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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Keeping secrets about my family is getting in the way of my relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4637 days ago

10 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm 18 years old. I guess I should start by saying that I have a really troubled relationship with my parents. My dad is an alcoholic, although he is sober now. My mother is just crazy. For most of my life, my mom has been extremely physically abusive towards me (my dad ... (365 words)

How can I be more accepting of other people's pasts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

10 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey all, Whenever I meet a new girl, we get to be friends and then i find out that she has slept with many people before me. I know that it shouldn't bother me, but it does. I feel like I get turned off? It's like I have this view that those who do not give into their sexual u... (127 words)

My FWB and I can't stay away from each other!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

10 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone sorry if this is long I have been in a fwb for a year now I told him how much I like him he says he likes me to but then we always end up having a disagreement over something mainly lack of not seeing one another he says he is going to delete my number we don't talk ... (182 words)

My parents don't approve of my boyfriend and I hate sneaking around but I have no other option. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

10 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 years old. I figured by now my parents wouldn't be able to control my love life but i guess it didn't work out that way. I met a guy, he's 20 and we've been talking for 4 months now. I enjoy being around him and everything about him is just perfect. It feels right and ... (176 words)

How to live with the pain of a breakup?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4636 days ago

10 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my bf for nine months and I really love him and I know he loves me too, maybe even more, but we have a serious communication problem. Basically, it's a screaming contest and he is the one that begins and sometimes he insults my thoughts and ideas. I have seen ... (254 words)

I'm afraid my urges may ruin everything!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

10 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - In my country, relationships are really hard to be understood by foreign people. And that is because of our religion, culture and education. it's just full of weirdness lol. I won't tell you about how it became so complicated but just try to understand my problem here. I've b... (252 words)

B/f inexperienced and winds up hurting me while trying to make me feel good

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

10 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been going out with my boyfriend for almost a year now and we both virgins and want to stay like that till we both feel ready for sex. The problem is when we do make out he likes to rub my clit but he rubs with alot of force which leaves me feeling sore rather than ... (89 words)

FWB has frozen me out. Is his ego that fragile?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

10 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, hope I can put this down in some sense making way, might be quite long so thank you in advance to anyone who can be bothered reading it all.. I've been seeing this guy from my home town for last few months. It was never going to be serious as I live in a city a few hours... (1229 words)

Girlfriend says she needs to study and can't see me but can make time for friends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

10 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, My girlfriend has been super busy with her thesis and work and has kept denying me to see her. I keep getting frustrated cause she always takes time to hang out with her friends instead of me. Now i am in the process of med school interviews where i need alot of s... (105 words)

Ex is trying to get into my good graces again. How to I stop this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 March 2012 (F)

age - Hello everyone me and my ex boyfriend who I dated 9 months lived with 8 broke up last August remained friends not a good idea he came on weekends well he is separated and has 6 kids me I have an 18 year old daughter well to make the story short on yesterday I decided to end our ... (310 words)

All my flat mate's time is taken up with her boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4636 days ago

10 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 19, in my first year of university, I moved into dorms in september 2011, and straight away i clicked with my flatmate, we became incredibly close over these months as we see each other everyday etc, recently she got a boyfriend at uni and it's like i dont exist anymore. ... (495 words)

B/f is emotionally abusive to me when drunk then later apologizes. Is it time to go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my bf for 8 years. We have a mortgage together. For many years he has been abusive to me while he is drunk. He calls me names and picks on me about personal things that I have confided in him over time. I recently had a spell of anxiety attacks and didn't want ... (161 words)

How can I get closure when she won't give it to me?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

10 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi All, Long story short, a woman I was dating for about 8 months and whom I supported financially and emotionally turned out to be using me and was seeing and sleeping with another man (who was separated but not divorced from his wife). I was crushed when I learned this (th... (330 words)

Does he just want sex from me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

10 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So me and this guy have gotten to the point to where we practically text 24/7. We talk, yet not really about anything, just about how our day was and what each of us is doin' and small stuff like that. Well, a couple of weeks ago, I began sexting him. It's one of my favorite ... (370 words)

Am I pregnant or is it my diet?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help. I'm turning 21 soon and yes I am sexually active. We use condoms and I just had my period a week or two ago. Now, I don't think I'm pregnant but I'm reading articles about morning bloating and they all say it's an early sign of pregnancy and I'm really scared now. ... (124 words)

My mates say his girlfriend is an imaginary friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4637 days ago

10 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Basically I used to like this guy and I told him I liked him but he never said he liked me and he never said he didnt like me instead he said how can you like me?so it was like he was in denial then a month later he asked me again and I said yh I still like you but if u ever ... (298 words)

Can a minor bicycle riding accident cause the hymen to tear?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Can a minor bike riding accident cause the hymen to tear? I had a bicycle riding accident when I was younger. I was still learning how to ride it and hadn't gotten used to breaking and getting down smoothly. I hit myself down there on the cycle bars as I got down pretty hard. ... (113 words)

I feel so undeserving of him! He's a 10 and I'm a 3. What do I do about it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - At 21, after 1 serious relationship, I think I have a little idea on what kind of man I would want to date. I know of this guy who's extremely funny and easy-going that everybody enjoys being around him. There are so much more about him that are attractive to me. The only ... (142 words)

Crush revealed he had a g/f on our date and now he's ignoring me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all I'm feeling pretty upset over this guy I have a crush on. We recently went on a date and everything went well (at least I think so) Before that we've been texting non-stop. I did not expect that because I only knew him for a day. But he was really sweet to me on my first ... (228 words)

How can I overcome this lack of self esteem before I go to college so it doesn't hold me back??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I will be starting college in September and I'm getting more and more worried about this event. I used to be quite a confident person, and I still am with the people I'm comfortable with and know quite well. I'm actually quite a bubbly characte... (199 words)

Why does my boyfriend ejaculate all over my stomach?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2823 days ago

10 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I wonder if any of you could help me. My boyfriend who is one year older than me always withdraws from me during sex and ejaculates and squirts it out all over my stomach. I am just wondering if anybody has experienced this before? Is this an ownership thing or like a dog, is ... (118 words)

Does he want to be my FWB again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

10 March 2012 (?) age 36-40 - A guy friend text me last night but I didn't reply because we're both in relationships now and even though we're just friends we used to be sort of FWB and the last time we met up he kissed me. He text me at 10:30pm asking if I wanted to go for a drink, then again at 11:pm. I ... (237 words)

Been together for 3 years and boyfriend STILL isn't divorced!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I started dating this man three years ago, he is the best man I have ever been with. He makes me feel beautiful, loved, and important. The only problem is, he's married, well, really he's seperated. He's been trying to divorce his wife since a couple months before we got ... (271 words)

I get hit on but I'm not attracted to anyone and its starting worry me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4634 days ago

10 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. Some insight will be appreciated. I am 32 years old and single. I used to enjoy being single but not anymore (mainly because it is lasting so long) but I am also not desparate for a relationship. Here is the problem. I get a lot of attention from men. I always have ... (434 words)

I want to marry her but worry she may be attracted to other men afterwards

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4637 days ago

10 March 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - How can I trust a woman i love? What should I do? Her DOB is 13Oct 1987. In 2006, she fell in love with someone who didn't love her back, just gave her a company, spent time with her. A one-sided love. It continued for nearly six months. The man suddenly got married (settle ... (303 words)

How do I know when it's OK to kiss her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing a girl,we have known each other 5 weeks now, seen each other 5 times, initial date, then played snooker and had dinner,then she came to play some xbox360, then i made her lunch, then last night we went to a movie. Thing is I like her, but I am not the best ... (242 words)

Four days of no contact -- and we're supposed to marry next month?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hey...i have written messages to my bf's ex and his good friend to whom he says was just an friend but they used to say love you and blah blah... and i wrote message to his ex being himself from his account that now i love my girl more and don't try to contact me back... Than ... (187 words)

Online girlfriend upset me when she said she had sex with her boyfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

10 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I was online dating with some beautiful woman on some social network, we had wonderfull time chatting to each other, I told her that I like what I'm doing with her, and she is really pretty, in the long run I became attached to her, we talked about everything including our ... (236 words)

Why does he get jealous upset with me when he says he's in love with another woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 March 2012 (F)

age - Question for you aunt's,How can a man keep telling a woman he misses her so much all the time,get's upset and thinks you have another man in your life,thinks you keep secrets from him, thinks you don't care about him, wants to always see you,calls and texts you everyday,yet be ... (70 words)

Porn and erectile dysfunction?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

10 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question about porn and ed. I have come to discover stories of men who have trouble getting erect over a real woman when they have used porn alot. Is that because those porn women are hotter? Would they still have that problem if a woman did look like them?... (52 words)

He says he loves me but can't talk/text to me for 15 days? Is he ending things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 March 2012 (F)

age - This man says he loves me. This man called and said he is going to a two week study and must learn. No talk and no text for 15 days. I'm wondering if he is trying to end the relationship. He tells me he will marry me in the next few years. He also tells me I am the only one and ... (65 words)

I'm upset that g/f lied to me about knowing an old lover

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

10 March 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been with more girlfriend for over a decade. Recently, a (female) friend of hers found her on Facebook. They lost touch because (I am told) they had a falling out over a guy. Her friend is living in France and married a Frenchman. We live in the US. ... (387 words)

Is he using me for fun because he can?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - hey well me and my bestfriend started to have phone sex a week ago but he kinda has a gf there on and off all the time.. and well i told him i liked him ages ago but i dont know if he is using me for some fun cause he knows he can? and he says alot of stuff like he always ... (82 words)

Online girl told me my intensity was too much and I needed to "dial it back" since we had never met. Why did she have to be mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Recently, I got an American girl interested in me on dating site. She is 31 and half ,I'm 32. She added me on msn messenger and we also talked over the phone once. I expressed my feelings for her and she didn't say loves me but told me that she had sexual feelings for me and ... (285 words)

Shall I go with my gut? Is it time to break up with him? Things have fizzled out...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

10 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi....so I need some relationship help. :/ as you can see, I'm not very old and our relationship isn't sexual. I was interested in this guy for about half a year before he asked me out. And when he did I was over the moon! We have been going out for a year now, which is long ... (460 words)

Does extra strength color remover turn your hair orange?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hiya everyone this is not a relationship question I recently dyed my blonde hair dark brown with a tint of red to it now I would like to go back blonde as I don't think I suit my hair dark even though it is my natural colour I was just wondering if anyone in the uk has used ... (84 words)

I'm too shy to give my b/f oral sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - im so self conscious about giving my guy head because i worry he doesnt enjoy it, i'm quite a shy person and am too embarrassed to ask him about it! what can i do?... (34 words)

He's A Gamer! ..Which means I come second

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is a gamer. we live together. I love him, but he spends so much time on his ps3, i find myself becoming resentful. I don't mean 1-3 hours per day, i'm fine with that! I'm talking 6-10.. whenever he's not sleeping or working, he's gaming. I've given him ultim... (176 words)

My mother told me if my b/f doesn't convert to our religion there's no point to be with him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

10 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello... Ive been dating my boyfriend for a year and almost 4 months now. We both love each other so much.. Theres one problem though.. Im a Muslim and hes Catholic. My family is religious and his is not. He met my mother today for the first time, FINALLY. She likes him but ... (141 words)

My daughter's boyfriend has been asked to take another girl to prom by his brother!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

10 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My daughter is 15 and has been in a relationship for 10 weeks. Her boyfriend is 15 also. The problem is this....the boyfriends brother cannot go to prom with his own girlfriend, therefore has asked his brother, the 15 yr old, to take his girlfriend to prom. My daughter is ... (178 words)

Am I right in staying away or should I seek him out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi people, I need your help here. I am a 29yr old bi who is male. Guess I lean more towards male attraction than female. there's this guy I have been dating (or so I thought). We have had passionate hugs, he has sent me romantic texts and kisses me on line or by text. He always ... (435 words)

14, pregnant and don't know what to do

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

10 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - hello to cut to the case i am 14 and i think i am pregnant. my boyfriend is 15 but doest really know how to react. my mom and my step dad are going to flip out. i dont know what to do. so my question is, if i am pregnant at this age what rights do i have to my child? what ... (98 words)

I want to get a credit card ...

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

10 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i would like to get a credit card but i dont want my husband to know, hes a bit controling.... even though we share a bank account or at least i think we do..... would he be alerted if i got one or used it?... (45 words)

How can I trust my husband that he isn't lying about pornography?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

10 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a couple questions... My husband has been addicted to porn for many years, even before we met, and he has lied to me about it. I have caught him several times both in the act and in a lie. He has lied to me so many times about it and I have calmly explained to him how ... (158 words)

I am hungry for her love and care.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Its regarding my girlfriend and me. we are having long distance relation since a year. she used to be so caring and loving. we used to call each other,chat three to four hours daily,share voice recordings and photos via email.. but nowadays,its not happening like that. it used ... (560 words)

I want to ask out my crush that I've been working with

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there! I'm asking my crush out for a date (she's 18) and could really use some help... I'm 19 but I haven't had much experience with dating. I was a loner in highschool and I had really poor social skills, but over the past year I've made a lot of progress and I'm actually ... (257 words)

Why was my old friend so rude?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Yesterday I bumbed in to my ex colleague she also a female.I haven't seen her in three to four years.wen we aparted is because I had found another job as I was on a learnership and sher was permanent.we hang out together as we were on same age group coz most of other colleagues ... (234 words)

My body screams for sex but he just pushes me away

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm sexually active for 2 years now and my current boyfriend is the only one i've been with. We only have intercourse 4 times in total and I literally beg him for intimacy. I really love him and understand that he respects me and doesn't want to go further until marriage. H... (338 words)

My husband made me blow off an old friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have been in a fight with my husband for the last few days, over me talking to a guy friend on the phone. Please keep in mind that this story is going to be onesided, my side, and that (1) I have never physically met the guy (he lives east caost me on the west) and (2) my ... (281 words)

At 21, all of the good looking women are taken and all that's left are "leftovers"

This question has 40 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

10 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Ive gotten to a point where no women is good enough for me to date. At 21 all of the good looking women are taken and all that's left are "leftovers". I feel I owe it to myself to find the best the world has to offer and I haven't seen it in anyone. All I see is used up girls ... (115 words)

Very deep into a relationship but it's very hard to keep it going and even harder to end it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - We've been together 9 months. She's been living in my house most of the time, where I pretty much pay for everything. She has spoken several times about marriage and expects to be engaged sometime in the next year. I love her, and i like the thought of this but there are many... (465 words)

Why does my friend let her bf harass me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 March 2012 (?) age 26-29 - I have no idea why but ever since I have enrolled in my new school my so-called friend's boyfriend has been extremely rude to me and she lets it happen. He's always trying to get my attention, he takes my books from me, draws ugly pictures of me(he did this once), compares... (171 words)

If my husband doesn't want to have sex with me as much- does that mean he is not attracted to me??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

10 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - If my husband doesn't want to have sex with me as much- does that mean he is not attracted to me??... (21 words)

Is she jealous that I'm a mom and shes not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - To begin I have this friend who when I first met was really nice! And really just cool-- I've known her about 2 years. When we first met I was engaged and she was single. Anyways last January I found out I was pregnant, we were so excited! Because when we were trying at one ... (442 words)

How can I effectively communicate my insecurities to my boyfriend and should I bring up my traumatic past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

10 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So as a back story before I begin this, I suffered a lot of emotional abuse as a child. I noticed as I grew up that I was essentially looking for my step dad in my boyfriends, so two years ago I decided to take a break from relationships to work on myself. Last summer after I ... (426 words)

Art for art's sake!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Is it odd that my husband of 11 yrs...all of a sudden wants to get a "portrait of a naked woman" to go in our home..?? I think its insulting and like a "single "man thing. ... (39 words)