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Archived questions from: 14 March, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Would it be needy if I said this to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - please answer this, I need opinions before tomorrow as I plan to do it then :/ Okay, so this fella and me drift apart and then get close again, and we haven't Been properly close for a while. But he has said he misses me and I really miss him in my life. Would this sound ne... (115 words)

How do I control my jealousy and inecurities? Or has his behaviour caused me to be like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone.. i just need some advice. for the last year i have been seeing a lovely man. in this year he's went into great detail about his sex life with previous partners, telling me about how he made this and that happen for these girls and telling me their every flaw. it's ... (385 words)

I think my best friend went through my phone and sent out naked photos of my boyfriend to others! Should I confront her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Im 26 and am currently in a LDR with a lovely guy. He works away for 2 months at a time so we keep the relationship going by sending sexy photos to each other. Anyway, i saved the photos onto my phone and thought no more about it but then i just had a text off my best fri... (259 words)

Does anal sex hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I really want to try anal, believe me but I am terrified! Every time he sticks his finger in, I freak out and pull his hand out. I don't know what to do! He isn't pressuring me or anything and I really want to...just a bit scared of the first time :( Advice?... (53 words)

Not ready to take the risk and date again, is it so bad to say to men I want to meet up as friends? Or am I just being a chicken?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4634 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - They call it a "dry spell", when nothing happens for a very long time, it has been a long time, time that I spent healing past issues and throwing away bagagge, but now I notice that I am just terrified, and just can t do the traditional date: maybe you like them, maybe they ... (136 words)

Pregnant after just three months, how do I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have only been with my boyfriend for three months and a routeen hospital test that i had yesterday also revealed that im pregnant!! I want to keep the baby and i know that my boyfriend will stand by me but im just lost At how to tell him as its so soon! Can anyone help me on ... (63 words)

Married woman in love with married professor

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I am plenty old enough to know that this is no good for me...but I can't stop feeling the way I do. I met him a year and a half ago and I still feel this way. He wasnt married at the time that I met him but I fell in love with his sweet, tender personality, smooth English ... (406 words)

Does he love me or is he messing with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 8 months or so. (I'm 29, he's 35). We spend a few days and/or nights together each week, and we keep in touch every day via phone/texting. We have not said the "L" word yet, but we have done other things that couples do- like meet ... (311 words)

Arrested but the charges were dropped, but my boyfriend has vanished! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

14 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 2 months. We have a great relationship and never had a fight. We have said the love word and we are always together. Last Sunday, while together, I was picked up by the police. They arrested me for some kind of fraud, the charges ... (217 words)

We live 2 hours apart, should I break it off because of the distance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I have been talking to this guy I met on an online dating site, and I really like him. But I'm concerned about the distance between us. I mean its not that far really, but its far enough to make it difficult to see each other (about 2 hours ) also the only day in which we... (100 words)

How do I talk to this guy without making it seem like I'm flirting? I just want a friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4634 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - I'm thirteen. There is this guy who has a girl friend, he is also thirteen and I just want to be friends with him, as he is really nice guy, but I don't know how to get to know him better without it seeming like I'm flirting with him, because in that case he'll just stay ... (91 words)

Bf and I work together on the same floor and I'm going insane thinking that he might like his attractive PA more than he likes me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - don't know what's happening to me lately, I have got really jealous and insecure and it's really starting to get me down as I seem to be constantly upset over something, if its not one girl its another. I work in the same company as my boyfriend and we've recently moved o... (401 words)

Is she flirting or does she want something more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

14 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone I work in an open plan office with loads of people who work with different areas. There's this woman who is about 11 years older than me. She is cute. She always says hello and asks how I am as I do the same. Although when we have a full convasation she alwa... (220 words)

Why does my daughter love this man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

age - Why does my daughter love this man? My daughter is a beautiful 23 yr old talented woman ,voice that mimics the likes of Christina,Beyonce.Dating a man 35yrs old,who from the begining of their 9 month relationship has created nothing but drama and dishonesty.At first interaction ... (432 words)

Should I be worried that we don't speak so much when we're apart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 months now (i know its not long) and I'm starting to feel really insecure about it. This is because at the beginning he text me all the time and always looked out for me to make sure I was okay, now when we don't see each other I'm lucky ... (283 words)

How do I tell my best friend I love him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hi! so i had asked earlier if i should tell my best friend that i love him or not. and so i've finally decided to do so,but i am a bit confused as to how to tell him this.can you please help me and tell me that how should i put up the qs so that he is not uncomfortable with it ... (75 words)

My boyfriend looks at porn a lot. Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, quick question here. i've been cheeky and stalked my boyfriend's internet history. i'm happy that i found normal porn, but the amount he looks at is quite a lot. in the 24 hours that he didn't see me, he looked at it twice. he pretty much looks at it everyday when he'... (90 words)

We were so in love, it's a year later and I still can't stop thinking about him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do I still love him after all these time? is there something wrong with me? I miss my ex boyfriend so much. I loved him so much, I never stopped loving him. We were so in love. We did everything together. He introduced me to his family and friends and they all love... (237 words)

I'm in love with a prostitute, can I get her to love me back?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

14 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - since a short time i started two have every times more feelings for this girl she is a young prostitute and what yes i was with many prostitutes and i never believed that one day i will fall in love in one i woud probally before be againt a person falling in love with a ... (624 words)

I'm tired of being used

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am so confused??? I am in love with a guy that says he wants to be with me just not right now. This has been going on for two years. I give him money and we have a child together. He does not take care of her. He was also in a serious relationship that i had no idea about at ... (132 words)

Cheated, broke up, and cannot move on

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Exactly a year ago I posted this: I was in a wonderful relationship for over a year and we were really deep in love with one another. Then one day I went for coffee with a guy I used to love and we slept together. I told my boyfriend right after that happened. He decided ... (329 words)

He laughs it off whenever anyone mentions me, but when not many people are around he is more serious about me. What does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello there! There is a lad in my college that I really like, just yesterday I found out that him and everybody in my year knows about it. I also found out that people were joking about him texing me at break and he smiled and basically laughed it off. Apparently this situation ... (92 words)

Life's been rough to me but that's no excuse for what I do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm such a horrible person Don't know where to start, I just want to stop feeling guilty and be normal. Please help me be a nice, decent person. I steal money from my mum to buy cigarettes and go out partying and I stole money from my friend the other day. I lie a hell ... (160 words)

I gave my boyfriend 4 thousand dollars 2 years ago. How do I get it back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I gave my boyfriend $4000. At that time he needed that to pay his college fee and I had that money so I gave it to him but it has been 2 yrs now and still he never talks about that money. It was the money from my savings when I was working abroad and when I came back to home ... (190 words)

I don't get much interest from girls -- tips on getting in to a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4634 days ago

14 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - The aim of this question is to seek advice on how to get into a relationship once again. I am 21 years old and my only relationship and sexual experience was when I was 17 and lasted for about a year. Right now I am a first year university student and I feel like I get ... (220 words)

Are hospital A&E departments not supposed to give out the morning after pill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - so i was with a guy for nearly 3 years, and we always practiced safe sex, but one night we had no condoms and we just could not help ourselves, so we had unprotected sex. i went to the hospital A+E the next morning and got the morning after pill. now, i'm just curious as to ... (164 words)

Is vasectomy really reversible?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hey guys...i hope everyone is doing fine..i want to ask if a vasectomy can really be reversed? Like my bf had one and he doesnt have any kids..im just qurious if we will ever have our own one day if he says he is ready? I googled but im not sure...any help?... (52 words)

How do I get over my younger FWB?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have left my 19 year old FWB and now I miss him more then ever. I have gone in a depression mode. At first it was just all for sex and then i started having feelings for him. I want a relationship with him but he doesnt. I really dont think he likes me in that way and to top ... (100 words)

Not turned on by straight porn when I'm in a relationship and I only seem to be turned on by gay porn! Does anyone else experience this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

14 March 2012 (F) age 36-40 - Hi im a female and i was wondering is there any other women out there who aren't turned on by straight porn enough to masturbate over it? I like watching it to remind me of sex when I'm single and imagining me and my boyfriend. I used to get turned on by gay and lesbian but not ... (113 words)

Why is my ex acting this way?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of two and a half years broke up with me almost three months ago. Sometimes I miss him other times I don't really care. In either case I don't want to lose him and I do want him back. We had a great relationship up until the last little bit and it was because I ... (300 words)

Gay but heartbroken over a girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

14 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello there, I am a 23 years old gay male, well that's how i though myself to be since 10 y.o. (I am a straight looking gay though, so noone could ever guess without me telling it). But the problem is that from my 15 years I met this girl, who became a really close friend... (266 words)

How do I stop comparing this new guy to my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

- I had a very intense year long LDR with a guy in the army and I finished it at christmas time. I was totally head over heels for him but I couldnt trust him and he was always messing me about. Now someone else has walked into my life and Im thinking about dating him. Hes ... (262 words)

How can I show this girl that everything would work if she would bring our dating out into the open?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

14 March 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Until recently I was dating a girl in secret for 5 years. She didnt want anyone to know because there was a 12 year age gap, and she was convinced everyone would make her end it. She is 27 now. After 5 years I wanted it to be out in the open as we had gone as far as we cou... (200 words)

Men won't stop treating my sister badly!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm really worried about my sister. Shes been messed around by a couple of guys in the past and the guys that do have a relationship with her end up being not worth keeping on certain levels. The last two guys she really liked have been the worst, One guy spent months... (288 words)

I feel like I'm cheating on my b/f because I'm attracted to another guy

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend that I lost my virginity to for nearly 2 years. We've been rowing a lot lately but we always have rows. Lately I've been put into a paired group project with university and have been really getting along with this guy. Our personalities co... (154 words)

Is it weird for a 16 year old to go out with a 20 year old?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

14 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey im just wondering peoples opinions on this. Is it weird for a 20 year old to go out with a 16 year old?... (25 words)

He asked to be my FWB, I turned him down because I want a relationship, then he claims to have feelings for his ex wife but got upset when he saw me kiss another man! What is going on?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone this is the situation, I met a man a year ago today, he had split from him wife nearly two year before we met. we agreed to take things slow then he asked me if we could be fwbs to which I told him no I want a proper relationship with him. so we didn't speak for a ... (218 words)

Why did she have to go to some random guy at a party to make her feel special?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

14 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - ok people i need some help im going to try to keep this as simple as i can but no promises. soooooo me and my gf are dating for almost 2 yrs and we have had our good days and bad days just like everyone, this just so happens to be the bad days. she told me that im not as s... (533 words)

How can I tell my mother I'm not a virgin anymore?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm almost 17 and my mom doesn't know that I'm sexually active. I lost my virginity at a young age and I feel like I'm old enough to tell her that I'm not a virgin, however I'm scared because she had me when she was my age. How can I tell her and still keep her trust?... (58 words)

Dating a guy but found out my best friend liked him too and now we barely speak! Should I break up with him to save our friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been dating this guy for 3 months now. Only thin is I found out my best friend liked him as well. I found this out a month ago. When she heard we were dating she told me and said that it's gonna take a while to get used too. Since then, we barely talk and go out now. ... (88 words)

I think my boyfriend has depression, how do I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay here's the thing, my boyfriend seems depressed lately and I don't know what to do. Recently he's been really distant, not physically, just emotionally. We've been together 2 years now so I knew it was just a phase. However, it seems to be something more. He sent me a text ... (190 words)

My son's father walked out on us and my son has gone from being a sweet, innocent, clever child to an angry, resentful boy

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a serious problem thats ruining my life no end. Ive been a single mother(technically) for a couple of years now since my sons father decided todo a dissapearing act. I always managed to cover this up with a story about my sons father working for father christmas and th... (374 words)

He had sex with his ex....we were seperated but neither of us had filed for divorce, so did he cheat on me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I were separated for a year. After the first 6 months we started to talk and go out to dinner and such. We do have a daughter together and we were only married a little over a year when we separated. We worked on things and he had been back living at home for ... (306 words)

My boss is married. He rubs and pats me at work. What are your thoughts? He's older but attractive to me.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been working at a local restaurant in my town for almost two months now. It's the first real job I've ever had. I've been recently getting vibes from my boss. Last week, we had a moment. The area behind the counter is very narrow. My co-workers and I walk over each o... (244 words)

Mixed feelings about my friend after she gave me tainted drugs.....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I can't see objectively outside of my situation and need advice. I am in grad school and I was with someone I thought was my best friend. this is NOT my typical lifestyle, but I had a couple sips of a beer and I took a puff of pot, and immediately after that I realized ... (648 words)

Can 13 year-olds find a lasting relationship, or is this just puppy love?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok... know a lot of you will disagree with my view on this but oh well...I'm 13, and I have a boyfriend of 8 months, we really get along and we have almost everything in common, he told me he loved me and I told him I loved him too but then i felt weird because everyone always ... (127 words)

Gone from texting all day every day to him not replying to my messages, what is going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so my boyfriend and I text each other like all day everyday, and its been going on for months. Suddenly one day in mid conversation he stopped texting me and even though i kept texting him he wouldnt reply, and then at like 9pm he sent me this long text in french about how ... (117 words)

Pictures of my boyfriend with girls on his lap, trips to strip clubs and hanging out with wild girls.....I'm not happy about this, but he says I'm taking away his freedom!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, i am facing an issue and i cant figure exactly whats the underlying cause. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years.And right now we are doing longdistance due to college.I love him a lot and he loves me too;however we are having some problems... (303 words)

I told him I think he is cute, will he be happy about this? Or have I creeped him out like my friends said?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So, I'm in highschool and have just started to grow a rather flirtatious streak(I never used to be really flirty but now I am) I met this one dude who I always thought was really cute but I never got the chance to talk to him before. But I was wrong. My friend introduce... (343 words)

Opposites do not attract....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My screenname says it all! lol I have a big problem (pun intended). My fiance is very small and I am very big. I cannot feel him inside of me when we have intercourse and thereby I am sure that he cannot feel me. We are older (I'm 37 he is 41) and we have been together for ... (335 words)

I gave my crush a hickey. His Mom flipped. Now he will not see me. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

14 March 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - dear cupid i just called my crush, the one who i gave the hickey to, by mistake yesterday. It was an accident. We both got caught in the moment I bit his neck and when we were done i looked at his neck and saw bite marks and a giant hickey. I panicked and wanted to cover it ... (145 words)

Why was I everything to him one minute, and forgotten the next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend told me he was in love with me. After three weeks he sent roses to my house, met my family, made a big fuss over me. A month later told me he didn't think we were on the same page. we broke up, but still talked and saw each other until one night i saw him with his... (87 words)

I eat as a stress reliever, how do I stop?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - For over 10 years i thought i suffered from panic attacks. I had all the symtoms. I was stressed. I'd get hot and panicy. I'd have serious chest pain that would not leave me for hours. I couldn't always breath and calm myself down. I was told it was panic attacks and given ... (570 words)

I'm worried our conversations are starting to get repetitive!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not perfect, I know I'm a repetitive person. But not this bad. I just realized, me and my boyfriend essentially have the same conversation, with minor variations, every night! I love talking to him (online, cant call or anything), but I want to get this dealt with ... (147 words)

His actions are confusing me, am I a booty call, or something more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I'm 18, currently a new uni student. A couple of weeks ago (at uni orientation week), I met this guy on a bus (with another friend of mine) back from town, who also lived on campus. We all talked quite a bit on the trip back and decided to all go swimming, and then... (296 words)

I kissed a female friend jokingly, did I cheat?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

14 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hi guys, Just a quick one really. I kissed my female friend when out as a joke. Does this consitute as cheating? I've never thought about it before until the topic popped up on TV. I have zero interest in girls and have never been sexual with one. I have never felt guilt ab... (101 words)