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26-29,
anonymous
writes: Ok, i hope you guys can really help me. Because i am so confused, and i don't know what to do.Ok, so I'm in high school in yr 9. And there's this boy and he doesn't treat me very well, it is so not a crush! But I'm just confused about the way he feels about me, because i've heard and i've looked all over the internet that if a guy insults you then it means that he secretly likes you. And this boy definitely insults me, he is so horrible to me. And i've recently just told a teacher about what he does, and today at school when we were putting our work away, in a pile on the table that i was sitting at this boy put a hand on the back of my chair and lent over my shoulder, now i don't know whether that means anything but i felt as though he had felt something for me from how close our bodies were. And this has kind of freaked me out, so i am basically asking if him insulting me, means he likes me or anything of what i have written about what he has done means anything about what he feels about me.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (5 May 2011):
Err, no - A guy treating you horribly is usually a sign that he's an immature moron. There is a difference between teasing and just being a git. And he's being a git. Maybe he does like you, who knows? But the fact is he treats you like dirt, which means he's too immature, lacks respect, is untrustworthy and just needs to be left well alone. Be cautious that you don't become an abused girl - don't let the internet distort the way you view men. If a good guy likes you, he won't treat you badly.
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