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Archived questions from: 5 March, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is my relationship with my fiancee being impacted by my just diagnosed Bipolar?. My counselling starts end of this month.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

5 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I might be diagnosed with Bipolar, and i feel like my relationship with my fiance is at risk! Obviously i get in low and high moods and for the last few months i haven't been my self! My fiance is being wonderful but recently all he's done is stress me out. Now i don't kn... (135 words)

He wants me to meet his guy friends. How do I feel comfortable and not too shy and cope with this?.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

5 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello fellow aunts and uncles. I've been with my wonderful boyfriend for 6 months and everything is wonderful, all though we've had some issues regarding friends and "us" time. He likes to see his college friends on Saturdays and Thursdays which I've finally gotten my head aro... (300 words)

After 1.5 year of planning trip now g/f says she wants us to go separately and she's going with a male friend

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

5 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been planning on hiking the appalachian trail together for the past year and a half. The departure time is getting close, so 2 weeks ago she tells me that she wants to hike the trail separately now. That consists of me going alone, (2 weeks before her), ... (97 words)

I feel guilty about this. I can't discuss this with my parents, but can I just have one 'one night stand'?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4567 days ago

5 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello Everyone, I have been bought up very distant from boys and because I went to a christian primary school think that I should only have sex with another virgin and this should be who I marry if it happens before I get married. But now I am 16 and everyone is 'doing it' I ... (226 words)

Depressed if boyfriend moves on, but he isn't seeing both sides so what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

5 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place and desperately need help. I've been with my boyfriend for well over 2 years and the last 6 months, things have been very rough. To sum up, there are major trust issues with him emotionally cheating and also he has become verbally ... (189 words)

G/f says the trust is gone and she is afraid of me. I never did anything to her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

5 March 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend and I had a very emotionally intense relationship. She started full steam ahead (usually what I do) and I just went along for the ride. She has a 12 year old son that I was introduced to and spent time with as well. We had a future planned and things were going ... (173 words)

Are there solutions to this problem or do I need medical advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4673 days ago

5 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 19 and I've been seeing this guy for a few months now. I am not that sexually experienced, im still a virgin but i've done foreplay. Yesterday, i allowed him to try and finger me for the first time, but it didnt work. He could only fit 3/4 of his finger in there, it was real... (229 words)

How can I get my ex back as a friend without scaring him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4669 days ago

5 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I miss my ex boyfriend. I know this is a right of passage etc, but it doesn't make it any better. We were together for 6 months in a long distance relationship and were friends before we went out. It's been 3 months since we broke up and at the moment I'm missing him a lo... (141 words)

How can I protect my girl friend from the psychological abuse her foster parents are imposing on her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

5 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey – So long story semi-short. My girl and I have been together for 9 months. She’s 16, I’m 18. We’ve been together since she was 15 and a freshman in high school, and I 17 and a senior. She’s adopted, been with that family for 4 years now. Came from a bad background... (981 words)

My girlfriend is hurt and says I am keeping her a secret

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4673 days ago

5 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hello guys, me and my girlfriend are very serious about each other and have even spoke about engagement. althought we have both agreed to do it next year when we are both graduated. i love her so much and we have even looked at booking a holiday for next year. she is not... (187 words)

Could a girl ever accept my love of supermodels?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4673 days ago

5 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, I like supermodels and always have. Not the big-boobed, blonde bimbos in men's magazines but the high fashion models. When magazines like Vogue or Photo have their "Top Models" issue, I get it. If there's an interview with a model I like, I'll read it. My computer desktop ... (300 words)

I'm in love with my best friends cousin and he doesn't want me to date her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

5 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - am in love with a girl, not knowing she is my best friend's cousine, we both love each other but my friend did not want me to date her. pls wat should i do, am really hrt broken.......pls help.... (39 words)

I am infatuated with the girlfriend of my brother - and my fiance notice!!! I like them both, what to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

5 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I know her for years as she is in the long term relationship – 5 years - with my brother. I am in my late 20’s and they are both (my brother and his girlfriend) in their middle 20’s. My brother’s girlfriend and I have some strange desire, and although I am into this flirting, I ... (588 words)

Can an online relationship work out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4673 days ago

5 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy on this website for making penpals an we hit it off big time. We have been exchanging e-mail for about a month now. I love reading his mails. They bring a smile to my face, and make my day seem a bit more full of sunshine. A week ago, he sent me his pict... (276 words)

I figured out a way to break into her email to see if she's been lying and cheating. Should I?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4673 days ago

5 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I know it seems like here and else where there is the thing that if you look at someones email its almost as bad as killing someone but I have never seen it like this. Sometimes there are circumstances which make it almost so pressured to find out the truth. But I still feel ... (315 words)

Should I let him sleep over... first time meeting in person?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

5 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I'm new to online dating, and could really use some advice: I've been communicating with this guy over OkCupid for over 3 months. We're both students, facebook friends, and have regularly exchanged messages every other day or so since December. He's in Iowa... (196 words)

Starving for sex while husband jeks off in the next room!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

5 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband sneaks off to masturbate. One morning I woke up and wanted a cup of coffee while I watched whatever show I had recorded the previous night. My husband had left about an hour before, while i was still asleep. I made my coffee, and in my sleep shirt, sat on my couch.... (309 words)

Some help please for tips in asking him out!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4672 days ago

5 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Well i really like this guy who i get on with very well but i want to ask him out in a months time. What would you say im going to do it myself on laps but what would you guys say any tip storys or ideas thanks 3... (49 words)

Signals or signs that tell me if a guy loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4673 days ago

5 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - What is the kind of behavior that I should expect from a guy who is really in love with me?. How to know if a guy really loves me? I'm not in love with anyone. Infact I just broke up.. hence this question.. so I can have more insight as to decode guy moves. please do tell m... (103 words)

How do I handle this difficult family situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4672 days ago

5 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hai. Im not feeling like my real self right now and i dont know what to. The things is, my mother and father are always fighting; shouting at one another for some reasons i dont understand. So i kind of favoured my dad because he never started the shouting, my mom did. I am ... (178 words)

I miss my ex and want to be friends with him, how do I go about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

5 March 2012 (F)

He asked if I wanted to be FWB, I really want to but I'm scared because I'm a virgin! What should I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

5 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been pretty good friends with this guy for a year. We had an instant attraction and we both have wanted to be just more than friends but he had a girl friend at the time so nothing happened but he's now single. We've been flirting and talking about starting something ... (594 words)

How do you reject people you are not interested in?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

5 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - What is the best way to say no to someone? I just came from a long relationship and I'm just now setting foot in the dating arena again since a long time, so it's a bit awkward. Basically I'm having a hard time rejecting those I'm not interested in. Before it was easy: I'd just ... (185 words)

Not sure what to make of his feelings for his first love....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

5 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend has always told me how his first love was the best girlfriend he's had and how he would use her a signpost to compare his other girlfriends by. this bothered me alot as i felt he was always comparing what we have to what he had with her. it made me feel 2nd best ... (203 words)

Voluntary work that doesn't need references?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

5 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Can anyone recommend any voluntary work i could do that doesn't require references from employers?. I've been unemployed for a long time, and haven't had many jobs. I don't have enough work experience to get references from anyone, so i am looking to do a voluntary job that ... (82 words)

Went out for a drink with a male friend but didnt tell my husband the friend was a man, should I tell my husband the truth?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3263 days ago

5 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am in a slight dilemma over something that happened recently. I am a happily married woman with a stepson, and I have many male friends at work. They are just that, friends, and I would never think of doing anything with them that could harm my marriage. Anyway, I left... (325 words)

Can I get in trouble if I stop my son from going to his father's house? I feel uncomfortable with it because of the way he treats my son

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

5 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my child's father split up about a year ago due to him trying to hit me and punching a door while holding my under 1 at the time son, He denies this completely and has had regular access since we split. He see's his child about 3 times a month, if that (changes his mind ... (547 words)

I know he treats me badly, so why do I still have feelings for him and keep coming back for more?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

5 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been sleeping with this guy for a year now. It has been on and off and he has gone back with his ex gf for part of it and so we weren't together then. So right now I'm laying in his bed but he's not here. He's at her house and I heard so much shit from him last week ... (189 words)

We hardly have sex anymore, I've been so patient but I wont beg for it! Now there is another woman ready and waiting, so what should I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4673 days ago

5 March 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Amazing girl. Energy. Youthfulness. First 18months Average sex was 2 or 3 x a DAY for first year. Next 6m was 3/4 times a week Then we broke up for a number of reasons. Some jealousy and insecurity issues for me. Some nativity and insensitive issues for her 3m of hard pers... (621 words)

I have finally realised this married man is no good for me, but he left his whole life for me....should I cut all ties with him, or do I have to stay and work at it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

5 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have gotten myself into a serious mess and can't quite get myself out of it. I started an affair with a married man 3 years ago and even though I now realise the reasons self respecting women don't do this- its taken me a long time to realise it. Long story short-3 months a... (519 words)

I don't care about anything, is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

5 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - It it okay to have not care about anything? Its like i've lost interest in things over the years. It all started when I got rejected by my fist Love and ever since then I have been on a downward spiral with my inner self. At first I started to hate women and I became paranoid ... (167 words)

He told me he loves me but if my income doesn't improve he is going to kick me out! Am I taking advantage of him? Or is he being unfair?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

5 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I don't know where to begin. The man I'm in love with I think is bipolar. I'm in a sales job making very little money and unable to find something that pays better. I'm intelligent and have had past success but have been relatively poor and broke for over a year. I live with my ... (228 words)

I try so hard to be a good wife and be sexy for him but he is not interested and keeps coming on to other women!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

5 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I am having a hard time. In a relationship for a year. My husband keeps coming on to women. He went to Salvation Army to get us coats and 3 friends called he was all into this chick. I called him. No nothing to worry about. I went over and bailed out on talking to him he ... (318 words)

I cant talk to girls, so should I hire an escort to lose my virginity?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4673 days ago

5 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - 20 year old virgin, should i hire an escort to lose my vcard i am socially awkard and i have never spoke to a girl casually, and hardly speak to guys wither, except when im buying something or business like that.I do have an athletic body and i know some girls look at me... (127 words)

His ex girlfriend is his roomie!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

5 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, my bf and I have only dated for a week. I have a really good feeling about him and I. But I have a problem. Let me start with some background information about him: He and I met last year, we've been pretty good friends since. We secretly had a crush on each other, b... (460 words)

My soulmate is married to someone else and so am I!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4675 days ago

5 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I am married and in love with a co-worker of 5 years. Before we got into relationship it was pure physical with the fact we cannot get married, which later turned into emotional, love and trust me we are like soulmates. She got married to her parents choice and its been few... (144 words)

My friend bullies me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

5 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This is going to be kind of long, so I apologize ahead of time. I'm 20, my friend is 22. She gets mad at me for everything and anything you can imagine. I don't hang out with her, because I know the outcome. The only way we communicate is via text, xbox live, twitter. She gets ... (438 words)

I don't like having to play the role of Drill Sargeant!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

5 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay, my girl and I have been together for almost 2 years. (im 26 shes 21) The relationship is good except that we argue about her taking initiative of her life...she has narcolepsy and I've read up on it, I understand its a disease thats beyond her control. Ok, she says she ... (691 words)

Why do these men say they are not ready for a committed relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

5 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Can someone please give me an educated answer on this one? Preferbly a man?!! Why when you have been seeing or dating a man, spending all of your time together, getting treated like a queen, being introduced to the friends, being included in near future schedules, and sle... (145 words)

Why is my boyfriend thinking of another girl when he masturbates?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

5 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I found out from a friend that my when my boyfriend masturbates he thinks of me. But he also said he thinks of someone else but that person doesnt mean anything to him and I mean more than the other person Well if that person doesnt mean anything to him why is he thinking of ... (76 words)

For the men who do not suffer from retroactive jealousy, do you simply not think about girlfriend's or wife's past, or does it have no effect on you when you do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4272 days ago

5 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a guy who suffers from retroactive jealousy. I'm trying to figure how to get over this so I'm trying to figure out what is different about me compared to guys who don't have this problem. For the men who do not have RJ, do you simply not think about girlfriend's or ... (531 words)

I can't forget my childhood sweetheart!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

5 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I don't really know where to start. I guess I need your advice because it's been 17 years and I cannot forget this guy I met when I was eight years old. We went to the same school, for three years, he used to visit after school, then I moved away, and we lost contact. ... (1042 words)

I hope I am not being too hasty!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

5 March 2012 (F) - I met someone from online about a month ago. He lives about 3 hours away. The date seemed to go well and we basically have either been texting or talking each day. He also has a son which takes up alot of his time which is understandable. He is a very genuine guy it seems. Some ... (633 words)

My FWB got married without telling me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4673 days ago

5 March 2012 (F)

age - i had been seeing a guy for 8 years on and off always me doing the txting, when we met we both had just gone through a divorce him on is second, he had always told me he couldnt ,wouldnt get involved again and we could be friends so we became friends with benefits ,afterwa... (339 words)

I've gone from being really wet during sex to being dry-is it an STI?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

5 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I know this might sound a little weird but when I use to have sex I did use to get really wet and still do when I masturbate, but latley when having sex I don't seem to get that wet? Is this normal or is there somthing wrong with me or worse case have I got a sti ?? ... (60 words)

I'm insecure about being a guy with feminine features

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

5 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a bit insecure about being a guy with feminine features, and I'm hoping for some advice. I'm 23 years old and outside of one time in which a girl I'd consider really attractive initiated a make-out session with me in a club, I have pretty much no sexual experience. The... (351 words)