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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:It may be a tad long but please! I never, ever. Used to be like this!? I can feel it's taking over me and quickly ruining me as a person and my social life with friends. These past few weeks i have become very, very guy crazy!! I cant not notice all the good looking guys EVERYWHERE i am, literally. The other day my friends and friends of friends, all told me i am very obsessed with guys (talking to them, texting them, meeting them etc.) and in fact, that they've noticed i find myself attracted to so many guys at once and always texting them. Apparently they said i can't go anywhere without thinking about guys and it's getting too much.One example of how bad it is, a guy told me he liked me and asked me out and i was going to go on a date with him knowing my best friend really liked him. I didn't because someone had to tell me it was wrong to her. But i was so absorbed and blind i didn't realise or care at the time.. i was going to carelessly go behind my best friend back over a guy!!?It's effecting my health, my parents have asked me quite a few times am i okay and that i seem spaced out and have noticed i've been having odd mood swings like i'm on edge, nervous then really happy and relaxed. I can't control these mood swings either. Even in class i can't work or think because i'll be thinking about all those guys i've met the few days before. Or i'll get anxious waiting for a reply back to a text from a guy and over think why aren't they texting me. Which really only took them 5 minutes!? I just can't stop thinking about guys and looking at them. It's eating at my brain and stopping me from concentrating on work and my education!!I just want to STOP thinking about guys period. I've tried, but i don't know how to. Having them take over my mind. It sounds ridiculous, but it is ruining me as a person and with everyone. I'm a far call from the person i used to be because of this :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2011): You should go see your doctor, this kind of behaviour may be an indication of a hormone imbalance or an illness. Any kind of drastic change like this is best discussed with your physician.
For the time being though buy yourself a vibrator and/or just start relieving your sexual frustration on your own.
Go to your doctor and start controlling your behaviour, being guy crazy is no excuse for nearly ruining one of your friendships. Start thinking more clearly, take step back and think before you do things and controlling your behaviour.
It's very important you control this, while you feel this way and while you act so desperate you're going to get into a lot of trouble and lack of control can lead to some very bad situations OP, so pull yourself together and go to your doctor.
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