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writes:my husband of 7 1/2 yrs told me he was confussed and nobody in the house is happy, he deserves to be happy and left. the week he left he took off his wedding ring. after a month he filed for divorce. he says there is noone else. he is my true love, i love him with all my heart. i am devistated, hurt, angry, scared, you name it. i have 2 children, their fathers don't see them. he has 3 children that live with their mother. he don't bring them by when he has them and he doesn't come to see my 2 or call them. i feel like he just threw us away like garbage. how can a person just up and walk away and not care. our marriage i thought wasnt that bad. we were comfortable in the marriage, things could have been better but we just got caught up in the hustle of work and life. we knew what was lacking but he never bothered to talk to me, just walked out. he says we cant be together. it just wont work, we both tried, i thought we loved each other, i have no idea what happened.
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reader, KittieS  +, writes (11 October 2011):
 You should feel comfortable to say everything here and I feel your holding back on things.
Be honest open your heart and soul give all the details - I know that's very very hard even here
If you have been 100% honest your husband hasn't been. You must be in a very difficult hard situation but you can find strength to go through it.
Please don't hold back give your faults his faults in all, that way you will get honest opinions some will hurt like crazy but it will help you deal with this
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reader, RedAthena +, writes (11 October 2011):
 Im so sorry this is happening to you and your family.
I am sure his choice left you feeling unsure and broken. Are you able to seek a counselor for yourself to help you process your thoughts, feelings and grief?
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reader, *problems* +, writes (11 October 2011):
 What a waste!i do understand where your coming from! Didnt he ever open up to you? He could have atleast gave you a decent explanation after you giving 7 years of your life to this man! Well it just shows you how selfish someone can really be!! But also there could be more to it! He may not want to hurt you or he could have his own issues he doesnt want to drag you in to- i dont know! All i know is you have 2 beautiful kids who need your attention more than this man! Fair enough you loved him and its very hard letting go to someone when you dont understand fully why they left or how they can give up so easy! You just have to focus on yourself and not let this drag you down, and also make it clear that if he is willing to just walk out so easy that he cant walk back in and expect you to be there with open arms! You will move on from this though and be happy! And i hope this comment helped ! Sorry if it didnt :) goodluck though xxx
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