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30-35,
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writes:I have been having this strong urge to make love to my female friend. We had sex once before, but that was a drunken night... Now, every time she is around me, I become so sexually aroused to the point of my having to avoid her. She is one of my good friends, and she does know how she affects me. However, she does not want to have sex anymore (at least until we are both single). I dislike having to avoid her, and I don't want her to think that I am a pervert. What should I do?
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reader, Drat001  +, writes (6 May 2011):
If you've had sex with someone, drunk or not, you've had sex with that someone. If a person is straight, and I mean straight, not bi-curious, then they would not have sex with you. So, by having sex with you, she obviously had something insider her wanting that: alcohol only breaks down the wall between two rooms, it doesn't load either of the rooms with latent homosexual tendancies. So, if you like her, get some alcohol in her, not enough to get her pissed, but enough to loosen her up, and bring up the subject again. If she responds favorably, good for you. Then, when she's sober and in a position where you can talk one-on-one with her, bring up the subject again. By this time, unless she blacks out the moment booze hits her stomach, she'll probably have realized that the alcohol wasn't causing her to do these things, and who know what she'll do, but I'll say this, sober sex is way better than drunk sex, even if you're sober and she's drunk, it's much more exciting when both have their minds as well as bodies into it.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (5 May 2011):
 Are you in a relationship? How does that work out for you if you are so keen to have sex with another woman? Would you not be making your life easier if you were honest with yourself and became single, seeing as you are lusting after another woman?
I'm not sure if your friend is thinking you are a pervert, as much as she is thinking that you are horny for her. Which she brought upon herself by having sex with you.
Keep doing what you're doing, avoid her. She's no longer just a friend of yours as you had sex and you are lusting after her. Friends don't lust for each other. It is sad if it ruins the friendship, but at this point I think it already has.
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