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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm his FWB is there a chance he'll leave his girlfriend for me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

26 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - okay, i don't need to be judged, but 3 months ago i sent a fb request to this guy i had seen round, (drummer in a band.) well he accepted (despite the fact he only had 100 friends on his fb account, so he obviously doesn't just add randoms. anyway i sent him a msg ( about a ... (216 words)

What constitutes a one night stand?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

26 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - If a guy goes back to a girls house but they don't sleep together. But do some sort of foreplay, say like he fingers/feels her up and then he leaves in the morning both knowing they won't be seeing each other again, to be a one night stand? Because my friends said that if the... (103 words)

I'm ready to throw in the towel girlfriend never shows me any affection

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

26 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with my girlfriend now for 7 months.She says she really enjoys been with me and is really happy.I love her so much i tell her often how i feel that i think she i beautiful and she means the world to me.But im starting to lose interest in her,as she never shows me ... (295 words)

Who should make the first kiss: me or him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4642 days ago

26 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, There's this guy I have been friends with for almost a year and we talk about everything. He comes over to hang out and sometimes orders takeout for us to eat well into the night. He is definitely a confidant and I've grown to like him more than friends. I would... (248 words)

Should I tell my fiance I had sex with someone while we were broken up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4653 days ago

26 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Recently I found out my fiancé had been having an interstate affair and was broken hearted. I broke up with her multiple times in a week but each time I was drawn back. Eventually I left for a few days and in that time I had sex with another woman. Now I am back with my fiance ... (182 words)

I'm in love with my best friends little sister

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

26 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So I am in a sticky situation ... Here's the story . I love my best rinds little sister she is 17 she is incredible mature for her age she graduated high-school when she was 15 and studied in Spain for a year. She is smart , funny and charming young women. She is now in ... (333 words)

Are there really signs that you are meant to be with someone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

26 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - are the really signs that you are meant to be with someone? Reading dating and relationship sites, one might think that the biggest relationship problem today is: there is not enough love between couples and as a result it’s just impossible to be in a loving relationship... (779 words)

B/f asked for a break when I told him he acts childish

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

26 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend asked for a break when I told him that sometimes I feel like he's acting childish and that I feel even older than him. He is 27 and I'm 19. When I told him that, he said all the comfortableness around me is gone; as if he can't be himself, his real self around ... (145 words)

My LDR is filling me with jealousy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

26 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hi im a gay female new to the site and question is about long distance relationships; we been seeing eachother once a month for 6 months, been on holiday together and both say 'i love you' however i feel too lonely and pushed aside as her life is so much busier than min... (116 words)

I want my b/f to stop staring at my sister in law!

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26 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a sister in law who is prtty and ive notice that everytime my bf and i come around her hes eye always seem to wounder towrd her hes always staring at her it realy bothers me i want it to stop so i wanted to ask how i could confront my bf abt this without maken hem think ... (97 words)

Why is my ex from 10 years ago sending me porn links?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

26 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hmmm, I need some help to understand why my ex bf has started sending me emails with links to porn videos?? We were together when we were 17-20, like nearly 10 years ago! I split up with him because I felt we'd grown apart. Haven't seen each other since we split, and I know ... (245 words)

Why aren't men more loyal "til death do us part"?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

26 March 2012 (F)

- I know that Shakespeare writes that man always has "one foot on shore and one on sea," although he says it more poetically, and he continues that women must say, "Hey nonny, nonny!" and try to accept man's nature. However, not to disagree with the Bard, but truly, what GIVES ... (292 words)

Do I tell my brother in law that his wife wasn't a virgin when they married?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

26 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I just found out something and I'm not sure if I should keep to myself. My wife is the youngest of 3 daughters. Her next oldest sister just filed for divorce and is already dating and sleeping with men even though her divorce isn't final. My wife and I were talking and I me... (334 words)

Religious views are tearing us apart. Must it end this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

26 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I have a problem in my relationship. my girlfriend and i are in different religious. she is muslim and i m atheism with a catholic background. We have been couple for over 3 years. We both love each other for so much but we never rely discuss much about our ... (238 words)

What do I do to go about this the right way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4653 days ago

26 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So it's been about a month since I've been on here. My previous dilemma was whether I should start seeing/dating a man who is twice my age, going through a divorce, and who is a regular customer at a restaurant I worked at.. I did accept his invitations to dinner and we have ... (375 words)

He doesn't want to move in with me for another 2 years!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

26 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Feel free to be as honest as possible. I have been with my bf for 3.5yrs now, and he decided at the 2.5yr stage he wasn't ready to live with me. So I accepted that. I wasn't quite ready either, but was looking forward to the prospect. We had a convo the other day where he said ... (162 words)

Not confident when having sex! Has anyone else experienced this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

26 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 19 and a bit confused.I have been with my boyfriend now for quite a while.I recently stayed at his house for the first time over a few days and we felt ready to take things a bit further then before.It was actually very sweet we were mucking around dancing and being ... (413 words)

Met an aspiring actress, got on so well with her but found out she plans to sleep her way to the top!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

26 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Right so last week met this girl a stunner at a local pub. we got on right away and i started seeing her. everything was going just fine until we started off talking about careers and she revealed that her plan is to sleep her way into roles! I was taken aback because i never ... (280 words)

Met on a sugar daddy website but it hasn't turned out to be that kind of arrangement, do you think anything serious can come of this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

26 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - To Whom it may concern: About two months ago I met someone online on a sugar daddy website. It was the first time either of us has ever met up with anyone from the website. Lets call him Jack. Jack is 39 and very wealthy. His work causes him to travel a lot. He broke off his... (359 words)

How do I ask her out?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

26 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all! There is a girl that lives near me, she’s a hairdresser and my dad is friends with her dad. As she’s local and I know her dad and brother abit, I added her on Facebook. The thing is, I’ve fancied her for a while but don’t know her enough top ask her out. Its strange, ... (127 words)

How much time does a man need to commit?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

26 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - "Please babe just give me some time" I don't even know where to begin. I met his guy a year and a half ago and we hit it off right away even though its long distance. All my friends and families and his know that we are serious about each other and plan on marrying one day. L... (486 words)

I told her how I felt and she has not spoke to me since! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

26 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - actually i don't know what to say or ask, i really need some help or advices maybe because this thing just make me really stressed. and here's my situation. i met this girl a year ago from facebook, I met her family year earlier from facebook because i have... let say good fri... (355 words)

We have a casual relationship but I get the feeling he might like me....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4653 days ago

26 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i met this guy last october, and we have never really talked much or anything, i actually met him after seeing my boyfriend at the time cheat on me so we didn't met under the best circumstances anyway last christmas, i went into town and he was there, we ended up going b... (437 words)

How do I get my boyfriend to start showing other people we are together so they know not to mess with our relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

26 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello guys I need a mature advice of dealing with this situation. I am in a LDR. There seem to be a trust issue that I have gotten over after I did all my homework and realize that my man is not physically cheating. Hey I have friends too in my area that I talk to or like to be ... (815 words)

How do I show my boyfriend how much I appreciate him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4653 days ago

26 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - hey again,i'm with my boyfrind almost a month now,he's funny and i like him so much,he gave me my first kiss,he'd had a lot of girlfriends before ,but i want to be the special girl in his life, he said he loves me, specially when he kissed me,and hugs me so tight, i didn't like ... (117 words)

How do I get through this with my head held high? And what about the guy, did he actually like me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

26 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - So this is the situation... I met a really lovely cancerian guy aged 27 through a really good friend, whilst out for drinks. We ended up going out almost every week after that as a threesome for dinner and drinks, for about a month. So one day during dinner he asks me to de... (493 words)

I love him to bits but he is hurting me all the time! Should I stay or should I go?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

26 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 years, but lately we are having a lot of arguments. He has started to become friends with these other guys, at first I kept telling him to go out with them because I didn't want him to feel left out, it meant that we could... (1718 words)

I messed up and my girlfriend broke up with me, how can I turn this around? I need her back!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

26 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I lost someone dear to me. My girlfriend. I messed up and she saw where I had flirted with other girls on facebook. I lied and said it wasn't me. The truth came out. We broke up, and exchanged violent words. Man have I messed up! I want her, so bad that I would travel to the ... (185 words)

He has a new girlfriend only 3 weeks after we broke up, will he really be ok when I meet someone else? I cant believe this after he used to say I was the love of his life!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

26 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and my baby's daddy has a new girlfriend, he keeps telling me that it will not bother him when i meet someone else, is this true? we were together four years have two children together. he says i was the love of his life his world but only took him three weeks to move on! ... (59 words)

She says I suck in bed because my penis is too small and I'm not very good at having sex with her! What can I do to give her the best sex she's ever had?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

26 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I have a really big issue with my girl Basically she says I suck in bed that there is only one position that she likes that gives her pleasure but not nearly enough to satisfy her. She thinks it's because my penis is too small and since I lost my virginity to her I have ... (294 words)

Stressed and unhappy all the time, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

26 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i cant put a finger on what my issue could be and i dont know how i can talk to someone about it, my problem is i cry a lot and get lonely. I am afraid of staying alone because i will think a lot sometimes i cant let go of things people did to hurt me and i end up holding ... (207 words)

I'm worried that I'll let my past ruin me trying to date this guy

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26 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like a guy I met on holiday last year. we met up over christmas as in my friends and his friends and we basically slept together and were quite flirty the next day. We haven't really kept in contact since then however recently we have spoke again via social networking ... (235 words)

How can I help my friend? She's not treated right at home or by her boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

26 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My friend is lately having a lot of troubles in her life, and I feel like she might not be able to handle them on her own. Her parents verbally and physically abuse her. Her mom calls her fat (which she's not), and a whore, and has said that she will never amount to anythi... (343 words)

Why do I still feel everything is ok with us even though he cheated and we broke up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

26 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend of 17 months broke up last thursday we have a 8 month old together. we always had problems in our relationship fighting,drama ect. we have broke up 10 but each time we always find our selves back together. like as if something more was holding us together. we had ... (250 words)

I think we're 3 or 4th cousins, should we just date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

26 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Okay, I've met a female that I find to be heaven sent and she has made it evident that she feels the same way about me. The problem is that we both have recently discovered that we have some kin in common. Apparently her Grandfather is my Great-Grandmothers' brother. I'm not ... (105 words)

Help a normally smooth guy with his awkward/unexpected approach to kissing girls

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

26 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So I'm the kind of guy who can walk up to the hottest girl at the party, talk her up no problem and get somewhere, but when it comes to girls I actually like, I over think, and become silly and a bit awkward at times. I just went on a walk with a girl I like, and I've been th... (236 words)

My feelings are gone but my boyfriend still wants to have a relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4654 days ago

26 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am dating a guy, who supported through bad times when my ex boyfriend was threatening me and beating me, he helped me to get over the problems I was having and eventually after some months we came together. Now its been already 20 months we've been together. He is always busy ... (451 words)

We're struggling to just remain friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

26 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - i fell in love with my best friend and she has feelings for me to but shes engaged and has a 2 year old.shes 21 years old and i'm 35.we hang out all day every day and we talk about everything.she told me she had feelings but the next day she said she wanted to try to make it ... (165 words)

Can my ex get partial custody of my son? I don't want him around my child

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

26 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Im not with my babys dad and hes not on the birth certificate. I actually dont know if its my ex boyfriend of 3 years or the guy I lost my virginity to but we are getting DNA tests done. I swore it was my boyfriends of 3 years. But now hes starting to look like the guy who took ... (492 words)

He wants me to put me on ice while he plays the field! Should I hang around or walk away?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

26 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - There is this guy I really like and we are good friends. I like him more than a friend. He got out of a long term relationship last summer. His girlfriend left him for another guy. He has been dating but isn't involved seriously with anyone. He is having fun and having sex with ... (521 words)

Men..what do you want? Women..what turns your guy on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

26 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - okay guys. i need to know what really turns u on. i want to get my bf really hard n to want me. okay we are pretty adventuris in the bedroom. we have done everything i can think of including anal and threesome. we've done lap dance, strip tease; now i don't know what else is ... (80 words)

My ex is like my security blanket. Should I move on or try again with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4654 days ago

26 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am devastated because I can't make the final decision to let go and move forward from my ex. We were together for 5 years and I broke up with him last year. We didn't cut ties and still kept talking and seeing each other. However there was no sex. I love him but he has b... (235 words)

Why does only older women tell me I'm attractive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

26 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 18 years old male with an appearance of a 15/16 year old (besides my beard). Some people even get surprised when I tell my age, thinking I was younger and then telling me I have a kiddy face. Personally, I don't find myself ugly face-wise. Just that. I'm around 1,75m ... (445 words)

I trust my boyfriend with my heart, but I can't trust his "friend" whatsoever. Should I be worried that something will happen between them?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

26 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Here's my situation: I've been officially dating this guy for a little less than a month, though we've been together for about a month and a half... When we first met we instantly clicked! I couldn't take my eyes off of him, and from what everyone was telling me he might ha... (471 words)

Is she going to regret that she ended things with me and moved on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

26 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I guesse a brief introduction will help you understand how commited I was to this girl... I had many opportunities with girls before and even during my relationship. I turned them all down straight away, as I felt that i wanted someone special to fall in love with and experie... (950 words)

I want a healthy sex life but my b/f can't stay hard!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

26 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok me and my bf have been together 4 5 months now and we have a wonderful relationship and we get along great but when it comes to sex there is a problem. We are both 21, in college and still live with our parents so we don't have as much privacy and most of the time we just ... (243 words)

Having a baby and balancing that with establishing a career?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

26 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm feeling really conflicted about whether to have a baby now or to wait. I'm going to be 26 this year, and my husband will be 27. I went back to school for nursing and will be done in about 4 months. One part of me wants to wait and get settled with work, but I feel as though ... (241 words)

Do you strive to end relationships on a good note?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

26 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, friends! I just have a simple question of opinion. Do you think it's better to end a relationship neatly, on a decent note? Or are you okay if the end of your relationship with someone was messy? I'll be moving from the city I'm currently living in, and the ent... (179 words)

Why was she so friendly that night and the next day so withdrawn?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

26 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Thanks for taking the time to read and respond to my post... I recently started talking to a girl through facebook, she's 17 and I'm 20 it's always been innocent conversation as she's a good laugh and what not. On Friday night, she ended up out at the same pub that I wa... (275 words)

I want to kiss passionately but nothing else. Is that wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

26 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am very religious and my boyfriend of 2 years is not. About two months ago he stopped kissing me passionately because he says he finds it easier to control himself because he gets carried away when the making out it gets hot and he really doesn't want me to be uncomfortable. ... (84 words)

I checked on my boyfriend's facebook messages and found things I didn't like

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

26 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend were together for 9 months and i was a few weeks pregnant when we split up due to pressure with my family hating him and stuff. (theres a long story there that I don't wanna go into but my parents are very controlling and have never really liked any of my ... (301 words)

Should I hang out with my new guy friend or is it just not a good idea since I'm attracted to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

26 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf and I have been dating for a year now. Anyways, there is a guy I work with, I am attracted to. I get along with him great, we have almost everything in common. I know, you probably know where this might be going. I am not planning or leaving or cheating on my bf, I will ... (147 words)