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writes:If a women is always the best looking in the crowd why does she keep reminding herself she is fat. Guys dont like a bone. We all have a type but we love attention and security not to get broken at heart. BEcause then we have to show sad emotions and "that is not what guys do" its not seem as manly. So why do women feel FAT when we keep telling them they are perfect for us the way they are. Not to change, Because that is why we love you . We love what we have. Please share your womens thoughts on this?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanx you. And its true we really get set of by insecurity. And I know there are some really bad gurks but if a women feels good. She looks good. Guys love attention. In bed and off.So take his hand in public to show that you love him. Really that works. And hug him not just in the room but when ever you feel you love him. And take care of yourself . But fat is not a problem. But not like 500kg @_@ haha . We love you women because that is how we are made. Attraction is our life. To sweets or whatever. Just saying Thanx. And I Know . Girls are attracted by the same things as men. Confidence and sexuality.( no need to be thin to be sexy)
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2011): It's mainly because we're too busy comparing ourselves to other women to realize they're fine just the way they are. I wouldn't go as far as to entirely blame the media for our insecurities, although that has a lot to do with it. They show us what the "perfect" woman is, and a lot of women honestly believe that since they don't look like that, they're ugly. What they don't seem to realize is those women have had multiple surgeries, are coated in makeup, hair extensions, and the list goes on. Anyway, even if none of that stuff existed, women would still be insecure and compare themselves to other women. We are just that competetive. On top of that, we read way too much into it when our boyfriends/fiances/husbands so much as even glance at another woman. We automatically assume he looked because he found her more attractive, then we either say it aloud or keep it to ourselves. A lot of us know we're being unreasonable, but it's like we just can't help it.
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (6 May 2011):
 Sigh.. it does my head in.. I tell women that men don't care, but they don't listen. Hope the ladies would read your post and realize that men are bored and put off by women who have body issues and lack self-esteem. It's not the fat or the lack of it, it's how you move and live with the body you got. Confidence is sexy.
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (6 May 2011):
 Because for eons upon eons the media tells us we are all FAT as cats. And yes it wears on a mans patience.
Women Unite!
Guys love us, they need us, they want us.
But they leave us, not because we're fat but because we're insecure. I've had fat men, bald men, thin and tall men.
Not once did I think about it. I've enjoyed their character, their charisma their caring and their cars LOL..
Some men have physical priorities, but most men want a good heart that weighs 2 tons.
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