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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I can say that I am 100% in love with this girl because I've never met her in person. I'm 17 and I turn 18 in May, which is soon, and she just turned 15 this Feburary. She lives in NY and I live in CA. I want to be able to know for sure if I love her and if she loves me. I want to see her and I need to see her. I have family that lives in NY so this is a slight possibility that I can see her... but maybe not soon enough :/I've known her for a year and a half. We talk on facebook, make youtube videos for each other, we call each other, and we text EVERY DAY. We know each other well but at the same time, we're still getting to know each other. It's almost summer and I need money to get over there somehow. Giving up on her isn't an option. I'm fine with just being friends with her as long an I get to see her at least. What should I do about this and how should I do it?
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reader, hannah76  +, writes (5 May 2011):
 Hello, I'll just deal with the financial side to this.If you want to meet her then find out if you can stay with your family living in NY. If you can, then you need to find the price of the airline ticket plus spending money. When you know what it all costs, you have to find a job to save up for the ticket etc. If you don't have the money, then I'm afraid you wont be able to go. One advice though, remember the girl is only 15 and you are 17. This is a lot to wonder about love and stuff. It is a lot to both be wondering about. Why not, ask her family and herself if it is a good time to visit perhaps this summer and simply plan to arrive as a friend. Then see what happens. I wish you all the best.
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