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writes:My man doesn't take me out! We've been together a good five months, and he's never taken me for a meal, or anything of the sort. We've been for a few picnics and days out, but usually accompanied my his friends!I feel like I can't ask him to, as he wouldn't want to if he doesn't already, or it will make me look a bit silly.But I'm started to feel that if we constantly do the same thing, I'll get bored!I like being appreciated, and I don't ask for much, but I don't get treated at all!What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Miamine +, writes (6 May 2011):
 "Dear boyfriend, I'm bored being stuck in the house, I want to go out next Friday to a concert or something"
Find suitable entertainment you both can afford.
With some men it's just better to tell them what you want, they don't really understand that dating means going out.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (5 May 2011):
 The only thing that you can do is show him what you want. Sometimes hinting to men about what you want falls on deaf ears, so why dont you suggest something. Instead of doing the same things all the time with his friends why dont you suggest to him that the both of you go for dinner some night on your own when he is free. Its not a big deal really when you put it like that. I guess if he is not the one to take the lead well then maybe you should take the lead. Maybe he just isnt sure how to treat you. Or maybe he simply cant afford to take you out.
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