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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hello,My ex crush is a massage therapy, nd I was there last week.He was then very nice nd calm, nd I felt that he wanted to talk more to me, but we talked little because I was nervous. He looked all the time into my eyes even when I looked into his. He smiled sometimes to me and sometimes his eyes were very soft when talking to me. I could see that he looked at me all the time and even at all my hand movements when we talked after the treatment. In the end of the treatment he told me that I am nervous of him and that I have to relax next time otherwise there is no use of the treatments, and I dont have to come if I am still nervous next time, becuase it's not good for me to be nervous. He repeated it...I answered him maybe I am nervous becuase it's my first massage therapy. And he repeated twice again that I am nervous of him and that I should relax...and in the end he said maybe you are nervous because it's your first massage therapy, but it seemed he didnt believe in this excuse.I told him I will text him on msn to make an appointment when to come to the next treatment, but it will be next week(which is this week)and I also told him that after this week I will maybe not be able to come anymore. He didnt answer, he only continued looking down on his papers, but I could see that he didnt like it, and maybe he became little sad too.This week (yesterday)when he was online on msn I texted him and thanked him for the good treatment in one very simple sentence. I waited for his answer (to say something like nice...or anything) but he didnt answer me. After three hours I went to sleep. So why didnt he answer me? Shall I text him and ask him when he has time so I could come to the next treatment? What should I do? Shall I continue to take treatments when he is my massage therapist? Does he have feelings for me? Or he doesnt like me and doesnt want me to take more treatments so he will not see me again?Please give me some advice. Thanks!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (11 October 2011):
 I cannot tell you if he has feelings for you or not without knowing this man personally. He is a professional massage therapist therefore I am sure he knows the correct way to talk and the correct behaviour to have and maybe you have mistaking this for him having feelings for you, there is nothing in your post to suggest that he was flirting with you or that he was interested. He could tell that you where nervous for whatever reason and I guess he was just giving you the option of not coming back if you didn't feel comfortable. It is up to you if you want another appointment or not. But don't base your decision on him or what could happen. Just look at him as your massage therapist and nothing else unless he takes things further.
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