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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I need to get past this shock!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in a serious relationship for 16 months now and everything has been perfect. We never argue, enjoy each others company. Have lived together since August and continually talk about our future together. This morning however, he popped out to work on his bike. Hes just ... (242 words)

Although he's fun the heart says "no"!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Today I went for my first date in a long time, the guy was great- good looking, funny, kind but acted like a big kid. As much I enjoy a laugh and a good time he seemed a little too childish for me. However when he asked if we could meet up again I didn't have the heart to say ... (124 words)

Is he in love with me? or was I just a cheap feel?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've liked this guy for a while, and sometimes I feel like he's making moves on me. Yet, I'm not sure whether those moves are fueled by his possible actual attraction to me or whether he just wanted a cheap feel. As bad as it sounds, I don't mind him touching me because I do ... (595 words)

Boyfriend gaining weight, how can I help him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend is gainign weight. I'm not saying it to be harsh, I'm saying it because I'm worried about his health. Everytime I mention it he gets all defensive and goes 'you should be the one telling me I look great.' I don't know what to do, please help :/... (50 words)

I cant move on, and she's gone back to her ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

31 March 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - why do i still feel bad ? my ex dumped me for the second time about 8 months ago to go back to her ex. in a way i blame myself . i fell for her again very qiuckley, she never really let go of me , texting me , stringing me along , i was in love with her and she was play... (585 words)

What should I do? He said he did not want to be with me and now he rings me all the time!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, this is my 1st time posting.... Was "strictly" friends with my ex for 8 yrs. We dated off and on from fall 2010 until this Jan. He told me he didn't wanna be in a relationship with me. How it was "easier to be with other women and they have no standards". We t... (267 words)

Does he like me? I have not seen him for three years!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4614 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - There's a guy I know that I've know since I was 11 years old and at 11 I liked him (a lot) and I heard rumours that he liked me, but being young and stupid we were too scared to do anything about it. When he was 12/13 he moved to Spain and I thought I would never see again,... (232 words)

I have fallen for my mentor, but know nothing can come of it..he's married

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4617 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all, I will try to be straight to it. So this is my story. I met my mentor about 4 yrs ago and we are still working together. From the onset, I felt, there was something special between us and because he is my typically my boss, I just enjoy the attention, the p... (304 words)

Broke up a year ago but I'm missing her and want her back

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

31 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend of about 1 year broke up a year ago. We both moved on and started seeing other people but I'm finding myself missing her again, I'm thinking about her all the time and I'm starting to want her back... I've no idea how she feels but I can't just talk to ... (106 words)

When I say no, girlfriend ends up taking what she wants anyways

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So I recently went to sex store this week to buy toys for me and my girlfriend, we're lesbians. So I bought the vibrators, bullets, eggs, and dildos for us along with anal beads and lube. I told my girlfriend I'd like to use it on her during our lovemaking session. Well I ... (328 words)

Should I feel guilty about taking a way out from working with this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4617 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so I got roped into a group project with this girl, lets call her Sarah. It was originally a single person project. You see, Sarah and I were talking and she convinced me that we should ask if we can work together on it. I honestly didn't think that our teacher would say ... (170 words)

Between porn and his fantasies it seems clear I don't do it for him

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I have a problem that is eating me up. I have been with my partner for over 7 years. He has used porn since the start whcih is something I had never even seen. Anyway I went along with it to please him!!!! pretended I liked it whcih I know was wrong. The trouble is is became ... (293 words)

He thinks its okay to toy with my emotions!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Why the need to hurt me? My ex and i broke up a few months back, it wasnt a good relationship, he had been hurtful and abusive to me, we also had kids which is why i choose to end it. He has continued to try and get back with me even though he still does not accept blame for ... (170 words)

I now regret taking him back after his fourth cheating episode!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my partner of two years has technically cheated on me and i have taken him back for the fourth time and now i am regretting it what should i do?... (30 words)

For gay men -- is a relationship with a closeted gay man worth pursuing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

31 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello agony aunts and uncles! I am experiencing a bit of a dilemma. To cut to the chase, I met this guy who is confusing. By now, I can usually tell when another man is gay. With him, the signs are there. However, he doesn't tell me he is. He went out of his way to talk to me, ... (245 words)

We've been together four years and I've always hoped he would change!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I've been with my bf for about 4 yrs. We've had our share of issues. I always hoped somehow he would change, but I don't believe he will. Sometimes its incredible he's sooo complimentive, charming, he will cook for me treat me great and other times its horrible. He... (243 words)

I just don't want to hurt anymore!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok well I was.with my boyfriend for two years the first year was wonderful. Then he cheated on me hurt me bad but I loved him so much that I gave him anither chance then he started accusing me of cheating the whole time ive been fathful.he dosent belive anything I say then he ... (111 words)

I want to break up and not go back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I asked this question and I tried to do it but I didn't succeed. I feel like breaking up with y boyfriend because I had gone into this relationship very very soon after my 2 yer relationship with my ex. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 months now but have been ta... (275 words)

How can I become more confident, especially in my relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4617 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I really need some advice on ways to boost my self-confidence. I'm approaching 30, so I think I should be able to function in an adult relationship, but my lack of confidence is threatening to hinder or even ruin things with my current boyfriend. Lately, I've been very anxious ... (88 words)

Girlfriend got asked out by a guy on facebook?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

31 March 2012 (M) age 51-59 - My girlfriend was recently asked out on Facebook by another guy. We have been dating for over a year. Her response was that she could not do "any one on one time with another guy because she would not approve of me doing that with another girl." Is it appropriate for my girlf... (62 words)

How men like making wives jealous

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - This is trick of the mind.My male cousin has been cheating on his wife since time they've been married.We don't know what it is that he's telling her but shes posting things on fb to prove that their marriage is great.He don't tell us much but the female he's sleeping with shes ... (142 words)

How long does it take to concieve after being on the depo shot

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wondering if anyone could share their experience after recieving the depo shot staying on it a few years and their ability to concieve afterwards. How long it took that kind of thing. My fiancee and i already have two young children and decided we wanted to wait awhile ... (88 words)

I really like him and I want him to like me too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - This guy i like and I are both fourteen my mom doesn't want me to date him and doesn't like him. She doesn't know him as well as I do. He sits at my table at lunch and his name is Kai. He is super nice, and mentions some other girls a lot. We don't talk as mug as we used to, ... (132 words)

Was I wrong to discredit all the good we had in our relationship? Did I take it all for granted and basically throw a good thing away?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4614 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Just wanting to know people's opinions.... I asked a question about this before, but there is new information now... My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year. From the beginning, he has been very loving towards me, telling me that he loves me, tha... (1031 words)

My boyfriend's dad is creating problems in our relationship and shows no signs of moving out

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriends and I have been together 3 years in July. We got a house together almost 2 years ago and I love him very much BUT his dad moved in with us when he started going through a divorce almost a year ago. At first he refused- said he didn't want to move in because we ... (375 words)

I have no idea what's going on, she's done a complete 180 from being over the top, to completely ignoring me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

31 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Well where to begin. Basically, I met a girl who at first appeared very forward shall we say, in her feelings for me. I received many flattering (although false) compliments from her, and she was quite touchy feely, a little possesive, always holding my hand etc, even gettin... (351 words)

Is this girl pregnant with my boyfriend's baby? I cant even ask him because he's locked up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a long time he's bad but I really love him and he loves me very much,I'm only16 and I need help?...I found out that he was texting other girls...one of their names was Gina,now this was about five months ago..I saw her at school today ... (90 words)

Am I just wanting something I can't have or am I in the wrong relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Im a 24 year old with a little girl. I'm feeling extremely mixed up at the moment. I recently got back together with my little girls daddy (he is 42) who I've known for the last 8 years. In that time we've had an awful lot of problems, break up, custody fights and he married ... (226 words)

I'm not happy when I'm single

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4617 days ago

30 March 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I've been in a few relationships now and I enjoyed them, however I have found that whenever I am not in a relationship I feel very alone and sad. Ive been single for about 4 months now and I still can't be happy with my life, any help??... (48 words)

I don't want my dad to die, he's all I have!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

30 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - hey everyone, i just want to tell you all my life story cuz my friends don't get me. they're not mature enough to understand what i'm going through. ok im from africa, i came to america 2 and a half years ago, i live with my dad, i thought i was the happiest girl in... (592 words)

My ex is pregnant. How do I find out if its mine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

30 March 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - What should I do? Went out with girl 4.5 years, she cheated, we got back together, she dumped me we got back together. End of last year was dumped again, I'm thinking cheating again .. Swears not no one else.. She wants no contact, I'm still being friendly (this has happened ... (141 words)

GIrlfriend gets annoyed when I try to spice up our sex life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

30 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - ok so i have tried to spice up my sex life with my gf however when i have asked her about certain things she gets annoyed with me. we have always had a lot of sex almost every day for over 3 years now. in the last year however she seems to be bored during sex and i feel like ... (289 words)

I'm addicted to paying for pornography

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

30 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - First a little about me. I'm a male, 23 years old, about three friends, never had a girlfriend or sex, not even kissing. I am addicted to pornography. However, what's even more self-destructive is that I am addicted to PAYING for pornography. Watching average fr... (553 words)

How do I control my sexual urges? I've gone from a highly sexual relationship to one where there's no sex yet

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

30 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I was in a long term relationship where I was having sex about 5 times a week, now I'm no longer in that relationship I'm finding that I'm having problems adjusting to having no sex life, I'm with another guy now but he's a virgin and we haven't been together that long so I ... (117 words)

My Friend will not associate with unattractive People, is this common?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

30 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm 40, he's 22 and we've only been friends a short while. He's very intelligent - and I thought deep, until he told me that he doesn't associate with unattractive people because it badly reflects on him. He's heterosexual and his male friends have to be attractive also. I ... (182 words)

What does it mean when a guy wants YOU to tie HIM up?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4614 days ago

30 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is into restraints, or whatever it's called, where your hands are tied to the bedpost, and sometimes feet are tied to the.... bottom of the bed? wtf is it called? But anyways, he said once that he wants me to tie him up... What does that mean? I thought i... (71 words)

I don't feel he wants to be with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4618 days ago

30 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm a bit confused about whats going on in my "relationship cycle" and also whats going on in my boyfriend's head! the background: we've been together for two years now, this is a long distance relationship right now.we had a great relationship with loads of attraction until th... (973 words)

I need to get over him pretty soon!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4617 days ago

30 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys well my question is how to get over someone........a bit of background info I ve recently got closer to this lad at college, we talk daily. I really really like him, When I am with him its amazing, i feel so happy but sometimes if we don't talk or we ve had a little ... (152 words)

Boyfriend thinks of me as a breeding factory, if I can't have kids, he'd leave me!

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

30 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in a relationship for about 2.5 years with someone who is wonderful, caring, supportive, etc. We have been through a lot, and I sincerely saw him as the one. He already considered us married but it doesn't work that way for me. Nonetheless, we had a good ... (799 words)

Is opening up realistically a bad move to do in a troubled relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4614 days ago

30 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright, so i am gay but i doubt this matters since my question should apply for any relationship. I've had a lot of experiences of breaking up and i've found that it almost always start from when i'm opening up to the one i love. Either because he has become distant, cold or... (189 words)

How would you describe this text?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - How would you describe this text message sent by a male friend to me after I had asked about a drink and he said to me you will have to be quick. 'You know i love nothing better than a woman who comes quickly'. Is this classed as a jokey, innuendo or double entendre text... (68 words)

I want a romantic boyfriend who plans surprises!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

30 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Last Night I saw my boyfriends roommate leave with his girlfriend and I could not figure out where they went it's none of my business of course, but they just vanished and when I woke up this morning I saw a bag and a few blankets and a bottle of wine and figured it out; he ... (238 words)

Have any guys on here gone to a bar alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

30 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been on my own for a long time now. It has been bothering me for a while but it has only become a problem recently. I don't have particularly great coping skills and feelings of loneliness have become overwhelming. I really need to make some changes/progress. I am a ... (169 words)

We admitted how we felt about each other but he has totally backed off!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

30 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I'd really like a second person's opinion of this "situation" as i have a tendency to overreact. I have this friend who, while i've known for a while, has only just become my really close friend within about the last 3 years. And yes, we mainly speak through ... (822 words)

Why are men so reluctant to get rid of their porn collection when they have a girlfriend?

This question has 36 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

30 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Can somebody help me? Why are men so reluctant to get rid of their porn collection even when they say their girlfriend is enough and is beautiful? Everybody says something like everyone has fantasies what does that mean? They are looking at the same thing we've been doing. How ... (54 words)

What are the chances of my ex falling in love with me again and us getting back together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

30 March 2012 (F)

age - I'm still in love with my exboyfriend. He sayes he loves me and cares for me, but not in love with me any more. We still talk from time to time and have an occasional drink every now and then. What are the chances of him falling in love with me again or getting back together? I ... (76 words)

Could circumcision be to blame for me not being able to get an erection?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

30 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - i have undergone circumcision last year. But now i feel that my sensation in the operated region is reduced and also the sexual drive. i am not able to erect properly during intercourse. Is the surgery being done wrong or something else? ... (43 words)

Over the past few months our sex life has declined, and he is spending more time taking care of himself.....what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4618 days ago

30 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly two years. I realize that over time, sex can dwindle a bit as relationships progresses, but I'm trying to keep the flame alive. He seems, overall, less enthusiastic. I find myself initiating sex most of the time. I've tried ... (277 words)

Why doesn't he love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

30 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - i have known this guy for like 2yrs, he is married but not really very happy into this relation of his. i "really" love him and even broke up with a boyfriend of 4years for him,because i dint want to cheat on him. he used to like my best friend in the same workplace and i was ... (307 words)

I feel trapped in a faux relationship! She broke up with me but still expects me to fund her!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

30 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello people I wonder if you can help me I am in a big big dilemna in my life at the moment, 8 months ago while I was travelling around in north america, I hooked up with my 'girlfriend' who i stayed with for 3 1/2 months to cut a long story short I had to leave Canad... (536 words)