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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm currently single and I'm not looking to get back with my ex. but what bugs me is I want to know what a girl means by "a kiss can mean nothing."When I finally got the courage to kiss her one afternoon after a bike ride around a lake and park (I thought it was a good time cause we were laughing and having alot of fun), I thought it would have been smooth sailing like my previous relationship; where after you got the first kiss in, more would come and be more natural and spontaneous. However that did not happen.I sometimes wondered why my first kiss didn't work to have her kiss me whenever I see her. I talked to her about it cause communication is key in every relationship. She said "Honestly I just don’t care much for it, I just want someone by my side." She thinks that the "feelings you feel for one another separates you from a friend." That being said, I asked myself why am I not good enough to be able to kiss her everyday or why I can't separate myself as her boyfriend from her regular friends? I wanted to be able to express those feeling with more than just a simple hug, the feeling of tenderness and loving for someone you really care about. She also said "A kiss can mean nothing; I don’t think it really symbolizes anything." I'm pretty sure that almost all girls believe that kissing is special, that it symbolizes and separates guys as your lover, a way to show our connection as a couple and away to show affection, and intimacy.What do you guys think?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (5 May 2011):
Yep - what Tisha says. You need to move on from her really.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (5 May 2011):
 I think it means that she didn't like you in the way you wanted her too. She didn't want to be too mean to you and tell you outright that she didn't want another kiss from you.
Sorry it didn't work out for you in the way you'd hoped.
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