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writes:hi everyone i really need help my head is a right mess atm i apolgise if its long but i want to give a clear picture.one of my friends is going out with this girl who is amazing.when i became friends with him i saw his girlfriend and added her on facebook and when i first saw her i thought she was cute but didn't look at her in that way because of my friend. over time we have gotten to known each oth a lot and my feelings have grown for her drastically. about a month ago we talked quite regularly and she started telling me about her my friend her boyfriend about that he "p's her off" because he thinks something is going on between us when there isn't (he's very over protective of her) he isn't a good friend either to his so called best friend who is now my best friend and same back. he is very selfish etc.his girlfriend was speaking to me and my best friend 2 days ago and she was telling me that she enjoys being with him when its only those two abd she then later told me that she doesn't want to be with him anymore. meanwhile she wasn't saying any of this to my best friend who shes known way longer. and she was talking to him about me and saying how good of a person i was. shes told me i'm a good listener and good to talk to. she always smiles and waves at me when she goes past me on the bus every morning and it makes me smile all day. and when we talk online she always says hello you with a smile.everytime i see her i feel so happy and get butterflies, i think she is so beautiful and i think about her all day everyday I have felt like this for about 2 months but i have always found her beautiful.does she like me?am i in love with her or is it just a crush?
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reader, Drew21  +, writes (5 May 2011):
 Eh, it sounds like it could go either way. She could definitely be into you.. She sure is paying you a lot of attention, and when she tells your friend one thing about being happy with her bf, and then tells you another.... That's suspicious!However, i always get a bit nervous when a girl breaks out the "you're a good listener, i love talking to you" line... For some women, that's you being labeled "just a good friend".However, if the boyfriend is jealous, then there JUST might be more then an interest in friendship there. Usually, where there's smoke, there's fire, right?I guess what you have to ask yourself is: Are you in love? It sure sounds like you've known each other long enough for this not simply to be a crush. It sounds like you believe there's potential there for a relationship. Personally, I would start dropping a couple of flirty hints and see what she says. When she logs online and says "Hey you", answer back "Hey Beautiful" or something to that nature.. See how she responds, and go from there. Throw out a few friendly compliments and see what you get back.
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