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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Right after he said he wanted a baby, his ex calls and says she's pregnant!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

13 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing this guy for exactly 5 weeks today. I like him, but I'm still feeling this one out. The other day, he tells me that he wants to have a baby. He's 10 years older than me, so I can understand that he wants to start a new chapter in his life. Today he tel... (173 words)

I want to have sex with my girlfriend, but her parents cannot know!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

13 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and love my girlfriend. We've already talked about marriage and all that stuff so this isn't some one night stand. We want to have sex (by the way she's 16 so in my state it's still legal) but her parents are VERY overprotective as far as dating goes and we can't find ... (97 words)

Is this cheating? should I say anything to her or let it go?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

13 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I NEED SO MUCH HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!A couple weeks ago my GF and I broke up. We broke up for the weekend. She thought/thinks I am not the type to go hook up with other girls. Just because of my past and just who I am.. Well dating her I changed. i am more outgoing, more confidan... (655 words)

Married women: what could your hubby do to rekindle the fire of your attraction and affection?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

13 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - A question for the married women: what could your husband do to spark a fire of romance, excitement, strong feelings of love or attachment? I feel like my wife is drifting away. What things can I do to rekindle her interest, return that warm glow of affection? I need some ... (74 words)

Scared of sex...does it hurt?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

13 March 2012 (F) age 30-35 - help!! my boyfriend wanted me to have sex with him but i am scared to!!! does it hurt??... (18 words)

Is she just flirting of possibly really interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

13 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - hi i started a job in october and i am 19 this year. a woman who works in the same office as me is about late 20's early 30's I think she's cute but left it at that. she always say "hi love" when i walk past her and we ask each other if everything is ok like normal. sh... (141 words)

FWB told me "he could have me whenever he wanted me"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

13 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, im so fed up there was this boy in which i use to sleep with. i know its wrong but he did have a gf. on the weekend i went out and ended up in a party, in which he was there. he just totally blanked me. i was talking to one of his friends and told him that ... (167 words)

My husband just up and left and told me to keep my rings and don't date. HUH?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

13 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - ive been with my husband off and on for 5yrs 8months married and he left last week while i was at work and only took a few outfits. yes we argued but that is normal especially when i was the only one working and trying to pay for everything and take care of everybody. anyways ... (118 words)

I quit talking to her and now she's got a boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

13 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Im 19. There was this girl I wanted to be with. She would give me random hugs sometimes from behind and in the summer of 2010 I was going to join the army.. And she told me your not going to join the army We were hanging out every day. We had so much fun. We always texte... (112 words)

B/f promised to pamper me but he's been MIA and I can't stop crying!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

13 March 2012 (?) age 36-40 - Hi, My question may seems lame to most people, but i juz need to ask. firstly, like many women, i like to be pampered. when i dated A, i had already told him, i am not easy to be with as i am very sensitive person n get touchy easily. he insisted that he can learn n nev... (311 words)

How can I cover up a hickey on my breast?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

13 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 21 and I am in a relationship with the most amazing man in the world. We have been together for 9 years (we were in the same class when we were 12)and now live together at his parents house while we save for our own place. Anyway, last night when we were having sex he ... (210 words)

Why did he delete me as a friend on Facebook when I got engaged? I want my friend back!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

13 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I have been great friends (with a guy) for 13 year. We almost got together once when I was eighteen, but I decided against it because I didnt want to lose a friend if anything went wrong. He's in the navy but whenever he's back we would get together and we'd keep in contact ... (153 words)

Why cant my husband forgive me for lying about fiancial matters? I have been a devoted wife in every other way!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

13 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I lied to my husband of 7 years about bills I was paying for my adult/college daugther (her car payment and cell phone)who is 1000 miles away from home,and credit cards I had that I paid for my husband found out and now it has turned into all out hell..he has involved his ... (177 words)

How can I ever trust him again after he lied, he even swore on our kids lives!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

13 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So I need some advice on if I can ever trust my Fiance again. To start we were having some problems back in October and we decided that we would be together but I went to stay with a friend for a week because I needed some time to sort things out. Once I came back home there ... (258 words)

Hair extensions, whatever next?!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

13 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this beautiful girl, she is laid back, funny, interesting, smart just a great girl! She has a great figure and is a natural beauty, unlike some the girls I see she doesn't look like she even has to try to look good. Well one thing about her that I love is her long hair... (309 words)

Abrupt communication cut off with the married woman I love, should I use someone to talk to her seen as she is ignoring me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

13 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm a lesbian who had a mutual understanding relationship with a married woman - nothing intimate, we just go out and have dinner. We'd keep in touch through a famous social network, usually through private messages. I usually joke a lot and in our last conversation, it seems ... (457 words)

I'm still in love with the man I had an affair with. How do I mend my broken heart?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

13 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Well I had been married for 15yrs before I had my affair last summer 2011. It has been so long ago that I felt any sort of connection other than friendship with my husband. I have always had to deal with mental abuse from my in laws and my husband has never stood up for me to ... (824 words)

He asked me out 28 years later, had a great time but wants nothing serious! I think I am going to get hurt again, so am I right to walk away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

13 March 2012 (F)

age - I have been separated for 1 yr and half..out of a 22 yrs of married I had a horrible ending to my marriage......well here comes along a guy who I was in love with 20+years ago my first love who now was also separated. God I was in love with him back in the day so when he became ... (187 words)

How do men react when they get to know that their partner has been masturbating in secret?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

13 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - what are men's reaction to their spouse's secret masterbation? im 34 and Ive been living wth my bf almost 11 years ... its been almost four years he lost his sex derive ... we do it almost once a month ... and Im always horney ... we love each other very much and Im sure he ... (161 words)

I think I scared him away by being too affectionate, now he wants space. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

13 March 2012 (F) age 51-59 - Im a very affectionate person but the guy I've been dating for two months become good friends so he decided to cook dinner for me. the frist dinner date was at his house, we were both tense to anything. the second date he started to feel nervous and sweating tell me im making ... (290 words)

Why is my contacting me now after a messy break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

13 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, My ex of one year broke up with me just over a year ago. He claimed to have stopped loving me and he treated me like dirt in the weeks leading into and after our breakup. Lately, he has been calling quite frequently (about once or twice a week), even though he has re... (175 words)

We don't talk anymore but I still love him, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

13 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - i was dating a certain man for a year until october last year.we then started cohabiting till october last year when i moved out from his house because he used to call me names while i was in his house.he stopped making love with me for 3 months,he was just moody and had ... (343 words)

My boyfriend wants to ignore his ex's pregnancy and marry me

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

13 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I had a brief break up in January an during our break up he had a brief sexual encounter with a young woman (she is about 25) he is 49. He also has Bipolar 2. She is now pregnant. He says he does not want anyhting to do with her and it meant nothing. During a ... (151 words)

When he confessed it wasn't what I thought it would be!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

13 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 24 and I met this genuinely loving guy at a charity organisation which helps disabled children get into sport. Anyway, we started dating 9 months ago and he has asked me to move in with him. I agreed and am in the process of packing my stuff. However, last night he sat me ... (320 words)

Cheated on my boyfriend with a girl, how is he going to react?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

13 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hello.. i cheated on my botfriend with a chick during our 2 day break up, and im not interested in having a three some. how would you guys react to something like this if you were the boyfriend? (coming clean tomorrow)... (42 words)

I would like my wife to share my sexual views

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

13 March 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a 45yr old male and think my my wife is not into sex. When we have sex its like a scheduled event and if I can not preform right, she says its ok maby next time.I am very sexual and like alot of stimulation in all my private parts but she will not indulge in those ... (139 words)

How do you turn down a guy in a respectable way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

13 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hello! im not the most attractive person out there, and im aware of this, so please no one take my question as a conceded one.. i get alot of guys approaching me, all of the time, and i dont do anything to initiate it, i dont think.. it seems like no matter how nice i turn ... (308 words)

Do I hang in there or give up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

13 March 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I get close to a woman three months ago, i find out she has an ex she claims she cant get rid of, he is threatening her and nasty to her. See says she doesnt know how to deal with him and tells me she is frightened for me to so she thinks on a couple of occasions its best til ... (162 words)

Why does my ex stare at me?

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13 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex has been staring at me for a while now and looks directly into my eyes when he does but we dont talk anymore, we used to be such good friends then his gf started hating me for no reason and made him block me and not text me anymore, the other night my bf asked if I could ... (112 words)

Is it naive to think your relationship with your spouse is special or unique?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

13 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I was working on my wife's computer recently, and I found some old emails from about 3 and 4 years ago between my wife and a couple of her exes. I couldn't resist the temptation to read them. I don't know that I really feel jealous (at least that's not how I would describe i... (410 words)

I really dislike being single

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

13 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been single since October And most people I talk to say that they like being single but I don't. Everyone says that I will never fib nd a boyfriend if I am looking but I cant just stop. I like a couple of guys but I am 99% sure none of them like me the same way. I hate thi... (110 words)

What is the most romantic thing you can do with your partner?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4667 days ago

13 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Just a survey! What is the most romantic thing your boyfriend/girlfiend can do for you? A fancy dinner? Long walk? Spontaneous midnight starlit picnic on the beach? Watching the sunset together? Anything he/she could say? Any specific gestures? Thanks!... (39 words)

His mum is upset because I gave him a hickey

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4666 days ago

13 March 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - dear cupid my crush who i have known for a month now kissed me today we got really into it and i bit his neck and gave him a hickey by mistake. he went home called me and said his mom flipped out and shes very upset at him and he said he doesnt think we can talk for a while. ... (76 words)

What is a guy's definition of 'soon'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

13 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - What does a guy mean by saying 'can I see you soon?' whats a guys definition of soon? Thanks... (19 words)

Should I break up with my boyfriend so he can experience the life he wants?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

13 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 27 and my boyfriend is 22. We've been together a year and a half. Recently we have been arguing because he's starting to feel like he's been missing out on his youth. I've had more partners than him and got to party and enjoy my 20s and he says he's jealous of me for that. ... (188 words)

How can I tell my mom about my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

13 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, well, Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 months. I'm 16 and he is 19. The only time I ever get to see him is when I am with my friend. I've had a bad past with guys and he knows this. But I am scared to tell my mom about having a boyfriend, cause I am scared of ... (133 words)

I want to be with my ex but I don't know how to go about it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4663 days ago

13 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been speaking to and hanging with my ex after 1.5 years of no contact and we've both agreed that an old spark has been rekindled (or however the expression goes). In the last 2 weeks or so she has been quiet, she hasn't been replying to written messages (texts and emails).... (247 words)

What's the Best Way to Deal With my Wife's Conflict With Other Women in her "Social Group"??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

13 March 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife moved to the U.S. from the Philippines about 10 years ago, and we've been married a couple years. She's in her mid 30s. She recently had a falling out with one of her Filipina "friends", and both of them seem to be escalating the situation, saying as many nasty thing... (545 words)

How did the pill make her breasts bigger?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

13 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend is 19 and has been taking the pill to make her breasts bigger. I thought this was a stupid idea since the pill doesn't do that and she isn't sexually active, so why bother? However, she has been taking it and they have gotten bigger because she used to be quite smal... (147 words)