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writes:Okay, so I'm only 14. I'm in middle school and I have a big problem. Okay, I know I'm pretty, I don't have a wonderful fasion sence, but no one can have everything. I'm not like a lot of girls, I rarely ever get crushes. A lot of boys like me, but I only want to be their friends. I do however, have a huge crush on a boy in my school. I have had a crush on him since 6th grade. He is kinda quiet unless he is around his friends, and girls don't usually have crushes on him. I know he liked me back in 6th grade. At the end of the year, on the very last day of school, I wrote him a note telling him I had a crush on him. I asked one of my friends that was also one of his friends to give it to him. I was in the same room, but I was hideing behind the lockers. I'm not very good with people, and I get embarresed easily. One huge down side was that I was moving halfway across america that summer. Because of that my friend had scribbled my number at the bottom of the note. When he got the note he showed it to his friends and laughed. I know he didn't mean that twards me though; he thought that one of his friends had wrote it as a practical joke. Well then I moved. I thought it was for perminate, but it turned out not to be, because at the end of last year my family moved back. It just so happened that he still went to that school, and that I would end up in every single one of his classes, and that the teachers would sit me next to him in all but one of those classes. He is kinda shy and didn't say a word to me, or look at me. While I had been gone my friends had told him that i really had liked him. He had also started to flirt with a girl in the class. Kinda of creepily, she could be my seperated twin at birth. But she is kind of mean, well to me. I know it's just because she is jealus of me, but I have never been mean to her. He would avoid me and wouldn't talk around me. Well when the girl tried to flirt with him when I was around he would snap at her. It makes me feel kinda guilty, but also kinda happy, because he effects me in the same way. Well now we are in 8th grade. Luckily I'm only in one of his classes now and it's an elective class that I only have every other day. Otherwise I would die from a hard attack, he makes me really nervous! Okay I have two really close friends, that care a lot about me. One of my friends started going out with his cousin. We didn't know he was his cousin for a long time. Well one day they were talking with me, and by then me and her boyfriend were really good friends, he is like my big brother. But anyway, they got it out of me that I really liked him, and now they are trying to set us up. Her boyfriend is really close to the guy I like. He told me that the boy liked me back, he just didn't know how to react to me. Normally he would walk as far away from me in the halway as possible, that is what he has did all year. Lately though, he has walked close to me, he even touched me as he walked by. Not like reached out and touched me, just brushed arms. He has stopped actting like he normally does. Instead of getting nervous and running, he is actting like I don't effect him any more. And this difference all happened within a day. Her boyfriend has talked to him about me, or is planning to. He keeps telling me that he likes me, but, today is when he started to act different. He was open and happy, and didn't avoid me pointedly. He glanced at me but only in flashes. I'm just confused. I feel stupid because I'm so akward, I want to not be akward! I want to know what is happening and if he likes me. I want to know if I'm just overeacting. It's been 3 years, I'm not obsessed. I just havn't liked anyone since. I have tried not liking him, it's just not working. I even tried to get myself to agree to dateing one of my guy pals that wants to be more than friends. I want to know if I'm crazy, and what is going on. Please help me. Thx!!!
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reader, hope_i_could_help  +, writes (6 May 2011):
 You will not know the answer, unless you ask him. Tell him about how you feel and ask him if he does also. Then, you will really know what's going on and there will be no confusion between you two.
ps: don't agree to dating anyone you do not like especially if you just want to make him jealous. Instead, he thinks that you are not interested in him anymore and maybe turn him off.
Just be true to yourself.
I hope I could help.
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