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writes:I,m dating a guy but he doesn't want a relationship. But I don't understand it. He meets up with me when he can, we kiss, cuddle, trust each other, go on dates and we get on really well! I don't understand it to some people we're already in a relationship but he says he doesn't want one so we're not in one. I asked him what we were then and he saidd he didn't know. What are we??? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (12 October 2011):
 You need to figure out what you want from him, if you are happy about just being someone to hang out with well then keep going the way you are going, but if you are wanting something more well then you need to talk to him and tell him how you feel.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe've been dating over 4months
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (12 October 2011):
 If he doesn't know and you don't know how are we to know?
He's told you that he does not want a commitment/relationship.... sadly no matter what YOU want and what OTHERS THINK has no bearing on this. HE is not going to do what he does not want to do.
when he's free and you are free you spend time together. Since you are not saying you are having sex I won't say you are FWB but should you progress to having sex with him then you would be FWB and not boyfriend and girlfriend.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (12 October 2011):
He doesn't want the commitment that a relationship brings. If he is not in a relationship well then he is free to do as he likes and with who he likes. You don't mention how long you have both been dating each other, has it been a long time? If it has only been a few months well then just give it some time because some people like to take things slow before they get in to anything serious. But if you have been dating for a long time and things are still not moving forward well then talk to him and say he either needs to make up his mind or else you will move on.
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