Dated him, dumped him, cheated with him, dated him again, I found out he was cheating, dumped him, then decided not to try again. But what if I should have? |
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writes:i liked this guy who use to be a player until he met me i dated him for a month, loved every min of it, and then i dumped him for my x.....a month later i ended up cheatin on my boyfriend for this guy, and then we ended up datin a month after that we dated a few times and then i found out he was cheating on me and i dumped him, 3 months later we dated again after about 2 weeks i got worried he was cheating on me. but he wasn't at the time, he told me we should try and see if he's changed, i dumped him, and now i'm wondering if it would of been different...i'm dating a diff guy now, he's great but hes just not him, and this other guy talks to me but were not as near close as we use to be and he told me are friendship is ruined, what do i do.....he says he doesn't wanna try again, only cuz he doesn't wanna cheat or hurt me...but what if hes the one....i can't get him out of my head, and these last few days its so crazy.....i have no idea what to do..plz help, sincerly confused :(
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (11 October 2011):
 It's extremely unlikely that he is the one. Really. I wouldn't worry any more about that and go on enjoying your youth and don't tie yourself down before you are really ready, okay? The amount of drama that has already unfolded indicates that you and he are not ready for a lifetime commitment just yet. That's okay, that's part of growing up.
The fact that he says he doesn't want to try again and says that he's afraid of cheating or hurting you is a pretty clear indication he's not ready to 'settle down.' Believe him. He isn't. Nor are you, if you have a boyfriend and are still dreaming of this guy.
There's virtually zero chance this guy is your destiny, I think. A player is a poor bet for a stable, longterm relationship.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2011): he's not the one if :
1. he cheated on you
2. he doesn't want to try again
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