand on your own two feet and be happy with your own company. But sooner or later, you will meet a guy. And if that relationship goe... (157 words)

Single, old and broke -- what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

23 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am starting to feel like a bad person. Basically I am 31 and broke. I have no money. I work and have a job, but I have only been in it 2 months. I earn an ok salary, not great. mid £20's a year, which in London at my age is not great, but at the same time not the wor... (445 words)

My wife is matron of honor, and the best man is her ex!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

23 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have a question about weddings and what to do. My wife has this very good friend. After me, I guess you could say she was her 2nd best friend. She's getting married this summer. She asked my wife to be her matron of honor. My wife and I have been married alm... (341 words)

Why do I hate seeing my ex's having a good time and getting on with their lives?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

23 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, I was wondering why do I feel pissed whenever I see my exes having a good time and getting on with their lives while I'm stuck here dwelling on pasts reminiscing, I hate this because I'm the guy, I'm supposed to be having fun whenever someones breaking up with me but ... (75 words)

Why wont my husband have sex with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

23 March 2012 (F)

age - i am married and have been for 8yrs me and my husband has not had sex for 2yrs. he is 56 and i am 49 for some reason i dont know why he wont have sex with me and i have asked him if it is me and he says no he just says it is him... (57 words)

Should I be suspicious of my ex husband and our mutual friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

23 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I separated 3 months ago. He thinks I cheated on him, which I did not. And this is still something we are trying to work through. We have some mutual friends and it has been kind of awkward trying to remain friends with them. And he says I'm over reacting at the ... (376 words)

He dumped his ex after having sex with her, so I'm scared to lose my virginity to him in case he does the same to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

23 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been dating this guy for the last one year,he is wonderful,we get along very well.We have never been intimate.My problem is,he has seen and done a lot of sex before.He dumped his ex after having sex with her..Am afraid to loose my virginity to him then he later dumps ... (75 words)

Does my friend have feelings for me despite having a girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

23 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I was on the phone to my friend last night. We're very close and he's one of my best friends. He kept saying to me how he thinks I'd be the best girlfriend ever and how he loves me and cares about me. He's already got a girlfriend though so I kept saying he shouldn't say th... (108 words)

People give me nasty looks, so when they get one back they don't like it! Why is this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

23 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I dont get it, People are rude to me give me nasty looks but then when i do it to them they dont like it. Well what do you expect? What you put out you will get back? If your nice people will be nice back. Why are people like that if they dont like confrontation?... (60 words)

My boyfriend is choosing to masturbate to porn over having sex me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

23 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i am 21 and my partner is 23. we been together 6 months but known each other 8 yrs. i am a mum to a 4 yr old. me and my partner used to have sex all the time.....about 4/5 times a week, now everytime i go to touch him or blow him he pushes me away. 20 mins later he ses he ... (235 words)

He's too good for me so I don't dare ask him out! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

23 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with someone who's too good for me. So I've been having feelings for him for over a year. We're good friends but I always feel a bit inferior when I'm with him. He's just so all-rounded amazing at everything. And because of that I could never pluck up the courage ... (64 words)

We were talking daily, he asked me to be his girlfriend twice, but now I've not heard from him since Wednesday! What is going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

23 March 2012 (F) - I am very nervous. I met someone from online in february..we have been texting/talking every day/night..basically always some form of communication. He always reaches out to me in the morning. It is a little long distance-we are few hours apart but he seemed like he wanted this ... (459 words)

I blocked him on Facebook without telling him why, but I don't want to burn bridges because he could be useful in the future. Should I explain my actions? Or forget about it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

23 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi agony aunts. I was seeing a guy for about 2 months. It started out with us hanging out casually and then one night out of the blue he we made out no sex. (worst kisser i have ever had). After that the friendship bit got hazy, i tried to ask him about it once but he said he ... (408 words)

Should I go to her baby shower?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

23 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So my brothers ex girlfiend is pregnant. Me and her have been friends since high school we stopped talking for a while when I went to college but when I came back we just picked up where we left off. Now ive lost a best friend because of her b/c she also has a baby with my ... (289 words)

Guys: would you date a girl if you knew she had done nude modelling?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

23 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been modeling for an online lingerie site. I was approached by a porn site for nude modeling... The money they offered was amazing! I told them I would NEVER do photos with a man or another woman... Guys: Would you date a girl if you knew she had done nude modeling? W... (63 words)

Making a book for my friend as my leaving gift, should there be a love letter at the end now I have fallen for her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

23 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - In about two months, I'll be leaving the Philippines and going back home to New Jersey. I realize that I will be leaving my best friend here, and I admit that I will miss her a lot. Honestly, when I think about leaving... the thought that pops of most is the fact that I will be ... (219 words)

I feel that I am one of the worst people known

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

23 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a little unsure of where I should even begin. I am 23 years old and I am married to the most amazing person I've ever met. We've been together for over three years, and things are pretty much perfect. We both have decent jobs, a house, two cats, and are very much in love. ... (589 words)

Will I look needy if I give him a call?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

23 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - We agreed to be casual friends without sex. one night, we were drunk, and we slept together. The sex was bad on my fault. He didn’t call after that. 5 days later, I sent him a text message asking to hang out and watch a movie. He applied that he is out of town, but he’ll be ... (89 words)

My wife's brother's ex wife wants to "date" me if possible

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

23 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My wifes brother recently got divorced a few months back and I am in the process of a divorce as I speak. The thing now is my wifes brothers now ex-wife is starting to talk to me more and more. We had been friends in the past but never anything more. She is now hinting at me ... (121 words)

The guy I'm attracted to had sex with a co-worker who's twice my age. I get sick just thinking about it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

23 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright, so there's this guy... We met, and instantly were attracted to each other. Because of work schedules, we never got to really spend time together. He would occasionally drop in on me at work, and we would constantly text/message/communicate. Anyways, it was a mutual ... (268 words)

I don't know if I'm afraid of committment in general or if I'm afraid to commit to my boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4657 days ago

23 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know if I'm afraid of committment in general or if I'm afraid to commit to my boyfriend. We've been together for just over two years and although I've had little doubts about our future I always managed to work it out (nothing bad on his part, just me wanting the ... (263 words)

If he loved me back, why would he have let me go? How do you even know it was real?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

23 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I miss my ex so badly it feels like a physical ache in my chest. I feel deep regret that I let him go. I've never felt that much for anyone, or felt that comfortable and "myself" with anyone. I feel so sad I've let him down. I know he did things that made me unhappy and sad and ... (382 words)

My boss's fly is always open!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4657 days ago

23 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boss's fly is always open. I've been told that if it's a stranger, you shouldn't say anything because it would be...strange. But if you know the person, it's fine, isn't it? Well, I don't want to make him feel embarrassed or uncomfortable. Or give him the wrong idea! Like... (65 words)

Why do shy guys give off the impression they are mean or don't like you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4656 days ago

23 March 2012 (?) age 26-29 - I really hope I do not come off as rude or judgmental or annoying But I am curious, as to why some shy guys give off the impression that they are mean or do not like you (I'm sorry I don't really know how to word what I am trying to ask) But its confusing a little a... (425 words)

It creeps me out that my boyfriend masturbates in bed, next to me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

23 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not prude to someone's need to self please, I'm not even jealous or against it... but my boyfriend has been masterbating while I'm sleeping. I wouldn't even know about it if I hadn't caught him at least a half a dozen times. (and by caught I mean woke up and saw the laptop ... (147 words)

What is the average length of time that a man lasts during sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

23 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This might sound like a silly question and I know that every one is different, but what is the average length of time that a man lasts during sex?? I've been with this guy for about 5 months now and we just recently started having sex. He lasts about an hour and I sometimes ... (155 words)

What do you think about death?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

23 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I had many death lately in my family. Very close family members died, from different causes. So it is very difficult time for me, and I have hard time dealing with it. That got me thinking of death a lot generally. And its funny , but I can't find any comforting thoughts, not ... (98 words)

Should I ask I'm out, or wait to see if he asks me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

23 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Should I ask the Guy I like out, or wait to see if he will?? How long would i wait? How do I Know if he shows an intrest in me?? Or should I have my best friend ask him for me, but it is like a brother to her.. Any ideas.. Please help me, im not sure what to do... ... (61 words)