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writes:So here's the thing, my boyfriend and I broke up over the weekend, but after realizing we really care about each other we re-titled it to a break, with the intention of working out our problems and getting back together. I really care about him, but I'm a little worried.Since the "breakup" every night I've had dreams about a guy who I dated for a week a year and a half ago. He was the guy I was "in love" with all through my high school carrer and we stopped seeing each other after a week because my ex (his best fried) lied to him about me seeing other people behind his back. The dreams aren't anything steamy, we're just hanging out, and he'll reach over and hold my hand,(which is as far as we got when we were together) and I just feel so happy, and I wake up happy. It's not that I go to bed thinking about him or anything, in fact since our week together I see him maybe twcie a month at friend hangouts, and it's not awkward or anything.I'm just wondering if I should be worried, I mean I can't control my own dreams, but I was planning on working things out with my most recent guy. Any ideas what this might mean??
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reader, Koala Bear  +, writes (11 October 2011):
 You are subconsciously comparing these two guys and it is illustrated in your dreams. You know your ex-boyfriend more so than his friend so you are more likely to dream of him. You two have history together and there are aspects of him you enjoyed. Those are probably the moments and scenarios you dream about. These two guys and best friends, and you are trying to know the other on the romantic level as well(at different timing of course). It's almost unavoidable for you not to compare these two. So overall, I don't think your dream is trying to foretell a message to you.
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