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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I led her on and feel horrible now.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

7 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I Dated this girl for about 2 months and things weren't going too well for us mainly because she had had a rough past growing up and in past relationships. There always seemed to be something going on and she was massively depressed a lot of the time. She attempted suicid... (452 words)

I think part of a tampon was in me from cycles ago that just came out. Am I ok?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

7 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So today, the day after the last day of my period, i was peeing whn I felt something...come out. I only saw a glimpse of it, as it soon washed down into that hole at the bottom of the toilet, but it looked like a blood stained top part of a tampon. I have a memory of many ... (109 words)

Why does she need to find evidence? Why doesn't she believe me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

7 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Your Open Question: Why does my friend behaves this way? does she not trust me? I feel like my friend doesn't believe me or trusts me. She calls me her best friend but I don't think she believes me when I tell her something. I've never lied to her or anything like tha... (187 words)

My husband of 8 years seems more like a friend than anything else

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

7 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I love my husband but more often we seem like friends than anything else. No sentiments communicated on how much he loves me etc - does this just fade over the 8 years that its not necessary to tell it anymore? We seem to have grown apart and have very different interests and ... (160 words)

Should I take the risk and go to meet this man about a job? Parents told me not to go because it sounds dodgy

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

7 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - A man called me about a cleaning job last week, but i missed the call, and when i called back, he said he had given the job to another lady, but he said he would call me if it didn't work out with her. I got a phone call from him again today, saying that the other lady left, ... (489 words)

Why do I keep dreaming of a 65 year old man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

7 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - i keep having a dream about my great aunts husband and me getting together hes not my family through blood she is and hes 65 years old im only 29 what does this mean i have had this dream before like 6 time please help... (45 words)

My mom can be so cold hearted!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

7 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm pregnant and everytime I seem to ask for some help from my mom it seems like I'm asking her for a lung. We never had the best relationship she's there and she provides love and whatnot but besides that she can be really really coldhearted. For example I just told her ... (270 words)

I don't want to throw away my boyfriend for a fling!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4640 days ago

7 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So i have Been with my boyfriend for two years now it has taken alot of work to get him to act the way a bf should before he wouldnt care about lots of things i would always be put after his friends he wouldnt say i love u when i would say it to him he would just say ok he was ... (699 words)

My b/f of almost a year has not come to see me after a medical procedure. Should I be upset?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

7 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm really upset that my boyfriend of 11 months did not come to see me after I had an out-patient medical procedure. He lives 1-1/2 hours away and knew about this procedure well in advance. My parents came into town to take me the day of (yesterday) but left this morning. I ... (170 words)

Do guys prefer girls who are high maintenance??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

7 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hmm, so my boyfriend of 1.5 years was talking about his ex-girlfriend (who he dumped after 4 months) saying she was high-maintenance. I asked him if I am high-maintenance too, and he said I'm no maintenance! Is that a good thing or a bad thing?? Do guys prefer girls who are ... (244 words)

Jealousy and insecurity... how to deal with the sexual past of my girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2250 days ago

7 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been in a relationship with this girl for a little more than 4 months. Although we have some differences, the feelings we are growing for each other seem to be very strong. I'm aware that 4 months is not that much time but we spend a lot of time together and she has told ... (569 words)

Little sex, I'm working nights, found wife's sex toy. Is she cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

7 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have been together for 4 years but in the last 3 have only had sex maybe 6 times. Just resently I found a sex toy after she went away for a weekend for work. I know she has been using the lotion she got for us also when I was working nights. I really dont know if ... (69 words)

I don't think I'm interesting enough to be dating!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

7 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - One of the main issues I have with myself when it comes to the lack of bothering with dating and relationships is that I just don't find myself interesting. Outside my minimum-wage retail job, I am at home on the computer playing games, listening to music, browsing the web... (147 words)

What is stronger, love or hate?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

7 March 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I am wondering about a philosophical question, but one that has great impact on me personally. I am wondering, what is stronger, love or hate? I wonder about this because I have felt hate for a woman that has been very strong. She used me, acted callously, took money,... (188 words)

How long do guys wait in a relationship before they expect sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4575 days ago

7 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Do guys expect sex so soon in a relationship? All the boys talk about it, and everyone i know whose had a relationship have done IT relatively quickly. I've always been scared and holding myself back from relationships because i supposed you could say i'm frigid, im fairly ... (188 words)

Why do men go in their caves?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

7 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am hoping some other people understand what I am going through as it seems to be a common problem for me and also some of my friends... I had a tiff with my boyfriend on Mondaynight, over something ridiculous....he woke me up when I was asleep, and I said please can you b... (263 words)

How often should your LDR boyfriend ring you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

7 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - dear all i need your advice. I met a muslim guy online and we have been chatting for nearly 4 month. He is a greatguy but i just find him too controlling. He wants to know my every move. last night i was chatting to a friend on skype and he we was really upset that i was... (193 words)

The guy of my dreams won't even look at me anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4641 days ago

7 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy I've had feelings for for nearly 5 years now. So when he started showing interest in me a couple of months ago, I couldn't believe my luck. We kissed at a party and texted afterwards. Then he started to ignore me. People said he's shy with girls and that's why ... (166 words)

My boyfriend hit me last night, should I be missing him this much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

7 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to my bf hit me last night and here i am sitting here wish he was here with me i still love him but should i be missing him this much? i hate it he just moved in with me and i was in a abusive relationship with my daughters dad and i left him. now i am lost ... (89 words)

I can't see a light at the end of the tunnel!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

7 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am feeling extremely low as I lack support in my life, growing up I grew up in an unsupportive environment as a result I am very independent. Two years ago I ended a 12 year controlling relationship with the father of my child, I gave all I had in this relationship and ... (142 words)

B/f says he needs his space right now and we are on a break. Does it sound like we'll get back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4640 days ago

7 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf and I were dating for four months the last few weeks of our relationship we have been fighting. We saw eachother about three or four times a week we talked everyday on the phone texting mostly. One night he decided to go out by himself cuz that's what he used to do and he ... (512 words)

Why don't I feel sexually attracted anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

7 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - ive been in a relationship for 5 years now and im 25. he is perfect for me really hes good looking, good personality except when he drinks he can be really horrible to me swearing at me and sexually demanding things but hes always really sorry the next day. The thing is i... (244 words)

Dad threatened my b/f, we broke up and now are just friends. I don't want to be just friends!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

7 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - We have been dating but someone told my dad about it and my dad got irritated and threatened the guy to stay away from me. The guy also told me to respect the decision of my dad to prevent him from getting in trouble. Now the guy wants us to be just friends even if i am in his ... (115 words)

Is it reasonable to be annoyed that he'd prefer to communicate via FB than texts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

7 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Should i be mad at my boyfriend about this ?. We were supposed to meet up today. I sent him a text message , and ten minutes later, he seen me a message on facebook saying that we would have to write to each other on facebook, and not on our phones, and he said he is in a mess ... (220 words)

Suggestions for spicing things up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

7 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel my sex life is getting a little stale. We see each other always one morning a week, same morning, same routine. The sex is amazing but we're getting in a rut. Does anyone have any suggestions for spicing it up? We can't really do a different day or different time, ... (75 words)

Just a few questions about love and loss....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

7 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - hi all, Got a few questions to ask all.. 1) how to let go of hatred and sorrow to a person that you once loved deeply?(especially for a no life, no social activities,not much friends, no confidence, no self esteem, feel humiliated when facing cheating issues, bank lef... (118 words)

Is it normal to be confused over how I feel about him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

7 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi aunts and uncles! I recently met a guy at work and we exchanged contacts. We've been texting nonstop since. We just went on a date (is going out one to one with a guy considered a date?) but when we had our heart to heart talk he told me he was kinda upset that he was having ... (152 words)

I don't know if I can believe him after I heard he'd made a bet that he could make me fall in love with him in 6 months!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

7 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i became friends wih a guy on phone who was one of my friend's acquaintance. he told me that he's commited but i dont know how but i started liking him. he's flirty and often says i love you to me and i always took it as a friend. later he told me that he's having trouble in ... (183 words)

Is he testing the sexual boundaries?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

7 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I started seeing this guy about 3 weeks ago. I have seen him 3 times. I'm confused though as Ive had bad judgement when it comes to guys before. Im not sure if my gut is telling the truth or I am just relating back to previous heartache. The first time was a nice date- we just ... (122 words)

My wife has moved out and made a list of demands, what do I do? There's a child involved!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

7 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Dont know what to do. I married this girl 4 years back. I had kept myself virgin. I had a dream of being one woman man. So I got married to this girl four years back in traditional marriage. My family selected this girl and when I met her I told her everything. Like I smoke and ... (296 words)

I can't seem to stop contacting him, no matter how hard I try!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

7 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I feel so silly to be doing this at my age! I have split up with a guy who I had been seeing for 6 months - we split about a month ago. It was a mutual agreement in the end as I felt he wasn't putting much effort in. However, I can't seem to move on! I have never fel... (320 words)

My mum's boyfriend tried to kiss me and feel me up!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

7 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My mum's bf who she been with for years tried to kiss me and feel me up. He said it was q mistake and never meant it and said to forget about it. I dont know what to if I tell her it will break her heart and I dont want her to hate me but I dont know if I can forget about it or ... (67 words)

I kept pictures of my ex that still turn me on! Should I tell my husband?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

7 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I know what I did was wrong, but don't know what to do now. I have some pictures of an ex-boyfriend. Some of them are not very appropriate, like he's naked in some, and even a close-up of his 'thing'. My husband knows about the pictures, and asked me to throw out the 'bad' on... (237 words)

Is there a difference between a woman who is a 'tease' and a woman who is a 'challenge'?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

7 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - is there a difference between a woman who is a 'tease' and a woman who is a 'challenge'? i've been called both before and i worry about what this means and the image people have of me. i enjoy hanging out with guys but i've never been comfortable with/engaged in casual sex and ... (78 words)

Should I ask him out? Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

7 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - so i am in love with this guy who is also the best friend of my best guy friend. i told my friend about it and i suppose he told this guy about me having a crush on him. later when one of my other friends also told him about me he talked to me and said that if this had been two ... (146 words)

Is she the one for me? But she has a boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

7 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello. hmmm well where do i start, ok well i've known this girl for about 10yrs off and on, when i first met her she had just hooked up with a girl i knows' older brother. We all lived in a flat together. I started noticing that she had a crush on me and i capitalized on i... (589 words)

I have a phobia about porn actresses looking better than me! Is this normal?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

7 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, to the females, why don't you like you're boyfriends/husbands using porn? My reasons: because I hate the idea of them getting turned on by someone else who I think is way better looking than me it actually scares me the thought of it? it's like I have a phobia of... (76 words)

We are only FWB because I don't feel good enough for him, but how do I cope with the knowledge that he is dating other girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

7 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing an amazing guy for almost two years, he has asked me to be his girlfriend but I said no because he was leaving for college and I feel as though I'm not good enough for him. so we've just been a thing, or friends with benefits kind of.. so he's in college,... (288 words)

How can I go on with a relationship with my sister after knowing she is married to a child offender?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

7 March 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Dear cupid, I just had a feeling that I should do a search for some reason. I didn't know this about my brother-in-law but I just thought I would do a search for his name and he comes up as a registered child offender. Now my sister and I led a VERY sheltered life and she ... (220 words)

Why do I have a sour smell and discharge from my vagina ever since I started taking birth control pills?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

7 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I am a female 18 years old. I started taking birth control about 4 months ago and I think at about this time me and my bf noticed my private having a sour smell . I never use to notice it until we had sex but now I notice it without even having sex. He usually says something ... (166 words)

What does this say if I'm getting no pleasure at all? He'd rather kiss the cat than me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

7 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, i don't know to say this but I never have my pleasure and he used to give me everything i want and then when he got me, he stops trying. Now he doesn't even want to do what i want to do. Like sex, making out, kissing (he kisses the cats instead),no more cuddling :( ... (99 words)

How common are half-Mexican half-Chinese people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

7 March 2012 (?) age 30-35 - Hey so this doesn't have anything to do with relationships but how common are half-chinese half-mexican people? My mother is full Chinese and my father is full Mexican. I've never meet another half-Chinese half-Mexican person. So, I was wondering how common they were.... (46 words)

I like him, and I think he likes me too, so what do I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4642 days ago

7 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - He's very cute and in my English lit class at university. We went on a drama society trip for a musical and although we were in a group we pretty much ignored everyone through the entire trip and kept to ourselves and talked. He keeps imitating my body language, if we ... (243 words)

We have a son together, but she hides me from everyone! She wouldn't even let me sign the birth certificate!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

7 March 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi people, I'm not from on English speaking country so I hope this is still readable. For the last 8 years I have been in a relationship with a woman who hides me from her friends and family. I do see her brother or sister sometimes but I wonder if even they know there is ... (1034 words)

I want my parents and boyfriend to get along, how do I show my parents he has changed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

7 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupids, I have recently went out on a limb with my parents and my bf. My bf used to have trust issues and until I talked to him about it things weren't going good. I usually ended up in tears. But after confronting him his trust issues were gone ( im not talking for two ... (91 words)