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writes:Hi there.I have two questions, I really need help on this.My friend introduced me to a girl and unfortunately I have not met her, yet. We have been texting each other a lot and we have become friends. But heres the problem, I really like her, really really like her even though I have not met her. Is this weird?I am meeting her on Monday and I really don't want to mess things up. I am 17 and I am very shy. She is a year younger than me. I do not know what the do's and don'ts of a date. What should I do? Please help, anything would be great.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (30 April 2011):
 Well you have been texting each other and by the sounds of it you have both been getting on really well so this is a good start. You will be nervous on monday but this is healthy. Even though you are shy just remember that she is only another human being. Dont make any advances on her on the first date. Just play it cool. Be a gentle man and try and get to know her more. Ask her questions about herself and figure out what she likes and doesnt like. Goodluck.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (29 April 2011):
 Be yourself
offer to buy her a soda or an ice cream or something like that
maybe sit and talk or take a walk
relax...
enjoy her company
I'd not try to kiss her or put your arm around her the first time you meet...
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