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Archived questions from: 17 March, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I feel like I am just an unimportant add on to his life.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

17 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and a half and I have been very happy up until the last 3 months. I love him and still love seeing him etc. But I have been worrying about his lack of seriousness towards our relationship. I am 20 and he will be 21 ... (453 words)

What did I do wrong to make a problem in our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

17 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupids Here is some background: Bf and I were together 2 1/2 years, he went away to boot camp for two months, he was supposed to be away for four but got medically discharged. While there he met a girl and they started sexting each other. He calls it a fantasy no em... (265 words)

He says he will change but he never does

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

17 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i have a serious question.im currently engaged n my man isnt taking me seriously but he say he is. he doesnt call an let me kno wen something pops up at work where i wont see him that full day. ill call him every hour on th hour and the next day he'll text me saying hope u ... (146 words)

Our eyes met twice, I like him so what do I do next?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

17 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I like this boy who i am friends with and met him with his friends and my friend in town and went to see a movie with them we met eyes like two times but i like him and i am wanting to know what to do next and how to.... (54 words)

Answers required ASAP - I need to know how to show her I am the right guy for her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

17 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok i have a really complicated situation. I was going out with this girl and we were both madly in love with eachother but i started to slip away and i broke up with her. our relationship lasted a year and 2 months. About a week later i realized i loved her and we met up and ... (305 words)

Is it possible to get a true life long partner when you are gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

17 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. First, I am a gay. Second I can not find my real love, alhough I have made a lot of effort for searching. I have the feeling that maybe men do not want a serious relationship with a man; maybe just some sex and no responsability. The few stabile gay couples I know ... (84 words)

He only seems to ask me out when he knows I can't go!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

17 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, thank you in advance for any help, anyone can give. I really like this guy who I see through work about once a week, outside of that we phone each other and text all the time, I have told him how I feel about him and he says that he likes me too, but we have never ... (155 words)

I'm feeling so down but don't know why

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

17 March 2012 (F)

- Im feeling really down lately. I cant put my finger on one reason for feeling like this, I think there are many factors. But the ones that get to me the most are that Im 29 in 2 months and still single. My age depresses me greatly. Im always looking at younger people and ... (262 words)

I'm 30 and have never been in a relationship. Is anyone else like this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

17 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, here goes... I'm nervous about posting this but the bottom line is I'm lonely. I live in a big city and whilst I know people, I would consider the vast majority acquaintances. I moved away from my home town years ago as most of my childhood friends had done the same and ... (718 words)

Boyfriend wont spend mothers day with me - am I overreacting?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

17 March 2012 (?) age 36-40 - This time last year my grandmother died and it is mothers day weekend as everyone knows and my mum is working all day today and tomorrow. My boyfriend knows how upset i am, i was crying yesterday because I am just feeling quite lonely. At Christmas time I asked my boyfriend to ... (366 words)

She says she loves me but can't be a girlfriend right now. HUH?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

17 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So my girlfriend told me that she wants a break because she can't be a girlfriend right now but she isn't breaking up with me but she tells me that i am the one. so i don't know what this means. does this mean we are broken up or just seperated or are we still together on the ... (60 words)

Recognizing female friends that will let you go further then friends.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4521 days ago

17 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok this is a dumb question, but one ive honestly began to ponder upon lately, and i thought what better place to take this question, I hang out with a lot of girls, not by any preference, it just happens that way, i never really even noticed until someone brought it to my ... (180 words)

My husband is constantly making arrangements for us to be with his family and I don't want to!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

17 March 2012 (F)

age - My husband has a very large family and he is constantly at their beck and call, doing things with them and helping them when he can. I have no issue with this and good for him but I don't want to have that kind of relationship with them. I have absolutely no family as my ... (287 words)

My ex will not allow me to date around our children

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

17 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Why is my ex saying he won't allow me to introduce another man to my kids. My ex and I broke up 3 months ago, we lived together and had 2 kids. We.broke up.because he has a bad temper and the relationship had been abusive at times and I didn't.trust him. He has his own place ... (192 words)

I'm constantly in a nervous state when its time for a family dinner.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

17 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year an a half. Obviously you get past that phase where you're so wrapped up in love you think eveything is wonderful and now I'm seeing some problems. We have big family dinners every 2nd month in my family, everyone always comes al... (387 words)

Why wont they be my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4631 days ago

17 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - MOD NOTE TWO QUESTIONS COMBINED Okay I have to ask,why is it everytime I try to be friends with guys they always try to want to be with me?,and me and my friend thats a girl have the same guy friends but there all nice to her and dont try to hit on her and really just try to b... (230 words)

I love her as more than my best friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

17 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, everyone.... So, I'd appreciate some advice for the situation that I'm in. I am a 15-year-old lesbian girl. I have felt attracted to girls since I was about 9, discovered more about my orientation over time, and finally came out when I was 14. One of my best friends... (529 words)

What can I say to just make her stop?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

17 March 2012 (F) age 30-35 - Hi all.. Last weekend my friend and I got into an argument. It wasn't the first one and I was overall fed up with her bullsh*t, so I told her I'm done with her and got an app on my phone to block her. Well, I can still see what she says as long as I click on the app and she ... (126 words)

If I am not gay, what am I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

17 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I am over thirty and until very recently I tagged myself as a gay. I had same sex fantasies from my puberty, and a couple of times I had sexual experience with guys as well. However I never could engage a long-term relationship with a man. In the last months I realised (and it ... (169 words)

My friends say I should DEMAND he remove the old pictures!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

17 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Should I have a problem with this?: Basically, my boyfriend of 7 months has a few of photos of him and his ex on his myspace page that he hasnt used in about 3 years. The photos are just normal, friendly photos like if you didnt know she was his ex, you would just think they ... (257 words)

I'm sexually attracted to the neighbor

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

17 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - advice.... please, attraction and lust for my nabor and im married,i dont know what to do i turn into a horny school girl when i see him and when he call our phone asking for my husband i float on cloud 9....... sometimes when my husbands not in hearing range we flirt and he ... (119 words)

Where do I go to find my biological father?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4632 days ago

17 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Biological Fatherless Child. Worse than fatherless. I looked up and thought another man was my father. He was not a great man, but he 'was' my father. 12 years old I found out otherwise. I am brunette, I have 3 brothers now, 2 blonde...one brunette...ironically enough..... (116 words)

I'm 26 and my husband is looking for younger women

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

17 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I thought I forgot about my husband, maybe ex husband hasn't divorced yet. So technically not yet. I am not into divorce and I think that marriage should be sacred that is probably why I'm still pushing and hoping that we can still get back together and other things. OK to be ... (436 words)

Not sure that I should trust this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

17 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have met a man that I enjoy spending time with. We do things together and treats my daughter as if he's always going to be there.He have a girlfriend and he brings me around her and treats me like I'm someone elses girl(she knows better). He sends out mixed signals and play ... (103 words)

How can I make him see how much he hurt me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

17 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I am in a situation that I need to get out of before I drive myself mad I have been in a fwb situation with a man for a year now didn't plan it as this it just happened we used to see each other very regulary about two three times a week I have fallen in love with him and he ... (204 words)

Thirty, single, no prospects, frequents hookers.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

17 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, i have recently turned thirty, only to realise that i am growing old with no experience with women and dating game. i just feel shallow, empty and detached. i have been away from home when i was 15 and have lived for the last 15 years on my own. i cant speak a word with ... (310 words)

I lost my virginity to some random girl while drunk, while I really like this other girl. Should I tell her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

17 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok I basically lost my virginity last saturday, I was so drunk that I literally cannot remember what happened, the whole night was a blank. I only found out I had sex the next morning. The problem is I am into a girl, who is also into me, but she came out of an intense ... (116 words)