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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:i met my soulmate 3 years ago. when you know ,,you know. We were friends for 1 year.. than he took my son and i into his home. He has been divorced twice and hurt. I have never introduced my son till now when he was 8. He is 11 now.. He got us out of a very abusive home.. and we fell in love.. now 3 years later.. we have hit a bump... financial stress caused us to lose our home.. now we live seperately.. and i feel were losing our connection. He is my best friend. I love him. He loves me and my son.. but he is in debt from our life together from me not working due to personal issues with my son. His best friend was killed at 8.. I WAS physically and verbally abused many times.. He saved us.. and now I'm working back on my feet, and he's in debt. The passion is fading.. the love is still there. What can I do to make him believe I am not abandoning him,, he took care of us for 2 years.. Where do we go from here.. I want to help him..he wants nothing from me. I feel I owe him for saving our lives.. how can i make this right?
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (5 May 2011):
 Why aren't you still living together? I guess I don't understand why things 'hit a bump' and you have somehow lost your connection? He doesn't trust you anymore or something? All I can suggest is that you tell him how you feel and how much you want to make this work. Keep reaching out to him. Good luck to you.
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