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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Will I be able to have sex more than once the weekend I lose my virginity?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

2 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! I am wanting to ask some general advice about first time sex. I am 21 years old and i have been in a long distance relationship for 4 months now with a man I met at univerisity. Im a virgin but hes not. basically i am going to visit him next weekend and we ha... (129 words)

His lacking in love behaviour is confusing me. What should I try to fix this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Thanks for this :] Basically I've been with my boyfriend a year a half now, were both 17. Things went downhill in January and we argued a lot and was going to split up but we didn't and everything was normal since. Now recently the past couple of weeks he doesn't text me... (187 words)

My sister tried to break up my marriage and I can't get past it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

2 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I am stuck. I am not able to move on after being hurt/betrayed by my sister who tried to break up my marrage and be with my husband. I want to be less angry and afraid. The pain at times is too much. I have become depressed and angry. I need to move on in my life stronger ... (143 words)

Boyfriend doesn't want to put on facebook that he is in a relationship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

2 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - okay my boyfriend and i have both have a facebook he use to not have problem with putting that he is in a relationship with me now he don't want to he just wants to keep it as single. i have begged him to change it cause ill feel more comfortable but he want he said its just ... (188 words)

I seem to have trouble making friends and keeping them

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

2 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - This isn’t really a relationship question of sorts, but just something I’m curious about. It’s more of a confidence and friendship question if I’m honest :). Well basically, I’m having some trouble with things at the minute, mainly with my friends and making new ones. I’m 19 ... (362 words)

How do you stop loving a person and move on so quickly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

2 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and i broke up about a month ago and i miss him terribly we were together for about a year his cheating ex came back in the picture and she treated him horrible. He is seeing her again is there still a chance we may work thing's out? How do you just stop loving a person ... (66 words)

Been dating 6 months and I love her. When can I raise possibility of sex with my virgin girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Im a male aged 22,i have been seeing my girlfriend for almost 6 months,she is 18. I love her so much she's the most important person in the world to me.I tell her often how much I care about her and would do anything for her. She doesn't really show her true feelings due to ... (256 words)

I've gained 40 lbs since dating my boyfriend and feel really insecure

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

2 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everybody, I am in a very happy, healthy relationship with my bf of a bit over a year. We have great sex and all that, too. I'm a bit concerned though, because I have a thyroid problem and so I have gained quite a bit of weight. I was about 145 when we started dating... (236 words)

Was it alright to turn him down saying "I'm not interested in relationships"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Just a quick question, someone who I suspected liked me tried to give me flowers and chocolates today. So all I said was "I'm sorry but I'm not interested in relationships" (which for my own reasons is true). He then tried to make out like it was just a friends thing. I'm not ... (110 words)

Gender confused? looking for a girl and can't understand why no one likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4645 days ago

2 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - well i am 21 and i live in new york... i been here all my life and i grew up with " the normal ideas and things a child grows up with" i played with cars and was a typical boy... and now i am so confused because i love painting my nails and doing makeup the goth look i love i... (172 words)

How do I resolve my relationship problems? I like my ex, but I'm with another guy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4626 days ago

2 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - This is quite a long story to begin with and to be honest im not exactly sure how to get over this guy in the slightest and it is breaking my heart. I am only 16 years of age yet the last 2 years my mind has been in turmoil with the fact that i simply can't get over this guy. ... (949 words)

I'm scared to date him because of his race

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i have met a wonderful man online and we talk on the phone a lot, we will be meeting soon. i cant seem to get him put of my mind he is amazing! only problem is his asian and im white! if we actually did start a relationship, my faimily would never accept him! i only hav... (110 words)

I like him but don't want my heart broken. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a crush on this boy who has been my friend for over 3 years now. I started like him about a year ago, and although it was only a crush at first I think I may be in love now. Even though he maybe just another boy to others to me he is the most amazing person I've ever ... (94 words)

My fear of touch is interferring with my ability to sustain relationships. How do I overcome this burden?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 20 years old and female and attracted to both men and women. I am relatively happy with my life, with the exception of relationships. I find it impossible to maintain relationships because I have a complete fear of touch. I do not mean just sexual touch, I mean any form of ... (353 words)

Has anyone here risked everything to follow their heart? What was the outcome?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

2 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Here is my question: aunts, have any of you (male or female) ever taken a major risk in order to follow your heart? If so, what was the outcome? Do you regret the decision? And here is why I ask. My boyfriend's job has given him notice that he may be laid off within the next ... (557 words)

How to become my boyfriend's best friend?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

2 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are very much in love, and we plan to spend the rest of our lives together. We are extremely close and get on very well. However, I recall him saying that a girl that he used to date last year became his best friend (they stopped speaking 6 months ago, but ... (188 words)

Men - if you have a really attractive girlfriend, do you still use porn? Do you feel guilty for using it?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

2 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi are there any men who have really attractive girlfriends as in lots of other people find them attract aswell and they are amazing in bed that still use porn? If so why don't you feel guilty for getting off on others? Also women who don't mind porn in a relationship why is it ... (67 words)

My Ex is the only person who has ever turned me on. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

2 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - What is wrong with me? is this normal? ? I've never been the kind of girl to get turn on or want sex. But my last boyfriend was different. He turned me on so much. Everything about him turned me on. His voice, his smell, his kisses, his touch. I loved him so much and ... (189 words)

No intimacy during pregnancy or after birth. It's been 11 months, will her feelings for me ever come back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

2 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi Aunts, So my wife and i recently had our first child who is now three months old. We stopped having sex of any kind two months into the pregnancy so it has been essentially 11 months since we have had sex. There was one instance where she gave me oral and we have had inte... (576 words)

If your partner had chronic health problems, how would it affect your feelings for them? Scared for the future...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

2 March 2012 (F)

age - I need some emotional support... It's a health issue. I am 52 years old with the back of a 72 year old woman. I found out yesterday that I have 3 compressed discs in my spine and two bulging discs (different from the compressed ones) My spine is currently at 20 de... (435 words)

I don't want to do anything without my boyfriend. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Help i dont want to do anything but be with my boyfriend! Im very much in love with my boyfriend! we get on great and seem to have an almost perfect relationship. He works, im at uni and do bank work. Other than this i find myself not wanting to spend time with anyone else... (249 words)

What should I get my girlfriend for her birthday?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, I know this isn't a major issue but I'm curious what you guys think... I've been dating my girlfriend for six months now. All of her special days fall right on top of each other (Christmas then V-Day then birthday in March) and I'm not sure what to get her for her birt... (212 words)

Is it normal that my boyfriend masturbates when he sees me on Skype?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone! im in a long distance relationship. we talked on skype with my boyfriend for a year now. is it normal that sometimes he masturbate when he see me in camera? but i pretend that i dont know what hes doingwe just keep talking.. i have feeling hes doing that.. is that ... (54 words)

I'm lonely and want sex and attention but my friends might disapprove.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

2 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So recently I've been playing with the dating scene seriously for the first time. I'm very shy and I feel I act awkward in front of new guys I meet. I have male friends that I've known for years and I'm lonely; so I was planning to be with them. I don't want a relationship, I'm ... (294 words)

Is my boyfriend a pedophile for watching cartoon toddler porn?

This question has 37 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

2 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Is my boyfriend a pedophile for looking at cartoon porn depicting very young children? We've been going out for 6 months and since we've moved in together I've been secretly snooping on his laptop and have found many things that have disturbed me. Lots of rape porn, shemale ... (242 words)

Is it true that women never forget their first sexual partners?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

2 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a 30 y/o male, got married when I was 28 I have a 19 month old boy. I love my wife and child. But my question is the following: "when my wife and I had intimacy for the first time she made it very clear and reinstated that she wasn't a virgin, that she had varioous par... (146 words)

How do I tell my friends that I'm dating someone again that cheated on me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I know that this sounds pathetic but here it goes im 23 i previously went out with a boy when i was 16 up until last xmas, we had a pritty much perfect relationship for 5 and a half years but when it came to last summer he wanted to move in and i still felt as though i needed ... (304 words)

How do I talk to this guy without sounding like a blabbing idiot?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently started a new class that takes place once a week and was struck dumb by one of the most handsome man I've ever seen (he kind of looks a bit like Viggo Mortensen). I could be wrong, but I think he noticed me too because I felt his eyes on me a few times. However,... (187 words)

He cheats on me, we don't have sex. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - we lived all life without sex, he was always cheating on me saying that was tired, i did something wrong, I didn´t do something well and so on... we married he was 29 and I 25, we had sex one day and other 2 weeks without, it was the routine during 19 years, now I am 44 and I ... (91 words)

Why does this girl ignore and disrespect me when we are out with others?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

2 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so im back again, with more drama. I started seeing a younger girl of 18. She is a co-worker of mine and we went on a date and spent the next three days basically just making out and watching movies at my place. i like the freshness of it and when we were alone it was great. ... (300 words)

Is it sensible to stay friends with my ex when I want her back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, my girlfriend of over a year broke up with me recently. We didnt fight much, I didn't do anything extremely wrong and it's fair to say the break up was out of the blue. It was because she wants to be single. she said she wanted space and I found it hard giving it her, b... (169 words)

I am having thoughts of my girlfriend with another man and I am disgusted by this, how do I stop these thoughts?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a girlfriend...we have been in a relationship for the past one and a half years...she's everything that I ever wanted and loves me very much...I plan on marrying her when the time is right...we haven't had a full sexual intercourse till now but we usually explore each ... (107 words)

My FWB keeps pushing me for a threesome and I am just not interested. How do I communicate this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a casual acquaintance that I sleep with. We have been together a couple of years. She sleeps with other people, too, and I am fine with that. The problem I am having is that more and more often she keeps suggesting that we involve these "others" (other men) in ou... (308 words)

Is my friend jealous of my life? Is that why she behaved this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

2 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello People! I have a question that needs a third party response. I have a friend that I have known since pre-school to break a friendship over something so childish. Story: I just had a baby 4 months ago and was asked by my old coworkers to go out. I didn't want to go since I ... (201 words)

Are these signs of a man with issues or is it his situation that has made him push me away?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I guess I really am asking others for conformation of something I already know in my heart but maybe I someone has another perspective .I have posted before and this is my third disaster relationship since a long term toxic relationship 7 yrs ago with my sons dad. I have ... (340 words)

Do age gaps really matter when it comes to good sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

2 March 2012 (?) age - Does the age gap really matter when it comes to good sex and relationships? Do you think its wrong for a 53year old women to have sex daily? why would her boyfriend of 41 tell her that love doesnt get measured by the amount of sex sessions??... (47 words)

When I asked if my boyfriend would come to see me he said "thanks for the offer"! What is going on here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

2 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I am wondering if anyone of you have good insight to a mans mind... I recently had a conversation with my boyfriend that has left me confused! We were talking on the phone late in the evening the day before I was to leave to be at my mothers for a week. I had trie... (548 words)

My parents want me to rethink my future with him because of his unstable job, should I listen to my parents or my heart?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone :) I wanna ask some opinion, suggestion, and whatever comments from you guys. Here is my situation I'm having a great relationship with my bf for 2 years. We are in the same age, both 22. He is caring, mature and responsible. He makes me feel loved and happy... (410 words)

My ex is ignoring me after we split up for a second time, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I wish my ex-boyfriend would stop ignoring me. See, we have a bit of a complicated relationship. We started dating about six months ago, and then he fell for some other girl while he was with me. He broke it off, but he continued to communicate with me because he wante... (250 words)

Crush on my teacher....should I seek a sexual relationship with him? Or just let this go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

2 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I just want to go ahead and say I'm legal, not to justify my crush, but to help provide prospective and help those of you wiling to help me give me more accurate advice... And I apologize in advance, this is going to be really long. Alright, so I just want to go ahead and say... (1334 words)

I'm struggling to understand why my husband had affairs!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

2 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband established two illicit text relationships over a period of two months, he slept with one of the woman after getting seriously drunk. I have decided to give him a second chance and I am plagued with the usual hauntings a victim of an affair has. I am however ... (251 words)

I have a sexless marriage and my husband is a sex addict! What do I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 March 2012 (F)

age - I desperately need help. I have no one who I can talk to about this and I'm afraid it's going to destroy me. I've been married for 26 years. There is no question it's not a perfect marriage. There are two issues that I am fighting and feel like I'm drowning in both. Issue ... (688 words)

What signs should I look out for if he is starting to like me a little?

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2 March 2012 (?) age 26-29 - I don't really know if this means the guy that I like(who is very quiet) is warming up to me or not but as time passes I am kind of seeing a change in the way that he acts around me. We haven't had an actual conversation yet but as far as me saying hi and and bye to him like ... (393 words)

I'm afraid of falling in love and getting hurt!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

2 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help overcoming my fear of relationships. And basically get out of my shell. To get to the point: I have never had a boyfriend. And at 24, that's pretty late. When I was younger I was happy that I wasn't involved with all the drama. No pregnancy scares, no STD's... (285 words)

As much as I love my husband, and as much as I love his company, I do miss having a girl to connect with. Does anyone have any tips on how I can overcome this or find better people to try and connect with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I like to think of myself as a good person. I put others before myself in most cases. I am responsible and punctual whether it comes to work or my personal life. I give a lot to others and don't expect a lot in return. I have a decent sense of humor and am a total dork at ... (443 words)

Do married couples have better sex when drunk?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

2 March 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Do you prefer sex when your drunk as a married couple?. The wife and I Always seem to have the best sex when we have a little too much red wine. The "wildness" comes out! ... (38 words)

I've been cheated on before, how can I trust my LDR?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I met an awesome man, i got cheated on in my last 3 year relationship...before i met this new guy, when we were talking i didn't really pay mind to him, but as we got to know one another i began to like him a lot, i fell in love in just 5 months...lately things have been ... (220 words)

How do I deal with my confused feelings? I think my brother's wife fancies me and I feel the same about her.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My brother's wife and I have history, we both have moved on since she married my brother but the only problem is deep down i still fancy her and deep down in her heart i know she feels the same. But she will not admit it to herself. We only see each other at the weekends... (104 words)

I like the idea of my wife having sex with another man while I watch, should I tell her or keep this to myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - i would like to explore with my mrs, ive thought about her having sex with another man with me watching and i liked the idea.... do you think i should tell her this or keep it to myself.... (38 words)

He told me he didn't want to lose me but wants to be single. What do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

2 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - soo.. my boyfriend has told me before that he never wants to lose me.... but now hes saying hes not gunna dump me but he just hates not bein single and hes one of those people that just has to me free....what do i dooo?!);... (45 words)

I tell my b/f that I trust him but I really don't. He cheated!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

2 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my bf cheated on me 6 months ago with his best girl mate who he promised me it nothing ever like that between them. he told me half an hour after it happened and said it happened for literally half a minute, when he realized what he was doing he said he had never regretted ... (149 words)

Is this domestic abuse? Is it safe to stay with my father after his behavior towards my mom and me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

2 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Really important- please read. I'm writing regarding an issue I feel it's really serious. I live with my mother and father; whilst I adore her, I never bonded with my father. He is essentially an extremely narcissistic person, who's the center of his own universe and thu... (1392 words)

Girlfriend vs FWB. How do you know what the guy thinks of you as?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - how do you know if a guy likes you as a possible girlfriend? or if he is just interested in sex- you as a friend with benefits? what are the signs that he wants you as a girlfriend? thanks... (39 words)