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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm losing my confidence as my bf keeps saying I dress like a slag!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

6 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years. I am 18 years old and he is more than 10 years older than me. A massive problem has arised which is my apparent "dress sense". I am constantly called a slag and a attention seeker for wearing what I see normal clothes. If he was like ... (200 words)

I'm having a difficult time with my husband's cross-dressing and she-male porn fascination

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

6 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone ive been having trouble accepting my boyfriends addiction to ahemale porn and crossdressing fetishes. Its caused him to lie to me hide things from me. I know ive not made it very easy to.express to me but all ive asked if him is to include me when he's having ... (183 words)

I wish my boyfriend wasn't so close with his parents, its getting on my nerves now!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

6 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I met at college and graduated together a year ago (we've been together 3 years). I had to move 4 hours away from my hometown when I went to college, whereas my boyfriend still lives at home with his parents (only child), and walks into college most day... (742 words)

I want him back but he has somebody new

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

6 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I really miss my ex we were together for almost a year and have been broken up for a little over a month he is seeing someone what do i do just wait for an opportunity he isn't speaking to me at all right now. The break up was his idea. And i want him back what should i do?... (60 words)

I slept with a married man thinking he was single and now he won't explain himself!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

6 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I slept with a married man he acted single but now I fell for him a he is ignoring me he doesn't email, text or anything not even to apologize to me. How do I get closure? I feel so low and guilty about this plus I like him all @ the same time. I sent him an email to see if he ... (79 words)

How to tell him it aint working?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

6 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone =) A friend of mine has a bit of a problem and I suggested to just ask here as I've been given great advice... So here we go: She's been in a relationship with a guy for a month now and before they didn't really know each other. She says she likes him bu... (227 words)

Why did I get butterflies from a random man's touch?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

6 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all. Okay this might be long but thanks ahead of time for reading it all. I have been with my fiance' for 3 years now. I have always thought he was the one and still do. About a year ago (almost) I had to go get fingerprinted for my job. There was this younger cop probably ... (283 words)

Was this a random act of kindness or does she like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

6 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I've known this girl for a while and she's never really been more than an acquenance to me and I suppose that hasn't really changed, but she asked me to join her and some mates of hers who I also know and get on well with last week. She didn't ask any of y other mates and she ... (144 words)

Found husband on facebook asking to have sex with a girl and now when we have sex he goes limp

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

6 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - i dont knw what to think please help.... one nite when my husband was sleeping i checked his facebook and he was telling all these girls they were beautiful whick botherd me but not as much as this other girl. he had been having alot of messages with here and asking her to come ... (105 words)

I graduated with a degree for a career I don't really want and my boyfriend is mad at me for it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4642 days ago

6 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I graduated six months ago with a BS in Human Service and MS in Nonprofit Management. I regret every single bit of it because it put me in some debt and its not really what I want to do anymore I don't feel there is any money in the field and or practical career to make for my ... (115 words)

Was it too early to tell her she had the most beautiful eyes ever seen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

6 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I met my friends, girlfriends, twin sister a couple months back. last friday we hung out and we really seemed to like each other. We went to a party and she told her sister I was cute, and handsome. She told her sister I was really sweet and that she liked me. and her sister ... (566 words)

I want to tell this man that I love him but I'm afraid its too soon

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

6 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with my babys dad from 2008 to 2011. In 2010 I met this guy that i had interest in and my current relationship was on and off. When my babys dad and I broke up for awhile I started seeing this guy. we had a thing for about 6 months but i wouldnt stop talking to my ba... (311 words)

Am I never going to be good enough for this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

6 March 2012 (F) age 41-50 - I need help - especially from guys! My boyfriend is 40, and I am in my early 30s. He also suffers a lot with anxiety (both social and sexual). We have been living together for 3 years. We get along great, and we rarely argue. We have a lot of fun together, we enjoy th... (705 words)

I get made fun of because I'm 21 and a virgin

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

6 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm a 21 year old male, who's still a virgin, and don't know what to do, i'm in this relationship and my girl makes fun of me that am a virgin, all my friends make fun of me that am a virgin and because of that i get lonely and depress and i just don't know what to do. ... (59 words)

I don't want to think of divorce but wife has secretly been meeting other men

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

6 March 2012 (M)

age - i have been married for 6 years and have two daughters under 5,unfortunately i have had a series of strokes and had to give up work,i have now discovered my wife has joined an online dating site and set a a secret email,i have managed to gain access to the email because she ... (112 words)

I've been married for 20 years and my in laws never include me in anything

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

6 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My mother-in-law or sister-in-laws have never included me for the past 20 years of my marriage. Im just left on the outside. Yesterday my Father-in-law was taken to hospital at 4am and she only rang my husband on his mobile at 8.20 on his way driving to work. She could have ... (332 words)

I'm embarrassed to have sex because of my size

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

6 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my partner have been together for nearly 10 yrs things were great before now we have two children together i have put on a litl weight imsize 18 hate my body , we do have sex still mainly just basic stuff and never naked!he always wants to give me oral and i wont let him ... (123 words)

Was I too harsh to completely ignore her without even telling her why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

6 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - A girl I was once sort of seeing , upset me , maybe without realizing how much I like her... From then on I completely ignored her... She seemed sad at first... now on the rare occasions we cross paths, she just ignores me too... A friend told me she saw her at a disco drunk ... (99 words)

How do I get this guy to leave me alone without involving the police

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

6 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - He is starting to annoy me......... there is this guy i went out with for 3 months and now he fancys me big time:O i do not like him in that way only as a friend iv tried talking toh ima dna ll but it hasnt worked. What he dose to me is he always asks for hugs and then pnches ... (119 words)

My friends girlfriend wants to end their relationship because he used to watch porn

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

6 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - So I have this friend (yes folks, it actually is a friend) who's going through something that neither of us can seem to really get our heads around. His girlfriend of over a year sent him a random text yesterday, immediately stating that she "doesn't think they're compatible ... (390 words)

does deleting his texts and not telling me anything make my husband guilty off something

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

6 March 2012 (F)

age - Hi i have been married for 21 years my husband is a lorry driver,he started going into a cafe about three years ago for his breakfast and became friendly with the owners her husband knows mine through the lorrys as hes also a lorry driver,but his wife works there cafe i have ... (267 words)

I can't stop looking at porn and engaging in conversation online with women on sex sites daily.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

6 March 2012 (M)

age - Even when I am in a loving relationship, I can't stop looking at porn and engaging in conversation online with women on sex sites daily. I also masturbate daily. My first wife left me (18 years ago) for this reason, and my second wife is divorcing me after 9 years together. I ... (89 words)

My boyfriend helps himself to the food in my home and I don't like it!

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

6 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my boyfriend for six months. I see him at weekends and he stays at my house. When we go out he pays for meals. I am also generous. However, he gets up in the night or early morning and helps himself to food in my house. This really irritates me. Occasionally ... (132 words)

B/f was too shy and I'm too shy to tell him that I miss him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4642 days ago

6 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - i really need help .. i was in a relationship about 2 months ago with a really cute guy :).. But he has a problem.. that he is too shy :/ .. as i'm shy with guys we were very awkward couples so i left him .. now i'm regretting because i think I've made a mistake and i'm shy ... (82 words)

Is it ever OK to cheat on your spouse?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

6 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife has basically lost interest in sex. We've talked about it a lot, and says she just doesn't think about it very much any more, and that she's at a stage in her life where she's just not interested. She still gets in the mood, but it's very infrequently (once a month or ... (624 words)

Does anyone have experience with moving away for work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

6 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'd love to work away somewhere, either in another part of the UK, or abroad, but i feel scared about doing it, as i have never lived away from home before. Should i go for it, or should i just try to find a job close to home since i am nervous about working away?. I have been ... (110 words)

Do I pick the one my parents want and live an okay life or pick who will make me happiest but know I will have to start all over?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

6 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in some real shitty relationships since I was about 17. I was always the 'untouchable' hottie who everyone thought was gorgeous but never got a chance with. I got real sick and started to finally date this older guy who at the time was my prince charming. We moved ... (455 words)

Am I allowed to buy myself a sex toy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

6 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Am I allowed to buy a sex toy? I'm in a relationship with a man who has suffered with extreme premature ejaculation for the past two years. He has given up trying to do anything about it even though when he was on medication it was starting to work - he now refuses to take ... (336 words)

It would be a shame if something this good fell apart over drugs!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

6 March 2012 (M) age 41-50 - I've been seeing this girl for 4 months now, I'm 33 and she's 27. We've gotten quite serious, we're madly in love and she has more or less moved in with me. One of the strengths of this relationship over past relationships of mine is that we can talk pretty much anything ov... (1185 words)

Overdosing on contact!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

6 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I know this is a somewhat odd question, but here goes: I'm in a long distance relationship and it's all going great. We send emails to one another every day, we send text messages by the dozen and we talk on the phone every single day. Now that last thing is a bit of a problem. ... (131 words)

Can anybody read this man's mind?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

6 March 2012 (F)

- I was going out with my partner for a year and a half. He always travelled with work and we always managed to make things work. But after xmas he said he wasn't sure if he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me. When I challeneged him and said ok we will finish he back ... (269 words)

Scared of having sex, any advice for my first time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

6 March 2012 (?) age 30-35 - my husband and i have been married for 8 months and he wants 2 have sex, he tells me hes not forcing me, but i feel like it,i really want to. im a virgin and i wanna have sex so bad,im scared, i've told him this, he asks me why. i tell him we're both virgins and we dont know ... (91 words)

How do I deal with my partner's attitude problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4642 days ago

6 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm currently in a relationship but my partner seriously have an attitude problem.Firstly she's tend to become very rude when I come up with suggestions or ask questions regarding her whereabouts. When I bring up something dat she does wrong she will compare situations on my ... (89 words)

What am I missing here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

6 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a family picnic outing with my girlfriend and her family and also a child (11 yo) from a family friend. I was playing catch me with the same child, and while we were playing she said you are slow and fat and you can't catch me. I didn't make a note of it or upset over... (420 words)

Should I tell my friend I like him? I don't want to ruin our friendship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4642 days ago

6 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i an in love with my best friend and he does not know about it. all my friends think that he likes me too but i think he's just being himself. he's caring for me and understands me. i have even told him about my crushes in the past. i hate to see him with any other girl and i ... (111 words)

Dont want another LDR but full of doubts in case our situation changes....should I leave or stick with it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

6 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I got out of a 6 year long distance relationship because it went absolutely nowhere a few years ago and then met my current partner. We moved in together, lived together 2 years and it was great. I had no doubts, we had a great time together. He then got sent to work abroad by ... (236 words)

Not been with her long but she broke up with me and I really want her back! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

6 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - hi im a gay woman been seeing someone for approx 5 weeks and shes just finished with me saying we are best off as friends. any tips on how to get her back. she does seem to care about me and been texting to see how i am and how my course went and said we will talk about it ... (241 words)

What does it mean when he says he wants to want me instead of having me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

6 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok...I have come out of a 6 year relationship about 5 months ago and have recently met an amazing guy, been seeing him for about 2 months now. I really think i am falling for him. But he said to me were take things slow? He said instead of rushing into a relationship he wants ... (143 words)

Why has he stopped talking to me since I got a boyfriend?

This question has 65 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

6 March 2012 (?) age 36-40 - A guy friend, at least i thought he was, has basically made an idiot out of me. I used to think he liked me and we fooled around for a while but then he got back with some ex girlfriend without telling me. He just stopped taking my calls and ignored me. Eventually he text me ... (377 words)

Crush on my teacher....can we still be friends in the future?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

6 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - If a male teacher has a family (a wife and a son of 3 years old) and had a crush on a quiet, hardworking student at school 2 years ago, 2 years later, on the day of her graduation, will he still remember and miss her? Do you think he has forgotten her as she is too shy and near... (233 words)

I ended our relationship because of his close female 'friend' but he wants to talk, should I listen to what he has to say? Or was I right to break up with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

6 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - ever since i started dating my man i have been seeing a ladys name on his text messages all the time its like they do chat a lot with her, one day i decided to sneak a peak and saw the lady had texted "am sorry i hope your not mad at me i love you alright". i was very shocked ... (221 words)

Is he interested in me? If he is, how do I make him mine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

6 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - There this guy i like, i think he likea me too. he tells me i can have who ever i want all i have to do is tell people what i want. he always rub my arm, do you think his intertered in me? and if he is how do i get him?... (53 words)

He's bipolar and has anger issues, should I stay or leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

6 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this is still a decision i need to make myself,but i really need help. This guy i have been dating for only 3 months is bipolar. When we started dating i let him know that i wasn't going to tolerate smoking and alcohol because i don't like it and really don't want to be ... (249 words)

I'm terrified of losing the confidence and support coming from male attention if I commit myself to just one guy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

6 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I really could use advice; from the guys and the ladies; it would be greatly appreciated! I'm a 19 year old female, currently in my frosh year of university. I was a fairly shy, homely looking child growing up, and didn't get much male attention until grade 8 wh... (368 words)

Recycled relationships

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

6 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in a "recycled" relationship Meaning, we went out years ago and got back in touch recently And thought to give it another go It's been about two weeks of talking and a couple dates. We even made out but nothing over a pg rating, But he's acting kinda wierd and if it ... (98 words)

Met a great guy on Saturday night.....this never happens to me, so how do I play this? What do I do next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

6 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy on Saturday night and we had a blast! I randomly met him because I randomly punched his butt as he walked by me. I didn't see his face or have any intention of meeting him, it was just something I did for fun =) Anyway, we ended up spending the remainder of the ... (285 words)

Should a person confess to cheating if it was a one time thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4345 days ago

6 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm just curious for your opinions. It certainly is the moral thing to do. But I recall reading once that if it was a one time thing that would never happen again, it's better not to admit to cheating. Seek to fix whatever it was that led you to cheat, but spare your partn... (71 words)

I get embarassed when I see a sex scene on TV whilst I'm with my partner! Does this happen to anyone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4642 days ago

6 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Just wondering if anyone else feels the same way as I do??... I feel so embarassed and insecure when my boyfriend and I watch tv. or a movie and there is a sex scene or even nudity! I literally break out in a sweat and can't wait for that part to be over. Is there something ... (113 words)

What are the causes of total lack of affection from my husband?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

6 March 2012 (F) age - End of the rope after 27 years. What are the causes, of total lack of affection from my husband? He stopped looking at me, touching me, having sex with me, and all physical contact whatsoever.I tried everything talking about it , looking good, hug him , even he does not.. But ... (164 words)

11 weeks pregnant and now my girlfriend wants an abortion because she's "unsure"!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

6 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my girlfriend have planned to have a baby, we both agreed this was something we both wanted, finally it happened 11 weeks done the line she told me she's un sure about it and has arranged a meeting with the doctor about abortions. what am i ment to do?... (51 words)

Am I the one who is being overly sensitive or is my boyfriend not being understanding with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

6 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am trying to understand if i am the one who is being overly sensitive or if my boyfriend is not being understanding with me. My boyfriend and I are doing long distance relationship, due to school,we get along very well,and we love each other. But we have come to an... (260 words)

Why does it seem that less and less people use personal restraint in relationships today?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

6 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - How come less and less people have self restraint these days? There are so many instances about people cheating on their bf/gf, students sleeping with teachers and most recently an acquaintance of mine who slept with her sister's husband. Why does this happen? I have fallen ... (148 words)