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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Three guys what do I do?

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3 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so let me explain my Dilemma; I never used to feel particularly pretty actually I think I'm quite terrible looking, but somehow I managed to get a boyfriend; He's everything I've ever wanted in a guy and more he has some flaws but they just make him more attractive to me. ... (456 words)

Should I change my gender for the sake of love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

3 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - The girl I love is bisexual and prefers girls. I am considering getting a sex change for her if it is what she would like. Should I do this? There's truly no one else in the world for me.... (39 words)

In love with my friend and I know she doesn't feel the same! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

3 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok I am in serious trouble here. I am totally head over heels in love with my best friend, I can't stop thinking about her...she consumes my thoughts to the point where I can't think about anything else, she has said she isn't interested which I respect but I am finding being ... (358 words)

How can I get through to my son so he'll come back home?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4673 days ago

3 March 2012 (F)

age - What is wrong with some of the girls of today? where are their family morals, values,careing and LOVE gone?And where is all this selfishness, no regard for othere /mothers feelings and being on their own etc coming from? I was shocked and could not believe what i was rea... (498 words)

Ever since we had sex he's no longer interested in me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4675 days ago

3 March 2012 (?) age 36-40 - I've recently started university, and everything is great-I love my course, I have some fantastic friends..apart from one thing which has recently got me down no end and I just don't know what to do. I met a man, and I thought he was different to all the other men i've met befo... (393 words)

What do I say to my crush?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

3 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - This sounds pretty pathetic, i mean i'm 27 for goodness sake and can easily talk to others, but i'm genuinely stumped on how to go about this!!! I work for a bookies and recently transferred to a different shop closer to home. Whilst in my old shop, i developed a majo... (195 words)

How long into a relationship before "I love you" is said?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

3 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I was wondering when most people uttered those three little words? My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months (have been exclusive/in a committed relationship for almost 3), but we have not said "I love you" yet. In your opinion, how soon is too soon, and how late is ... (112 words)

I flirt, she flirts back...what's my next move? I can't fall into the friend zone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4675 days ago

3 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have recently started light flirting with a girl in my class. she laughs and does a lil back.what's my next move before I fall into the friend zone? Thanks everyone.... (31 words)

I feel trapped! I married the wrong guy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

3 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I married my now husband after 8 years of dating. We didnt live together first. So its been a year now and I feel trapped that i've married the wrong guy. I knew all about him before we married but only since we started living together did i realise how much different things... (290 words)

Sixteen and the father of my twins is rejecting them because of a lying cousin

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

3 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, im sixteen years old and my bf is seventeen years old and we have 2 week olds twins and my bf and i lost our mothers when we was 2 years old (my bf) and 13 years old (me) but our family is happy except my bf cousin. She telling everybody im a whore and my twins not his kids ... (176 words)

Delicate subjects in serious relationships. What do you think?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4675 days ago

3 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I had a 4-year "friends with benefits" relationship with a man. We were supposed to be looking for someone else at the same time we were being friends and having sex. It came as a shock when he announced the break up as we were doing so well, and feeling pretty good in e... (928 words)

I think my husband's cheating-I need advice on hiring a private detectives!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

3 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I find a reliable pvt detective in LA area..I suspect my husband is cheating on me.I'm a SAHM and my husband is always denying...we are in a sexless marriage since 5 months.Can cops help me find stuff like this.i really don't want to talk to a stranger because what if ... (87 words)

Is there anything else we can do so that his ex doesn't use their kids as tools?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

3 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hiya So here is my question..I have been with my fella for 8 months and we are very happy together. He is my world. He has 2 gorgeous kids which I get on very well with - his son got upset when I had to go home!! I don't see them all the time, as I do think daddy/children t... (299 words)

Fiance and I had fight, she got nosebleed people thought I beat her and I wound up in jail!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

3 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello Well how do I start this Basically long story short me and my fiancé got into a fight for the first time a big fight. Before we would just yell or cry it out and make up but it came so bad that bystanders thought it was me beating her but it was her and some how she got... (342 words)

Dry humping but not yet kissed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

3 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - There's a guy who I fancy like hell, he's very sweet and kind, but we've only known each other for about 2 weeks. I've slept over at his house 3 times now, the first night we had company but he showed the first indications of being interested in me with the cinema arm trick as ... (170 words)

How can you tell if a guy's gay without asking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

3 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok this is a really stupid story and a really stupid question but I need to know. How can you tell if a guys gay without asking??? Normally I already know since 90% of the fellas I fancy are Gay or turn out to be gay. But One of my friends friends is a really nice guy and my ... (139 words)

She's completely in to me, I'm not in to her -- how to break up gently?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4675 days ago

3 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - A girl proposed me 7 months ago and told me that she has a crush on me since 2 years. As i dont want to break her heart so i replied YES as my answer to her. So then we started texting each other till late nights. I only have a physical attraction on her and nothing else. So ... (244 words)

Not sure if I'm reading the signs correctly -- gay or just a grabby drunk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4675 days ago

3 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a guy mate at uni who I met at the beginning of september. I'm quite good friends with him but when his drunk he can be a little bit gay with me lol, but I dunno if that has something to do with it. If were out his constantly doing stuff like slapping my backside, put... (145 words)

His friends think I'm unfriendly

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

3 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all. I have been in a relationship with a guy, things are going well between us but the problem is, some of his frnds think im unfriendly. What can i do to prove them wrong and make them like me? What can i also do to improve my relationship with the guy?... (53 words)

I was wondering if you guys/girls think I could become pregnant.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

3 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend are in a pickle. We had sex and he finished inside of me. BUT some factors will affect this. This was on 3/1/12. Today is 3/3/12. 1. I am on birth control, the pill Ortho-Tricyclen. But on 2/29/12 I couldnt take my pill. I usually take it at 10:30 at ni... (152 words)

Still have feelings for the guy I cheated with

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

3 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, I've been in a relationship for seven years within that period of time me and my partner have confessed of doing somethin wrong he's paid for escorts and I got to get to know someone and started a new relationship with them. I ended being pregnant with the new ... (96 words)

How can I tell if my friend likes me as more than just friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

3 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - We've known each other for nearly two years, I've always liked him from day one but he had a long term gf so obviously done nothing about it but they broke up 6months ago. Now we are both single we spend a lot of time together hanging out and we text none stop, he doesn't know ... (214 words)

I'm an introvert who needs friends and socializing. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

3 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel that I'm an close minded and introvert person. I keep failing to be friend with people for a long period of time. I'm just feeling hard to agree or accept if there's differences between. Sometimes I'm just feeling so lonely and isolated because of this. I think I have ... (159 words)

Should I propose or is it too soon, is she too young?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

3 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm French and I am in a relationship with an Irish girl . I am 37 and she is 21 . She was 17 when i met her first , yes i know she was young and i did try to not let my feelings get me but they did :-( I am with her 2 and a half years and i really love her. We did not meet ... (531 words)

He uses the same pet names for me as he did with them

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

3 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Need some help to see sense about finding lots of old messages from my bf to ex-gfs/hook ups of his. Basically, he gave me his old mobile phone to use. I was loading up all my info, and loads of his old messages (from a few months before we met) appeared on my computer in the ... (178 words)

Why can't he move on? I am not prepared to be his 'comfort' if he intends to marry another girl.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

3 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I was with my boyfriend for 2 years. About 8 months ago, he said we should get married. I met his family and his parents came to meet my parents. This is the way things are done in our culture. At this meeting, I realised that his father didn't like me (this was our first ... (398 words)

I'm married. She's engaged. The sexual tension is obvious. How do we deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4616 days ago

3 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. I am married and know an engaged co worker. We are both extremely attracted to each other. We even started texting when we first met and the texts eventually became sexual. However, we stopped before doing anything and we don't even text anymore. We made a concious... (95 words)

He took offence. He said that he wont be disturbing anymore. Can I regain his interest? how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

3 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy who I have been in the same class with during high school but we have never spoken. He used to see me as a rival back then and disliked me. Last year, he added me on Facebook and would occasionally comment on my status and posts. For the past couple of days ... (245 words)

Just being a perv or does he like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

3 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - What does this mean? he like me or just being a perv?? there's a cleaner at work he's only covering the full time cleaner who off sick.. every time i walk past he will suck his teeth and go " hmmm... oh yh" or mainly stop, stand still, stare at me..with me mainly r... (95 words)

This kind sweet man is a cheater!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

3 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi All! I am in a relationship with my colleague since a year. I'm 23 years old while he is 41 years old. He is separated (they used to have a lot of arguments) and has two kids who he meets regularly. He is a really nice guy. Friendly, helpful. We work in the same com... (769 words)

Why do pimples with pus form when I shave private areas?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

3 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi guys, I am in need of your help and advice. Heres the problem - Whenever I shave private areas (everytime I shave), I get little pimples around the shaven areas. They're very sore and often itchy, with a pus lump and there are quite a lot of these pus lumps. But it only hap... (89 words)

Just started getting close to my best friend but I think I just stuck my foot in it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4676 days ago

3 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I've just started getting close to my best friend again but already I feel like I've stuck my foot in it. We were hanging out and he was telling me about this girl that he'd fooled around with while he was drunk and that he felt really guilty about it and really regretted doing ... (194 words)

Why would my Bf react in this very strong way when I touched his anal area?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

3 March 2012 (?) age - Most men like some anal activity; yes or no?? Is it wrong to insert a finger in your bf anus if you blow him? My bf almost went beserk and told me to NOT do that!!Is he scared that i might find out he had sex with another man....or is he just scared and it really hurts?? I d... (110 words)

Am I jealous? Or do I have something to actually be woried about regarding my Gf's actions????

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

3 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my girl for a year and a half and love her so much we are planning to get married net year. But one thing i need to know is if she is cheating on me , she has a male friend which she goes out to dinner with once a fortnight and is starting to make plans to g... (205 words)

Is it too much to hope? Could he like me all over again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

3 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my ex and i broke up about 8 months ago. it was fairly mutual, but my heart was definitely broken. we started out as good friends, and then he asked me out (i was shocked), and i grew to love him dearly. after our break up, we did want to stay friends, so after about 2 mo... (395 words)

I'm starting to become a negative person, and I don't like it!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4675 days ago

3 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I realized I'm kinda a downer sometimes, like I was talking to my boyfriend, and I was talking about how my club was losing all its members, and all I could think about was how much that sucks, and how I wish I had more people coming to club. Even though he was being posi... (379 words)

How would you act to not lose your cool?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

3 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - What would you do if you really like a guy and are so attracted to him. You have been on a few dates. He doesn't call you or text you often..just once in a while and you see him once a week or once every 2 weeks. How would you act towards him to still feel like you have the ... (89 words)

My flatemate is very biased towards a certain religion. I don't know how to feel about him now

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

3 March 2012 (M) age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, My friend (also my flatmate) was recently talking about how much he hates a certain religion and everything they stand for. I turned round and told him that one of my friends is of the same religion and he was quite shocked. I told him that he was planning to visi... (314 words)

What do I get my boyfriend for our 3 year anniversary?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

3 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not sure what to get my boyfriend for our upcoming three year anniversary. Please help! I am so clueless as to what to get my boyfriend and I would appreciate any suggestions. Here's some background... He is 20 years old (will be 21 a month after our anniversary) He pla... (109 words)

How do I find the courage to break it off with my partner who has a bad criminal history?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

3 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - please help me to break off my relationship with this man? he is a criminal. He does have bad criminal history. please help me out.... (28 words)

Do people stop texting each other so much after they are dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

3 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - should i be worried about this? :( basically I am in my first (potential) proper, long-term relationship. we have been official for just over a month now. I have had a string of bad experiences in the past, one after another therefore have quite a few insecurities. th... (296 words)

She has a girlfriend but I think she likes me. I don't know what to do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

3 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello agony aunts I asked this question a week or so ago http://www.dearcupid.org/question/ive-found-out-that-im-bi-from-talking.html and now I'm so confused about her. She has a girlfriend, but I get the feeling she likes me. We flirt a lot and she always says 'But yeah I've ... (102 words)

Should I try asking this girl out or is it a lost cause?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

3 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, Basically, I got very bored so I joined a dating site and subsequently messaged someone who I quite liked for about a week. Things seemed pretty decent so I sent a message asking if she would want to meet up at some point. Then she kinda went dead for a few days. Sh... (272 words)

My friend has been acting weirdly since I told him that I care alot about him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

3 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My mate was getting into some personal trouble, so I recently told him that I care about him a hell of a lot because he's the closest thing I have to a best mate. He doesn't show his emotions except on rare occasions to me when he says he “can't help it; it just happens”. He ... (205 words)