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writes: Having been a cruise last year and made a complete fool of myself chasing a man half my age I KNOW I was wrong. This year I decided to book a completely different company for the itinary I wanted however last week I got a letter saying the company had cancelled it as it was going into service or soemthing-will get the depost back.Looking for the same itinary another shiop belonging to the first cruise company where I went last year is doing the same itinary for the date I can go but a different ship than last time. I have booked and paid a hefty depositJust today I got an e mail from two dancing teachers who go on the ships to teach and said the bloke I am talking about is on the different ship that I have just booked-they were also on the original ship so knew him from there and the dancing teachers and I have kept in occasional e mail touch. So now it seems I am going on the same ship that guy is on now-my friends say DONT cancel it-why shoudl I lose the cruise and deposit and just go on BUt this time behave myself and just be polite to everyone.I must admit I am reluctant I KNOW I can behave and pretend I dont even see him etc BUT if he sees me he might start talking aboyut me to the others or whatever shsould I just go its not for another 7 months and it will be ast the end of his contarct so he can hardly say Ive followed him as he would have already been on there 6 months. To be honest I dont see why I shouldc ancel and I promise Ill behavePlease help me?Thanks Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (30 April 2011):
Yes, go on the cruise. And have fun! Also, chasing a man half your age isn't wrong so long as he and you are single. But out of respect, make sure you are polite and such.
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