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*mh19
writes:Hi I need some advice I'm 19 years old and I think that my 31 year old science teacher might like me here are some things he doesHe always gives me nicknames and calls me by my surname2. If I’m sat at my table he always walks down in between the next table and mine and the stops and looks at me and then goes off and then does it again and sometimes he always sits opposite me for no reason.3. When he tells jokes he always looks at me see my what my reaction is4. He always makes fun of me5 iv seen him a couple of times looking at me6 today in science I asked what units were doing with him and he said reproduction and then says no we can not do practices for that I was like i wasn't even think that. Last week I asked if he is going to the year 13 ball and he he goes why you inviting thanks j I was like okRecently we have been doing experiments and he’s touch my hand a few timesOne time I was ment to go to sixthform parents evening but couldnt go so I phoned the office to get them to email him and the next day I went to his lesson and he goes where were you last night you stood me up and I said that my step dad had to go to work I did tell the office to email you and he goes well I stayed here all night For you to come I was like ok.If I’m listening to my iPod he always plays with it and Asks me what music I’m listening to.He doesnt do this witanyone else . I forgot to says hes married he hasnt got any childrenHope someone can help thanks and sorry I just would like to knowEven if he is i know nothing is going to happen . Reply to this Question
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reader, jmh19 +, writes (13 October 2011):
jmh19 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the help and Yeah I do kind of like him
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2011): I think he is flirting with you. At your age - 19 - and his age, he must know that you are old enough to understand that he is flirting, not just being friendly. If he doesn't do this to anyone else then I'd be even more sure of it. It does seem however that he is keeping just within boundaries ie. nothing really sleazy going on. But, this doesn't necessarily mean that he wants anything more from you...some guys just like flirting with younger women because it gives them - and sometimes the girl in question - a bit of a boost to get them through the day, that's all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2011): You're an adult and he might well be treating you like an adult rather than like a child and expressing some attraction towards you, quite possibly with no intent for anything further. That's pretty common in grownup workplaces. And even there it can become uncomfortable and stalkerish when done by some people.If you don't like the attention then do the adult thing and say so. You needn't be serious. A simple "Yeah, Dad meet my stalker teacher" in a mocking tone would be a suitable rejoiner to his comments about the parents evening. Or "another fine example of the professional behaviour one expects from teachers at this school". You get the idea.If he doesn't get the idea after a few of those then be forthright (be considerate too, because he may not be aware of his behaviour). "When you single me out for attention you make me feel like I am being chatted up, which is both uncomfortable because you are much older and inappropriate because you are my teacher. Please stay a bit further within the student-teacher boundaries so I can enjoy my time at school."
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (11 October 2011):
 I agree.. he's just a friendly naturally flirtatious guy... nothing more or less going on here..
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (11 October 2011):
 To be honest there is nothing from your post that makes me think that he likes you as anything more than a student. He may like you as a student and has a joke and a laugh with you but that is about all it is. I think you are looking at little things and making them out to be more than they actually are.
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