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writes:I am a girl and I masturbate. I'm a virgin and want to stay that way till marriage. I masturbate almost every night and anytime I'm alone which is usually a lot because my mom works. I even do it when my sister is in the house but she's never caught me. I also watch porn. I absolutely hate myself for this. I've tried to preoccupy myself but it doesn't work. I think this hate is making me feel worse in other parts of my life. I feel left out and alone even with friends. I felt that before and I think that's what started my masturbation habits. I want to feel like me again. How do I do it? About my porn habits: I look at it about the same as I masturbate. I don't have a computer and I look at it on my phone. Can anyone help me?
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reader, person12345  +, writes (11 October 2011):
 So stop the porn, put a block on your phone or something. But there's nothing wrong with masturbation so long as it doesn't interfere with your life. Masturbation is both normal and healthy, nothing to feel bad about.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (11 October 2011):
 sounds a lot like me at your age... I didn't have a computer or a cell phone so I would sneak into my parents room and read my dad's Penthouse magazines that he kept in his night table...
you sound quite normal to me.
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reader, GhostChild  +, writes (11 October 2011):
 This is perfectly natural. Almost all young people masturbate, especially at your young age when you're new to everything.
It's nothing to be ashamed of or to hate yourself over.
If it really is bothering you, the best thing to do is to find something to keep you occupied. Find a new hobby, join a club, do something that you enjoy that keeps you busy.
In the mean time, accep that this is a natural thing and the odds are, most of the girls you know at school probably do it too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2011): I'm 15 and I masturbate a lot also. I think it's normal. My mom has caught me several times and has told me to go with my feelings. She and dad are divorced and I know she does it also cause I can hear her sometimes. My friends masturbate also as they have told me. Don't worry about it. We are young. And it's normal.
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