A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I am 18.I have a big confusion that is bothering me, My ex and I know each other for 4 years.We've loved each other in spite of n number of break ups we have had [I think he loves me] Um, two weeks back we were trying to sort things in between us but that week he went out with his school friend (who had asked him out a few months back) to meet her.While he was with her he did not respond to my calls or texts and since I got frustrated I decided to break up with him and I sent him a text saying I was gonna break up.Then, I called him up n asked him why did he take so long to reply and he said "he gives his 100% to whatever he does" n that "she is just a friend".I feel that he has broken my trust for the fact that he took this girl to a romantic place(a lake) where he has never taken me n he never ever has given his 100% when he was with me.He has now started to text me often n is very sweet, and I dono what am i supposed to do since I am very hurt by him.
View related questions:
my ex, text Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (11 October 2011):
 Do you trust him? If you don't trust him well then there is no point trying to make this relationship work, as trust is an essential key. As for hanging out with this other girl, well he didn't lie about it and had told you the truth about where he was and who he was with, it is OK for a male to have a female friend and for them to hang out with each other at a lake, but if you don't trust him well then it is not going to work. I can't say weather you should trust him or not this is for you to decide. But just because he never answered his phone doesn't mean that he cheated on you. Some people put there phone to one side and ignore it when they are with friends because they think that it is rude to be on there phone. But if he doesn't show you that same respect talk to him and tell him how you feel.
|
