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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Feelings of insecurity that b/f will leave me is causing trouble in our relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

1 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been in a happy stable relationship for over half a year now and things are still okay despite the odd hiccup however im starting to become very insecure about losing him.. i constantly have thoughts that he will get bored of me and just leave me, and that he is flirting... (149 words)

Sexless marriage and no reason for husband's ED. I'm too young to go without sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

1 March 2012 (F)

age - So, my husband has erectile dysfunction the last cople years. It developed very suddenly, but it never improved from any action. Like vacations, romantic nights etc. He had a very extensive medical investigation , and they found nothing wrong with his health. I mean, there ... (231 words)

He doesn't want to date but wants to "hang out" should I?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

1 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I was seeing this guy for almost two months. Everything was going great but he told me he wasnt ready for a relationship at the moment and wants to see other people but he still wants us to hang out. Should i continue to be friends with him or just stop talking to him all ... (56 words)

My depression is eroding my confidence and self esteem and I feel that no one will ever love me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

1 March 2012 (?) age 26-29 - DearCupid I have depression and i have been to the doctor and becuse am under 18 (am 17) they wont prescibe antidepressants to me. I feel awful i am constaly told at home how useless i am and made to feel i worthless i am. I desperatly want to find love i know this sounds s... (219 words)

Are all men rubbish at keeping in touch with their girlfriends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

1 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This is one for the guys. I'm just wondering if generally men aren't interested in keeping in touch with their girlfriends via calls and texts. Not that you don't care about your gfs - but you don't feel the need to keep in touch with them when they are not around? Do girls ... (165 words)

Its been so long since I've been involved I'm afraid I'll screw up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

1 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - its been so long since i last actually had sex i worry i might mess it up some how and i`ve never had the confidence to talk to girls when i go out and most of the websites where you can meet people are scams what should i do?... (50 words)

Blow up over a birthday gift, and cold turkey on sex??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

1 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - About 3 months ago I reconnected with an old flame from about 9 years ago! He seemed really excited to run into me, stated that he's now a business owner, a promoter, a father of 2 and is currently going through a separation. I, on the other hand, is still working two jobs, I ... (559 words)

Job interview coming up and I've torn the clothes I needed to wear

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

1 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Heads up, this is not a relationship question but it is Urgent! I have a induction afternnon for a job at a local garden center (Homebase for those of us in the UK)and I just ripped my black trousers. I have no idea what to wear now, no time to replace them and no money to ... (96 words)

I met a girl I really like. But by the time I was able to accept being bi, we had both gotten in relationships with guys! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4647 days ago

1 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a weird situation. I was in a good relationship with a guy before I did a play this summer. While in the play, my boyfriend and I stopped going out and I met this girl that I flirted with nonstop. (I didn't know/accept I was bi until months later... then I was too ... (343 words)

Am I unreasonable in finding my in-laws overbearing and nasty?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

1 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am seriously in need of some advice. DH and I have been married for about 4 years. We live in the US, his parents live in India (thankfully!). We are all Indians. My in-laws have serious ego issues. From what I hear, FIL has always been a man with a BIG, FAT ego and ever... (949 words)

I'm in love with my FWB guy and I think he's in love with me too. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

1 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Im in a very complicated fwb situation. We started out as drunk and completly random... he admitted after a few months he kind of had feelings for me, which i hadnt even acknolowdged in myself yet. Few weeks later i see him making out with another girl (which was fine, since we ... (523 words)

Why does my b/f send me a sweet text when he hasn't talked to me in 2 days?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

1 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend hadn't spoken to me for two days, but he has just sent me a text message saying " I can't be apart from you too much ". What does that mean, and should i text or ring him back now, or should i make him wait a bit?. I don't know what to say to him!. Seems like an ... (120 words)

I'm not attracted to the guy I'm dating but I do like talking to him. Do I end it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

1 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My lab partner and I recently started seeing each other. After 3 years of being with a person whose emotional and conversational skills could probably be surpassed by a hunk of wood's, the guy seemed like a nice change of pace. We talked quite a bit via text and both seemed ... (426 words)

Could stress be making my sex drive so high?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

1 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am a 21 year old woman and recently my sex drive has risen thru the roof. I want sex all the time and I sometimes a sit around my friends imagining sexual things with them. My father recently passed away and I have been experiencing many changes, people say from... (103 words)

Does my FWB still like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

1 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone hope you can help me I ended a fwb relationship a few weeks ago as he was treating me very badly he would text after work early hours of the morning wanting to come and e See me for sex that was the only time I ever saw him and I had fallen in love with him so I had... (116 words)

Boyfriend watching porn. Does he care about me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

1 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - i recently discovered my bf watches porn behind my back i found this out when i was pregnant so i confronted him about it and of course he denied it so i gave him the benefit of the dought but then whist i was in hospital in slow labour he did it again only this time it was on ... (216 words)

If we get serious now how will I know he wont do bad things like he did in the past? Should I give him a chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

1 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This will be a bit long, but please bare with me. I've known this guy "D" for about 6 yrs. We met when I was 16 and he was 20. We dated for a couple months but then I started dating someone else so we stopped talking. But for the past 6 yrs I've always gone back to him, idk why ... (415 words)

There is no blood between us, and no ancestors in common, but I still feel uncomfortable with our shared family connections, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

1 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I know it's way too late to do anything about this but it still bothers me. Most of my dad's side of the family lives in Canada. My dad has an uncle, Brian (my great uncle), and Brian is married to Annie. Annie is not my great aunt by blood, she's my great aunt by marriage... (189 words)

I found my husband was looking for sex with a transexual! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

1 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Last week i went on the history tab on my computer and found a transexual dating site. As i hadn't visited it i checked my husbands emails to find that he had joined this site. I entered his password and found he was looking for a descreet relationship with 1 on 1 sex. I was ... (163 words)

Does anyone think that some people just aren’t meant to find love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

1 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, words of advice would be greatly appreciated. Does anyone here have a problem with confidence. I mean confidence more to do with meeting new people and getting into relationships. I’ve never had a girlfriend, never kissed anyone and obviously a virgin. I know that its ... (201 words)

What is my ex playing at? He broke my heart all those years ago yet still thinks he can crawl back into my life whenever he feels like it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4647 days ago

1 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, well where to start, im sorry if i babble on this might be a bit long but ill try to make it short.. so a good few years ago when i was 12 i had a relationship with a boy, that lasted a year i'll call him 'G' this relationship was so emotinal and ended extreemly badly wo... (477 words)

He keeps texting me but then standing me up! Why wont he leave me alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

1 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is he doing this? why won't he leave me alone? ? There's this guy that I use to like a lot. We use to work together (not anymore) he'd stare at me all the time and only flirted with me and ignored all the other girls so I thought he was into me and I gave him my nu... (186 words)

I cant stand watching my friend self-destruct! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

1 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My best mate drinks too many energy drinks, swears too much, is getting into fights over his gf who probs won't last long but he's distancing himself from everyone and it's his life but I can't stand and watch him shut down. What do I to? I know I can't change him, but what am ... (59 words)

He doesn't get upset when I don't want sex, is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

1 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this man for four years but we have never had sex,each time we try to do it i always back down i feel am not ready and he understands me,I am worried because he dosent get upset everytime i back down is it normal?... (48 words)

I'm in love with a prostitute!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

1 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - hi people sorry first for my english grammar. right now im in big emotional problems please the people that don't take that serious or only want two offend me please better dont write nothing. i really dont know how two start im young 27 i had most of my life a lot of problems ... (523 words)

Are we official boyfriend and girlfriend? Or will it only be official when I get back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

1 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hello again! :) so me and my crush got together a week ago. we went out for a drink and then went to the movies. i think he did try to make a move but i was too scared and looked tense. i didn't even give him a kiss goodbye...just said: 'thanks! i had fun, maybe we'll meet up ... (253 words)

My ex wants us to start sleeping together again! What is he playing at? Does he not care how this will affect the kids?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

1 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Is my ex partner trying to play mind games? 2 months ago i broke up with my partner of 8 yrs as he can been verbally and physically abusive towards me. He accused me of giving him children he didnt want and ruining his life, i was also accused of being a control freak, I am ... (210 words)

I've developed a strong hate for gay men because of a failed legal dispute, how do I change this?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

1 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Ive been involved in a legal dispute with a major airline the last two years over a discrimination claim. Ive now lost the case and the man I accused of discriminating me is gay. Since the incident (and a few bar happenings), Ive overall developed a strong hate towards gay men. ... (76 words)

Ladies, would you go out with a guy who asked you out straight away?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

1 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - As the above question says, would you go out on a date with a guy who you had only met on that occasion asked you out at the end of the evening? If you perceive that as needy, if a guy fancies a girl when should he ask her out?... (53 words)

What are your opinions on taking a break and giving your lover space after a horrible argument?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

1 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. My boyfriend and I got into the worst argument we've ever gotten into last Friday. We've been together for almost two years now and that one topped them all. I will be honest that I barely have the energy and strength to explain everything that happened. W... (398 words)

I thought he really liked me, but he tried to kiss someone else that night! How do I forget about our amazing kiss and move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

1 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I fell for this guy about 3 months ago, and I thought he really liked me. One night he kissed me (he is only the 2nd guy I have kissed) but it was so amazing. He was gentle and lovely. I found out later he tried to kiss someone else that nite. I wanted to give him a chance ... (108 words)

An otherwise wonderful relationship, but my partner doesn't get physical with me anymore. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

1 March 2012 (F) age 41-50 - Whether you are single/living together/engaged or married, after a certain amount of time, the honeymoon phase passes, and you are both true to yourselves and really get to know each other. You find that you are very happy in your relationship, everything is great EXCEPT you... (214 words)

An old friend wants back into my life, but I don't think I can handle his issues

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

1 March 2012 (M)

age - Someone is trying to get back into my life, and I’m very conflicted about it. Bear with me while I try to keep this as short as I can and still give enough detail. We were buds in high school, but really bonded in our last year there when our girlfriends dumped us around... (590 words)

I feel guilty for the breakdown of his marriage!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

1 March 2012 (F) age 36-40 - I met and fell in love with a man who was married when we met. He told me that he had been unhappy in his marriage for more than a year and was contemplating divorce at about the time we met. I refused to date him because he was married. He promptly filed for divorce, maybe ... (268 words)

I feel uncomfortable because I have a higher sex drive than my boyfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

1 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have always had higher sex drive than my bf and that has always been bothering me. I would be afraid that he finds me overly sexually active and feels disgusted by me. I spoke to him about this and he said he is fine with it, he isnt disgusted by my sexual activeness. But I ... (143 words)

Why does this guy I dated keep talking about my flaws but checks up on who I'm dating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

1 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated a super handsome and very rich guy 5 months ago and I am sure that I got bored with him and the fact that he always spoken TOO politely as if that we are business partner or something and that he said constantly that we weren't match. Last month he suddenly contacted me ... (201 words)

My boyfriend is a gangster! Should I marry him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4578 days ago

1 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hiya, I'm 27 years old woman and I dated a 19 year old boy for 5 months last year. The very first time that we met, I doubted that we would ever got along as he's 8years younger than me, turned out, it was like love at the first sight for us both and we got along too well lik... (248 words)

Is it ok to wear my most slimming outfit 2 times in a row?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

1 March 2012 (F) - I met someone from online about 2 weeks ago. We spoke for 2 weeks prior to meeting as well. We met and the date went pretty well and we seem to like each other. He doesn't live very close and I am going to go visit him this weekend and it will be our second time seeing each ... (250 words)

My b/f comments on his ex's facebook "I miss you and feel lonely without you"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

1 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - k so.. my boyfriend always talks to me like he is totally in love with me, always tells me he loves me, never wants to leave me, we aren't to far in the relationship and he already wants to engage to me, already wants kids with me [even though he has another on the way] Super ... (205 words)

Why did I have this dream about my ex, where we were laughing and having fun, while in reality I have no positive thoughts about her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

1 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. I just stumbled onto this site, and I need help, with something. I had an awkward dream, involving my ex. I don't know why, but, I was friends with her in this dream. Just friends. And, in the dream, we were playing around (And, we're both out of teenhood, here. ... (112 words)

My husband is addicted to working out, he has always told me he feels ugly next to me, is verbally abusive and has no interest in me. What's his problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

1 March 2012 (F)

age - First, my husband is addicted to working out. We never have sex, he has no interest in me. He is verbally abusive. I am 48, a very fit body, size 36D breasts that he says he loves. He has always told me he feels ugly next to me. What is the problem? I try to talk with him ... (240 words)

B/f cums without any physical contact

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1 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend not only is getting hard when just makingout, but he is actually cumming with no physical contact. he has no experience with girls besides kissing. he did have a surgery on his on testi because it was in him so they moved it back out into the sack. could this be ... (86 words)

I didn't even want relationships with them, so why am I hurt when they moved on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

1 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have no ability when scene setting to filter out information you don't need. I appologise in advance and if you didn't want to read a mini essay I understand if you turn away now! You have been warned!... What was my 2nd relationship ended after 10 months in November. L... (1035 words)

Am I a fool for hoping she would see her mistake and come back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

1 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My first love who i met at 14 broke up with me at age 22. Our relationship was magical it really was. we were best friends even after 8 years being able to keep the magic that long is unique in my opinion. we had plans of marrige and kids and all of that. Im gonna try ... (465 words)

Am I selfish?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4648 days ago

1 March 2012 (F) age 30-35 - This isn’t a relationship question, but since there had been some questions unrelated to this topic I decided to ask. So what do you guys think: My birthday was a couple of weeks ago and some acquaintances congratulated me on facebook, my mum called, my dad didn’t the f... (281 words)

How shall I kiss my Boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4647 days ago

1 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi,I've been going out with my boyfriend for a while now and I'm scared about kissing him. The guy I was with before,we ended up clashing teeth a few times,because i have big lips for a mixed race girl,and he had small thin lips. Now with kissing for the first time with my new... (75 words)

I feel something for my dad's cousin! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

1 March 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I had been a long time with dad`s cousin I think we have a good relationship but in the last time that I saw her I started to feel something because I saw her crying for that i felt something new so the problem is that she is like my family and I don`t know if she feel the same ... (88 words)

Is it his brother talking, or does he really not want a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4647 days ago

1 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so extremely long story short. THE BACKGROUND: I started an intimate friendship with a guy in summer let's say his name is Alpha. We both started to talk about feelings and how we've both been hurt before. We started talking about a relationship and we agreed that ... (499 words)

He puts more attention to her than he did to me! Guys please answer!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

1 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Question for guys.. I was dating this guy and recently found out that he was also keeping in touch with another girl. As I see it, it seems that he puts more attention to this other girl. We were together for about 6 months, then he met her and started a relationship with her ... (151 words)

I cant be bothered with my life! Whats wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

1 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I dont know whats wrong with me. my father died a few years back and i`ve accepted the fact he is gone and i`m trying to get on with me life but i just don`t feel like me any more. i get angry at the smallest of things like i`m hoovering for example and the cable get caught... (175 words)