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anonymous
writes:Hi guys :)I've been with my boyfriend nearly 8 months now and I do trust him but yesterday on his Facebook profile one of his friends (who I've never met but who he has talked about to me) left him a comment saying '... and I'll be home soon ;) x' because she's been away at college for the year.I understand they're friends but this really bugged me, I know I'm probably being irrational but it just irked me a little. He replied back grand and normal and then she replied 'you can hear a few of my tracks when I'm home if you're lucky ;)' and again that bothered me! I just felt like she was flirting with him and although he wasn't flirting back I felt really insecure.I'm not annoyed at him because it's not his fault but as his friend I just think she's being a little too flirty when she knows he has a girlfriend. I'm usually a cool girlfriend, I know he has female friends, a lot of them are my friends which is great but this just bothered me.My questions are am I being annoyingly paranoid/insecure? (It's ok to say I am ;)) and if not should I say something to him about it? :/
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reader, oliviaclairex  +, writes (5 May 2011):
 I understand completely! This girl commented on my boyfriends page saying she's back from uni for a bit, and she's like to see him, but added ';)' and made it flirty. And it really really got to me,
all you have to remember is that he wasn't flirty back, and he is with you.
Also, just say they meet up for a catch up which is fine, if you don't agree you have an excuse to say you're unhappy with it, because you can say 'well she was flirty with you online, and she new you are with me'. if you're comfortable doing that :) x
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (5 May 2011):
 Yes, I think you're being overly paranoid and insecure. It's ok not to trust her if you doubt her intentions, but if you have no reason not to trust your BF, then you should just let this go.
I would not recommend saying anything about this to your BF. It will cause problems where there don't need to be any.
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