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I want to be more than friends. He doesn't.

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Question - (4 March 2012) 4 Answers - (Newest, 6 March 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I was in a relationship with this guy for 7 months and i said i think am falling in love.weeks later he said that we have to end it its not me its him. we remained friends for a year seen each other afew times but know he says that his family like me alot but we cant get back together coz there is a 17 years age difference, he also says his cousins says that we have a relationship which is not true we only had sex on 2 different occasions before i even met him n have never cheated on him. but he still wants to be friends but i want more dnt knw wat to do.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2012):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thankyou all for the advice. Time to get the party heels put n dust them

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (5 March 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntHe’s being fair and honest with you by telling you the truth. YOU can’t make HIM love you or want you the way you want him. You should probably for your own sake and comfort go NO CONTACT with him as you will see everything he says and does as HOPE he will want more. He won’t.

You need to move on and find someone who wants you the way you want them.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2012):

As the previous poster said, you need to move on. You were clear about your feelings, sharing that you love him. He however does not share your feelings, by ending it. More than a year has gone by where he could have changed his mind, he didn't, so you have your answer.

Move on, find someone who deserves your love :)

Best Wishes

xxxx E

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2012):

Look yourself in the mirror and say okay. So he doesn't want you but there are literally millions of other guys who probably would love to date u. Don't put all your eggs in one basket and cry over spilled milk. He left now you focus on you. Get out enjoy life meet friends go out with coworkers but do something to occupy your mind. Time and a new focus will heal you.

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