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How can I stop cuming so fast and make sex last longer?

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Question - (5 May 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 6 May 2011)
A male Germany age 30-35, *antheman92 writes:

well my gf and i have had sex a couple of times now, and i must say it was actually quite nice .. the problem is that i feel uncomfortable about being done faster than she is. i mean i didn't just stop i fingered her till she came too. but i would like the sex to last longer and perhaps have us cum at about the same time.

actually i dont really care, as long as im not done so fast anymore

please give me some tips faaaast!!

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A male reader, Dantheman92 Germany +, writes (6 May 2011):

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Dantheman92 agony auntthanks people i appreciate your tips and i guess ill try using them but first the period must leave :D

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A female reader, comeonjesusthishurtstoomuch United States +, writes (6 May 2011):

comeonjesusthishurtstoomuch agony auntI completely agree with jadedink, and trick daddy eat it up before you beat it up. Also manual ejaculation about an hour beforehand will give you the more time you need. I have had this problem with every partner and take it as a great compliment.

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A female reader, Jadedink Canada +, writes (6 May 2011):

Two condoms bad idea! That's dying for unwanted pregnancy... Now buying ribbed condoms on the other hand possibly

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A female reader, Jadedink Canada +, writes (5 May 2011):

Alright, this is definitely a common thing for all guys trust me. Also, half the time, the guy thinks he's not lasting long enough but in retrospect, girls take a long time to be worked up to it and a majority can't orgasm from actual sex. I am one of those girls. So, it's awesome that your the type of guy who cares about her pleasure too so here's some tips.

Foreplay! It's not just kissing and it's not just about you. Foreplay is probably the most important part of a girls orgasm because since most only orgasms from clitoris stimulation rather than penetration, they have to be stimulated.

Tips for this? Go down on her before sex, she will have an orgasm, and then sex after that will be good for her because since she was pre stimulated, every thrust when your bodies meet it will stimulate her again because she will be so tender down there.

Another tip for getting her off during the deed... Clitoris stimulation surprise surprise! Get her to rub herself down there while your on top pumping away, or if your in a different position, see if you cant rub her yourself. Go slow and take your time and wait until she is at the point where she is about to come, then you can pick up the pace and try to come together.

Just simple penetration wont, do it, and unfortunately there are no tricks to last longer other than practice and Viagra (the latter is stupid and i wouldn't recommend it) But if you want her to be pleasured, you have to start with her.

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