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anonymous
writes:I went on 2 wonderful dates with someone who isn't even from my area, he lives in another state. He was around for business. We both had such a great time together and there was a lot of passionate affection involved in that little time. He kept in touch consistently for a little over a month...but then he disappeared. It has been over 2 weeks. He said he'd call me, but didn't and I haven't heard from him since. For some strange reason after our dates, I felt very connected to him...I didn't want to admit it, but he admitted himself first that he felt the same way also. Next thing I know we are telling each other "I miss you" and etc. and planning to see each other again. It sounds NUTS I know because we barely know each other! I have never felt this way about anyone so fast ever. Now I can't stop thinking of him. I sort of feel like a fool for acting so sure of him so soon, but I guess it's because I haven't heard from him. I am trying to be realistic about everything, he lives SO far away so what's the point in getting my hopes up? And I have a feeling that is also why he hasn't called. He kept stressing repeatedly how the distance is so unfortunate. What can I do to take my mind off of him? I feel like this is worse than a break up!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (5 March 2012):
 ouch... how much do you really know about this guy?
you met him while he was on a business trip out of his element...and his real life... even though it was work for him I'm sure it was a bit of a holiday as well.
I wouldn't doubt he has someone at home either a wife or a live in... and you were just a fling on the side.
let him go.... mourn your loss
learn from this experience...
is there a chance he will be on business in your area again?
if yes he will probably contact you then... i'd be very hesitant to see him again just in your area... if he can't make a relationship work when he's in his home environment he's probably not serious relationship material.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2012): He's probably married...
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2012): Meet other people, get out and enjoy your life. If you have nothing to do then of course this misery will eat at you until you are devoured. So go with your friends family coworkers etc to have a good time. He will be forgotten it only takes time and meeting someone else who is interesting. So go for it.
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