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writes:well i'll try to shorten it...So i met this girl over a phone's game and we talked...we have a lot in common and i like her and she likes me. I asked her if she's interested in having a relationship because we're 2000 miles apart. She's not interested in a long distance relationship but not ruling anything out. She said she would have gone out with me already if we were closer. So two weeks ago she stopped playing that game so we stopped talking. I sent her a text asking what is it/if it's something that i did. She said no she's been busy. couple days go by and nothing from her. She said if i need anything she's a text away, and it's true she answers when i text her. The only problem i'm seeing is I can't be the one to start the convo. every time. If i wait for her, i feel it will never happen...So i don't know what to do...text her and it'll feel like i'm pushing it and needy, don't text her and i feel she won't text at all...I don't know it it's a phase she's going through or she's done with me and should get the hint. If she's done with me, how do i find out what it is that i have done?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for responding...I texted her and ask if i did anything to made her stopped talking...all she said was, she's busy, it doesn't seem a confident answer so i ask if she was in a no talking mood lately. She said yes and so i followed up with how long does it usually last, she told me to chill...that's the last time we talked. Now what?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (12 October 2011):
 you haven't done anything... you are 2000 miles apart and just talking and texting with someone...feel free to find another method of contact... texting is not the best way to have a relationship... what about email phone calls and skype???when I was a young girl we were taught not to be too forward with the men.. maybe she is open to your advances but not comfortable initiating them.
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