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writes:I reall like a friend of mine. Few months ago we went through break ups which brought us closer together but even before then we were always very close. I knew he liked me from last year and when we both became single we just sort of got together (ish) I was very nervous it was a rebound but now after some time apart and seeing him again, I have realised that I am getting strong feelings for him. We have always been scared that a relationship could ruin our friendship as we are quite big personalities and we live in the same accomodation which also worries us. I don't even know if he feels the same way about me and if he would want to take it further, I am so scared to ask him incase I get rejected and make it awkward between us. After the holidays, I spent the night with him and he told me that he has missed me and it felt right being with me. I think maybe that is a good sign? What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (5 May 2011):
I think probably it was a good sign.
One thing is for sure - if you don't do something about this, this will haunt you for a long time and prevent you from moving on. I think if you do care for this guy, and want to be with him, it's worth risking your friendship. At least then you'll know the truth and be able to move on.
Because, what you don't want, is to not find out then have it lingering around in your mind in 20 years. That leads to cheating, marriage collapse etc.
So, risk the friendship and find out where it will lead. If it doesn't work out, that's sad but you'll be able to move on. If it does, great.
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